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Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Darevofpeace(m): 5:54am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih:Big Daddy,if you are a Christian, I would advice you to set a new ' altar of sacrifice ' unto God Almighty. It could be in the form of sacrificial giving to the Orphans, Widow or the sick.That your handsome son has got great destiny far ahead of his peers and the devil is bent to steal some. A burning fire of sacrifice every Month sets a flaming fire around Sons of God and exposes all secret and future plans of the demonic Kingdom around them. I had been using this weapon of spiritual battle for 20yrs.now and my destiny has taken a positive dimensional change. The fire of the altar must never be put off.Your prayer life must never grow cold. Be steadfast in the Lord and keep your family against all future demonic conspiracies. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Jbleenk: 5:56am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Truth is it’s little u can do since he’s exposed to this already. I really don’t think there’s a logical or spiritual way to deal with issue like this that would make him desist from it honest speaking. We all did this growing up. What u can’t say is if actually they’ve been engaging in penetrative sex which at that age is too early. Most u can do is talk to him about it and watch his every move home and in school. We all eventually get expose to sex at some point in life but his is too early something went wrong somewhere. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by helpnigeria: 5:57am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Hello Timih, There are things you must do today: - Send your Maid away(Your son can't be the one assaulting her...she is 14 he is 7 Impossible) - Tell your wife - arrange for your son to see a child psychologist -Tell your son the truth which is he hasn't got to the age of involving in sexual activity so moving forward if he is ever see doing that again you wont give him his favourite thing! whatever that is... All the best 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by shine12: 5:58am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Deal with this ASAP. I had an ongoing sexual relationship with our housemaid from at least age 7. Especially when my parents were not at hme and having my bath. She was probably in her late-teens(18 yrs)then. It's now that I think of it, I'm like what the hell was that. I sit next to her far away from my parents and we touch each other. These kinds of stuff happened to many boys in homes with housegirls or even from teachers. I don't think my parents knew till today at least they never discussed it with me or maybe they found out and dealt with the help. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by JustCryptos: 6:00am On Jul 16, 2019 |
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Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by riczy(m): 6:01am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Use questions young ppl ask , answers that work. Published by J.witnesses. pray with him,lay much emphacy on d magnitude on d "act". Feel free to lovingly interrogate him. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by deltateam: 6:03am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Aidejay: I agree. When I was growing up, I did something similar with a neighbour's daughter. In that case, the girl was the one that initiated it. The father caught us and whipped the fear of God into us. I never did it again. Better flogging dey reset brain. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Ybaby: 6:07am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih: At poster, My heart goes out to you. 1. You are not a bad father - you are actually a father who pays attention - applaud yourself for that 2. You are his father - develop a paddy relationship with him 3. Take him to a fun place where you can eat and talk - tell him what you saw - watch his reaction - let him know he has been abused not enjoyment 4. Tell him it is normal for a man not a boy to want a woman but he is a boy and this will prematurely dent him 5. Do not be up tight so he does not rebel let him watch TV etc 6. He may need to see a therapist to work it out with him I pray you are able to save your son |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Nobody: 6:12am On Jul 16, 2019 |
You have failed as a father to your son. But you are successful as a friend. And I think you are not supposed to have children yet because you are not mentally evolved to be a father. And to all Fathers reading this; If you ever treat your child as your pal, as your friend even as an equal then you have failed. A father is NOT a friend to his child. A father is an Alpha male who must use the Stick and Carrot approach to raise a family. Your children must tremble at the hearing of your footsteps and smile after you have spoken to them. That is how to raise alpha males. Even if you are wealthy, you must not give them all that they need, you must ensure that you teach them to earn every penny you give them. E.g. mow the lawn for pocket money. Wash the toilet for a new set of boxers and run errand for an extra computer games time. Your weakness is not that you love your son but that you expose that love by making him your pal. The moment you suspected that boy the first time. You would have given him 6 strokes of the cane and I mean 6 solid strokes that must make him cry the hell out. Now you caught him again and you stupidly ignored again and you want to send the girl away without beating the devil out of both of them and giving a stern warning as a father should do. You are a disgrace. Do not ever make more babies until you study how to raise a winning offspring cos that kid might grow up to be a ill in the society. Please get those kids seated and get every answers from them. Punish both of them seriously and then inform the girl's parent Even if it is your son's fault. Say it as it is and protect none of them. If you need advise on how to be a man, then study how to be one from alpha males. It is the lack of alpha males character in men that make women loose confidence in their spouse and Bleep outside. Your wife can be your friend but Definately not your child. I am upset with you so bad that I can say so many things but I will not because you have already admitted your stupidity. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Ybaby: 6:14am On Jul 16, 2019 |
