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Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Offpoint: 8:05am On Jul 15, 2019
Thank God I only read the heading and comments
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by lereinter(m): 8:14am On Jul 15, 2019
She's not interested





Even if you did it, you might not see her again.
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Eyeness: 9:14am On Jul 15, 2019
Yoloboy098:
We met one Saturday afternoon in my area ... We exchanged contacts and started texting each other.. I told her about my interest in dating her but she made a statement I cannot forget.. she said she doesn't need love from any guy.. I felt maybe it's due to past relationships that never worked out with her because in our conversations she talked about having some relationships that just didn't work out because she was getting tired in the relationships...

Fast forward.. after a week to two of phone calls and texting .. she came on a visit to my apartment.. I brought up the issue of we getting along together but she said no she wasn't in love with me.. she told me she don't want anything to happen between us.. she said she only like me as a friend but she don't like me for a relationship..

While trying to calm her down into believing my words of treating her right with a good heart.. I realized that while playing with her hairs and running her neck slightly .. she was getting more relaxed by resting more comfortably on the bed.. I made a move on her and gave her a kiss.. she first waved her head away but I went for her cheeks and started kissing her cheeks and neck.. she was getting more relaxed and never pushed me away.. I made a move for her boobs and brought it out and started sucking it and she started moaning and rubbing her hands on my head.. I moved my right hand down.. pull up her gown and made a move for her pussy.. I used the tip of my middle finger to shift her pant and dip my finger into her pussy.. she was already dripping wet and I continued sucking her nipples while rubbing her clitoris faster and started fingering her.. she increased her moaning...

I shifted up a bit to pull off my boxers but she stopped me.. she asked for a condom.. I told her I was not having any but I will make sure I won't realease my sperm into her.. she changed her mood and insisted that if at all we were going to have sex that she wouldn't do it without protection.. after much persuading she still refused . she got up and dressed.. after few minutes of talking with me she said she was ready to leave..

I walked her off .. she even refused to collect the money for bike from me.. she said she has enough change with her.. she got a bike and left.. I sent her a text on WhatsApp to ask if she's home.. I realized that my message only dilivered without being received because of the single mark sign.. I have been calling her but everytime the call goes through instantly it says number busy which is a sign of barring my line

Please nairalanders.. what could make a girl be acting like this
She is sensible, simple. she knows what she wants and you're not it at all. You refused to see the signs that she wasn't interested.

That a lady is relaxing doesn't mean anything, if her mind is not in alignment and she is disciplined then sleeping with her without getting consent is tantamount to rape.


kudos to the girl tho
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Eyeness: 9:15am On Jul 15, 2019
spongeisback:
So what's the problem here? She refused to have unprotected sex with you and she refused your money. So what exactly did she do wrong
i tire for op
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Eyeness: 9:19am On Jul 15, 2019
Yoloboy098:
read the write up well.. it's not about the sex but reason that could make her barred my line and block me on WhatsApp after she left.. that's what I'm asking
simple! you think with your dick and not your brain. she told you she is not interested, she didn't want to have sex. When her body betrayed her,and she asked for protection, you were still thinking with your dick. A man that does not have self control, that cannot take no for an answer is an immature man and very dangerous.
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Eyeness: 9:21am On Jul 15, 2019
RAGGA40:
She barred your line because she's ashamed of what transpired between you and her, in her mind she views herself as a cheap slut.
She is not ashamed, neither is she a cheap slut, she is a true lady who knows her worth. she knew that sex with op was bad news and isn't worth it
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by T3ndrils: 9:42am On Jul 15, 2019
Honestly... OP, how would you think she would value you after all these ways you were forcing yourself on the poor fellow...? now the thing is she feels she was so easy as this guy she didn't even value tried to make his way...

Even if you had that sex, that would've been the last time you'd ever see again, infact she might even accuse you of rape later on.. condom or not, if she was even attracted to you at all, you guys would still have it.. Guy, you were just too easy for her and girls are not attracted to what is easy to get.. you think it's only girls that play hard eh..?

Don't loose your masculinity just because of her. Meet new ones and have many options, then will you realize what you've been missing and after that you might even regret making this kind of thread...
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Skmoda360(m): 10:51am On Jul 15, 2019
TimFisher2:
undecided

Mr Man don’t call her again,don’t even stalk her,just remove your mind from her.

