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Bro, if you financial status is ok to provide for her, her school nd the unborn child, I think you should keep it...beside taking someone life is never an option...

Propose to her with a ring
Girls love rings

clive2u:
Propose to her with a ring
Girls love rings

Done that

We no dey there when you dey do the do. Now you are disturbing us with what you should do.

Natoski5:
Bro, if you financial status is ok to provide for her, her school nd the unborn child, I think you should keep it...beside taking someone life is never an option...

The issue now Is the stress she be facing in school. She can't attend classes cus of pregnancy sickness

What to do — please support her decision.


1. She doesn't want to be a mother right now.

2. She's at a great risk of quitting or stopping school.

3. It's her life at danger of pregnancy and abortion.

So unless there's a way you can carry the pregnancy and birth the baby yourself, there's nothing you can do but to respect and support her choice. Do not force her abeg.

SageMK:
What to do — please support her decision.


1. She doesn't want to be a mother right now.

2. She's at a great risk of quitting or stopping school.

3. It's her life at danger of pregnancy and abortion.

So unless there's a way you can carry the pregnancy and birth the baby yourself, there's nothing you can do but to respect and support her choice. Do not force her abeg.

I can't support or be a party to murder because she knows the implications of engaging in premarital sex but she went ahead now she wants to abort an innocent child and you said it's her choice/decision to make?? No!! that's a big lie from the pit of hell, you both are response to whatever happens to that child so think wisely before you act...This is your first blood bro which is very significant and don't ever joke with this kind of things..

If she can cope with sex while schooling then she should be willing to take responsibility with whatever comes out of it, simple!!! God what's happening someone who still reason like a human being wouldn't even have abortion as an option..It your duty to stop her from during such her being in school isn't an excuse, she is not the first and wouldn't be the last yet many of them are graduates today..

Say no to Abortion!!!

Did you call us when you two were fvcking

Let her drop school..... she can always resume after giving birth. Let her people know about the pregnancy and your intentions to marry. No doubt... they will be upset.. but like bad weather... they will soon regain their senses. What happens if the abortion goes wrong? Even if all goes well.... do you really believe you will sleep well at nights with blood on your hands?.... and her?... is it something she will soon forget? Do you know having an abortion can cause her not to bear another child? Don't do something that can't be undone. Keep your hands clean bro.....later on in life you will look at the child and still be thanking me!

I don't understand how a woman you sponsor most of her education.

A woman you are "thinking" about wedding soon, will want to terminate a baby you both have.

Is there more to this story?

Sometimes I pity you guys though.

You do not want a baby and the woman wants it, you are expected to pay child support.

You want a baby and the woman doesn't want it, you are expected to support her through the abortion process.

There is not much you can do, she holds all the aces.

I am not a fan of abortion. If I get pregnant now, I am so having that baby.

funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend is about a month pregnant and she's in school. She now wants to terminate the it because she can't cope with it in school (we had both agreed she would keep it) and I don't want her to terminate it cus I want the baby. (We both do) I'm even thinking about doing our wedding soon.(But some family issues came up. So we can't go on with d wedding for now) now she wants to terminate the pregnancy but I don't want her to nb terminate it and i also understand because it's not easy combining it with school. So she said it's either she terminates the pregnancy or she stops school (which she doesn't want to and me neither) I don't want her stopping school because of my request (even though I'm doing most of the sponsorship in her school)

What do I do?

Tough times doesn't last but tough people do. That's a fact. There's nothing scary as your wife is pregnant but you don't have a dime but when it is girlfriend then it is a nightmare. You got to toughen it out but no matter what you do don't abort the baby it maybe difficult now but as times goes on you will realise what a blessing the baby will be in your life but an aborted baby may turn out being a lifetime regret. I believe you are already a working class. Married pregnant women do attend school and most still graduate with their set, it is no different when you are unmarried but the psychological bondage, "I am unmarried" Your fiancee should find the options available for pregnant students,in her school. You have have to really be a strong support for her this time because it will be a difficult time for her if you have to keep the baby she is the one bearing the blunt of what two of you enjoyed.An advice, everybody wants big wedding but you should cut the crap of big expenses in marriage because in few years time nobody remembers how big was your wedding but you. Go to her family, do the minimum introduction and she is your wife, the family may be angry but at this stage they don't have a choice



On a lighter note I hope you know you've already bought your dick a lifetime gift. Don't come here in a few years time and tell us she has a baby for me but I don't want to marry her or I love another. You are now officially off market pronto. Happy Married life

funkmrflexx:

Done that

dont have any other thing

pocohantas:
I don't understand how a woman you sponsor most of her education.

A woman you are "thinking" about wedding soon, will want to terminate a baby you both have.

Is there more to this story?

Sometimes I pity you guys though.

You do not want a baby and the woman wants it, you are expected to pay child support.

You want a baby and the woman doesn't want it, you are expected to support her through the abortion process.

There is not much you can do, she holds all the aces.

I am not a fan of abortion. If I get pregnant now, I am so having that baby.

oya come to zaddy

Tell her if she aborts it, she can die in the process and you will have sex with another woman and life goes on

Originalsly:
Let her drop school..... she can always resume after giving birth. Let her people know about the pregnancy and your intentions to marry. No doubt... they will be upset.. but like bad weather... they will soon regain their senses. What happens if the abortion goes wrong? Even if all goes well.... do you really believe you will sleep well at nights with blood on your hands?.... and her?... is it something she will soon forget? Do you know having an abortion can cause her not to bear another child? Don't do something that can't be undone. Keep your hands clean bro.....later on in life you will look at the child and still be thanking me!

Telling her to stop the school is not the issue. But I don't want it to seem like I'm selfish. And I want to hinder her education because the pregnancy