PinkHealthGroup: The maid has probably been molested by her former madam's son because at 14 she should not know any thing herself. Abuse is a ripple we must all stand up against. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Obim2020: 6:24am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Sit him down and pray with him first. Then proceed to educate him on the dangers of early pregnancy to both a boy and a girl. Effects of sexually transmitted infection 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by briggson07(m): 6:25am On Jul 16, 2019 |
[quote author=ichidodo post=80297784] Well, this is a fine kettle of fish...Clearly, your son has got a wild streak in him and with the heavy proliferation of 'porn' themes in our civilization today,including, a willing partner in your maid who doesn't know better. This has turned in to the 'mosquito perching on the scrotum' situation thus you must thread carefully here. Because any hasty and careless move here will definitely f**k a lot of sh**t up...that of scarring a 14 year old for life and turning your kid into a scheming well hardened sexual predator and a budding paedophile like Pastor Fatoyinbo of Coza.This is the point where you call in the specialists...child psychologists......who can equip you with the required tools to mentor these unfortunate souls out of their unforeseen predicament.[/quote How do u do this colorful magic |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by sweetrace(f): 6:26am On Jul 16, 2019 |
DameB: Amen and you too! |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Virusnation: 6:28am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Kids learn bad things easily, I remember I also started mine possibly earlier or even at that age.. we usually do hide and seek ...while in the process we touch and hug each other n other stuffs like that.. The right step is to take the girl home, observe his external friendship... make sure you prevent him from the chances of meeting opposite sex for now.. If I were You, I would have confronted him immediately so that both will take corrections ....whatever u tells him now 'll be more of stories |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by dfrost: 6:30am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih: Bros, sorry to say this but it is parents like you that spoil children. Same thing happened to my boss. Imagine 10+ yo boy watching adult rated movies. Before the father knew, same thing he was saying - my son is smart. No child is smarter than the parents or his peers. It's normal for children to be curious and learn fast at young age. Little wonder the Bible said train up a child in the way you want. When he grows, he won't depart from it. Continue treating him like your nigga. Well done. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by DonaTee(f): 6:32am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih: It shouldnt have included Bathing him. Thats when it all Starts. Having to wash his peepee n pulling it.....some out of curiousity or prior experience by the girl. A 7yr old should be able to Bathe him self. Pls call him and talk to him in every way you can. Get information from him. Call the girl separately n do same before Sending her away. He needs to see a Child psychologist too. Also engage him in chores and activities that give less time to think or engage in unwholsome activities. My little experience...... Í Was watching a movie it got to a romantic scene of holding hands, holding gazes But no kissing of any kind, só í didnt bother to change the Chanel But my son started giggling. Í asked him why he said he's enjoying the movie, í Just removed the programme. Then he told me the programme made his wee wee to bê strong. He Was Just 5yrs+. Í Dont Leave him at home with any cousins and all that and í eavesdrop on all his convo with older cousins that come visiting. If im not with him, his dad or grandma is with him or he's in school. We bê doing that since he Was born. Í realised that sexual feeling is innate But when given opportunity it can develop before time with unhealthy exposure and these are things they Did innocently without being corrected . Since that day in my house no movies whatsoever. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Lekanbery: 6:33am On Jul 16, 2019 |
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Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by KIDfurniture(m): 6:35am On Jul 16, 2019 |
7 years old already squeezing real female breast.. are you sure he didnt pick up the act from you the father? What goes around comes ,around. Anyways send the girl away first... head straight to your son's school and find out if he is doing the same to girls in school? I feel so sorry for u man. The world is up side down right now. Lead him to Christ please. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by PrickGetSize(m): 6:36am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Why the house girl no see me rape? I just dey here dey waste. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by 1Sharon(f): 6:36am On Jul 16, 2019 |