Bet me after two weeks without hearing from you,she will land in your house like vulture

Just go and buy two packets of condom now and keep in anticipation!
Op this is the answer to your question
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Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:26am On Jul 15, 2019
RAGGA40:
She barred your line because she's ashamed of what transpired between you and her, in her mind she views herself as a cheap slut.
I feel ur words bro..
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:27am On Jul 15, 2019
abdeiz:



She felt she betrayed herself by letting you almost take the cookie, so she has to overcome that shame and reaffirm her conviction not to fall for you or her primal instincts aka Konji.
Nasoo u get valid point bro

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Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:28am On Jul 15, 2019
falcon01:
son of a b*tech are you trying to make me Hot? well guess what Motherfucker, It worked!





besides why you mumu yourself no keep condom for inside room? This kind opportunity no dey pass me at all... lot of them girls have boyfriends and will still f*ck you.. so always be ready.
Noted
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:30am On Jul 15, 2019
amakadihot87:
I regret reading this waste bin ,worst of all is that I read it on a beautiful Monday morning..........Lord pls forgive me
Please when Elephants are gathering.. dogs don't bark..
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:31am On Jul 15, 2019
Korllami007:


The problem is very easy to solve na, which is leave her alone and look for other girls na. Abi na boys only environment you de live ni? If you see her offline, acted as if nothing happened between you guys or you just meet a random girl for the second time, which is saying hello to her and go your own way. Without any doubt, you will leave her in confusion, which means there is higher chances she will call you back because she will be expecting you to start worshiping her the moment you see her, like, "Hey, babe. You got me worried about you since you left my side. I've been calling you but I couldn't get through to you. I've been trying to get in contact with any of your friends so that they can help me talk to you. Whatever happened that day, I'm really sorry".
To be candid with you, if you say this nonsense, that's the moments you start washing your destiny inside mud because of p**sy simply because you're feeding her ego. Her pride from 80% will sky rocket to 500%.
The girl just want to have fling with you that day and it doesn't go well with her, and she thinks that there is no point having you around because she doesn't want any relationship with you initially. Abegi move on to other girls in your environment and have several options so that you will stop thinking on how a girl block your number.
Noted
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:33am On Jul 15, 2019
femi4:
Op with the details .....you ve lost her cos you wanna fvck without condom. She's afraid you might be carrying stds, She sees you as a RISK. Perhaps, that's how you fvck random girls around your area without protection.
same way I bleeped ur sister Pushiee
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:34am On Jul 15, 2019
SaucyBenks:
young man... Follow the advice the second person that Commented on this post gave you..

But open a new thread after she appear like a vulture after a week plus, I love hearing this kain stories grin


You see that ToTo? You MUST Bleep am... Trust me, she dey come back... No be women again? Hahahahahhahahahahaha!!!
I dey feel u baba.. u too much
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:35am On Jul 15, 2019
Eyeness:
She is sensible, simple. she knows what she wants and you're not it at all. You refused to see the signs that she wasn't interested.

That a lady is relaxing doesn't mean anything, if her mind is not in alignment and she is disciplined then sleeping with her without getting consent is tantamount to rape.


kudos to the girl tho
ok go and help her to file a rape case at court.. One bolt don't lost for your brain if u no know
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:36am On Jul 15, 2019
Eyeness:
simple! you think with your dick and not your brain. she told you she is not interested, she didn't want to have sex. When her body betrayed her,and she asked for protection, you were still thinking with your dick. A man that does not have self control, that cannot take no for an answer is an immature man and very dangerous.
u talk too much
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:38am On Jul 15, 2019
Eyeness:
She is not ashamed, neither is she a cheap slut, she is a true lady who knows her worth. she knew that sex with op was bad news and isn't worth it
dogs don't bark in the gathering of Elephants.. So shift
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 11:40am On Jul 15, 2019
T3ndrils:
Honestly... OP, how would you think she would value you after all these ways you were forcing yourself on the poor fellow...? now the thing is she feels she was so easy as this guy she didn't even value tried to make his way...

Even if you had that sex, that would've been the last time you'd ever see again, infact she might even accuse you of rape later on.. condom or not, if she was even attracted to you at all, you guys would still have it.. Guy, you were just too easy for her and girls are not attracted to what is easy to get.. you think it's only girls that play hard eh..?

Don't loose your masculinity just because of her. Meet new ones and have many options, then will you realize what you've been missing and after that you might even regret making this kind of thread...
Mr Alpha male we don see u.. u talk too much .. is it your masculinity
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by rex444(m): 11:41am On Jul 15, 2019
desiregold:
Op, some of us are cold and alone on our beds...,

please, save us the details of how you sucked her breast and how you inserted your finger in her wet v.jay. smiley. Pity us small.

Now, back to matter at hand, Give her time, when everything is settled, invite her over for a talk. But, this time..., make sure you have condoms, in your house.

Every sexual active single adult should always have condom in their house.
for once av met an honest babe
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by enuk80(m): 11:46am On Jul 15, 2019
Celestial777:




Finish the story ...
You later masturbate with the remaining detergent in the House

I swear na ur comment funny pass

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Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by T3ndrils: 11:49am On Jul 15, 2019
Yoloboy098:
Mr Alpha male we don see u.. u talk too much .. is it your masculinity

Now this is where you're wrong... I don't consider myself such.

The fact that you refuse to take correction shows you are still under the influence of your horniness. I pray she never agrees to even lay her eyes on you again.
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Carlyboi(m): 12:03pm On Jul 15, 2019
Bro u don miss be that the only chance I had with that girl was nsa since she doesn’t want a relationship with you according to you but you blew by going to fast on her first visit and killed it by not having a condom handy.Women’s psyche is kinda strange sometimes so I won’t rule out she coming back to you but the chances are slim.Next time strike when the iron is hot and in case you don’t have your CD handy just don’t get feely-touchy cos she saw you as mood killer and a wussy that day she gave you a shot on a platter but you ballooned it Man.Lol!

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Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 12:03pm On Jul 15, 2019
T3ndrils:


Now this is where you're wrong... I don't consider myself such.

The fact that you refuse to take correction shows you are still under the influence of your horniness. I pray she never agrees to even lay her eyes on you again.
Noted
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by palmshots: 12:57pm On Jul 15, 2019
Just free her for a while ,cut all connections with her...Even when u see her just act unbothered abt what happened... Trust me she wud def be back with her dripping wet wet!! grin...N then don't forget to smach her Silly
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 1:08pm On Jul 15, 2019
Carlyboi:
Bro u don miss be that the only chance I had with that girl was nsa since she doesn’t want a relationship with you according to you but you blew by going to fast on her first visit and killed it by not having a condom handy.Women’s psyche is kinda strange sometimes so I won’t rule out she coming back to you but the chances are slim.Next time strike when the iron is hot and in case you don’t have your CD handy just don’t get feely-touchy cos she saw you as mood killer and a wussy that day she gave you a shot on a platter but you ballooned it Man.Lol!
Baba u too much .. u no lie
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Yoloboy098: 1:09pm On Jul 15, 2019
palmshots:
Just free her for a while ,cut all connections with her...Even when u see her just act unbothered abt what happened... Trust me she wud def be back with her dripping wet wet!! grin...N then don't forget to smach her Silly
nasoo man.. I go smash her silly and hot hot cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Carlyboi(m): 1:13pm On Jul 15, 2019
Yoloboy098:
Baba u too much .. u no lie
Correct just chill and observe her don’t try to reach her forget her totally that way you’re gonna have the trump card again so whatever her next step is you’re gonna have an edge and won’t give a Fvck!
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by franklingud(m): 2:49pm On Jul 15, 2019
desiregold:
Op, some of us are cold and alone on our beds...,

please, save us the details of how you sucked her breast and how you inserted your finger in her wet v.jay. smiley. Pity us small.

Now, back to matter at hand, Give her time, when everything is settled, invite her over for a talk. But, this time..., make sure you have condoms, in your house.

Every sexual active single adult should always have condom in their house.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


In Chris Brown's voice "WET WET WET WET WET WET"...



Conji everywhere
Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Fredchisom(m): 6:39pm On Jul 15, 2019
You can't just stop laughing

Re: Why do girls do this to guys .. by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jul 15, 2019
Yoloboy098:
dogs don't bark in the gathering of Elephants.. So shift
you think you are an elephant, you are nothing more than a mouse.

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