A 7yr old being bathed by a teenaged female. Nice one 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Imustreturn(m): 6:38am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih:are you in Twitter? |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Lenny9000(m): 6:39am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Calm down my brother! Calm down! You have not FAILED as a Father! Repeat after me, YOU HAVE NOT FAILED! You and your wife have not failed! So go a bit easy on your selves. I live in the EUROPE and have two kids 9 and 8 Boy and a Girl.. Luckily they are still very Innocent about all that. The boy is way too interested in his Lago stuff and cartoon movies and the girl too. Like you I made him my Friend and speak to him like my mate and when it's time discipline I decipline them. But one thing I don't fail to do everytime is tell them how much I LOVE Them, and never to LIE to me. So since they were toddlers I imprint that in them. I told them they are my Best Friends. We even have a Cooking Team, just the 3 of us without their Mum. So we Cook and Bake different stuff.. They are my life and World.. Yet I sometimes Worry, Especially with all the News about RAPE, SEXUAL MOLESTATION coming out of Nigeria, but I have to take Solace in the Fact that I am doing my very best same as their mother. God forbid if any Crazy thing should happen, I won't Beat myself or feel like I have Failed as a Father because I am doing my Best to Show Deep LOVE, Decipline and Spend quality time with them. I said all that because I can only see that you are a good Father who is trying his Best, so you can't Blame or Beat yourself. We are living in a Different Time and as much as we try to protect our kids we also have to realise what we are Fighting against. The world is almost engulfed in Evil, Wickedness and Pervasion. So first thing first is not to be too hard on yourself. At least be thankful that he is not 16yrs and he impregnated a girl. No Beatings, no Yelling.. Rather you might want to use Reverse Psychology.. Your Son is your Friend like you said. So take your Son out, to his favourite Restaurant.. Mr Biggs etc.. Have fun with him and when he is Deep into the Fun, Broach the Topic of and tell him what you know and Saw. Use your expertise to explain to him why it is Wrong and what could happen if he Continues. Let him know that he can always Discuss anything with you... You will have to Repeat this at least once in a Month. Don't tell the Mum yet unless you know she can handle it like you. Later explain to her what you are doing. And Remember to tell her that Beating won't work. Send me a Mail if you need to speak and I will call you. Godbless 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Nobody: 6:40am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Hahahahahahahaha.... this is the effects of programs like BBnija. I talk am....
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Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by webincomeplus(m): 6:41am On Jul 16, 2019 |
ichidodo:Your comment made absolute sense until the point where you mentioned names. It was absolutely not necessary for your message to be understood. And your mention of the Pastor's name indicated that you're absolutely sure that he's guilty of the rape accusation. Well, I'm also more inclined towards the fact that the accusations are true. But then, I won't blatantly mention his name as though I'm absolutely sure - because it remains a possibility, albeit a remote one, that the accusations are lies. And just so you know, I'm a Muslim (before someone thinks I'm a COZA member or apologist). 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by miniziter(m): 6:43am On Jul 16, 2019 |
LadySarah: Please how can one do that? |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Make do of suggested points... And above all ensure to check his phone and browsing history.. |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by tonyimadu: 6:45am On Jul 16, 2019 |
genq:You seem to enjoy another person's misfortunes. How would your comments even help. This man needs comfort and help not someone to tell him that his wife has failed. Judge not...show emphaty. It could be you |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by toyosi15(m): 6:47am On Jul 16, 2019 |
crazygod:What’s this one saying ?�...i started bathing fully be myself when I was 13 or so, regardless of the fact I went to a boarding school. Each time I’m home on holiday my mum will still bathe my till I got to jss3....that’s the starter pack of caring parents |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by ichidodo: 6:49am On Jul 16, 2019 |
webincomeplus:Well you must forgive me but the pastor has got a history on him and he makes a fine case study in this regard......If he doesn't like it?...Sue me. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by mrox4d(m): 6:50am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Well i have read your story...very touching. You see the cause of everything is you and your wife if truly the boy learnt it from the girl, reason being because you both brought the whole idea, i know it was for a reason but you have to take the blame because if not of this idea it wouldnt have happened. To me you are to be blamed more because the way you relate with your child makes him feel he is matured enough and that is what made him to be too smart. For god sake he is below 18 meaning he is still a child and not yet matured so you should relate to him as a father not as his mate, for that respect to be there you do not have to bring him to your level, there must be courtesy no matter how close you want you and your child to be, this should not remove the love you have for your child. Take example from the way you were brougt up by your parents. The solution now is you will sit both of them down and talk senses to them till they realise their mistakes and shed tears after that seprate them. 1 Like |
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