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Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:12am On Jul 19, 2019 |
colestephan86: Okay. Really appreciate |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Enemyofpeace: 6:14am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee:you never finish with one devil, you wan begin give signal to another devil. Kontinue you hear? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:16am On Jul 19, 2019 |
richard870: Thanks very much. A pastor even advised me to just keep praying without visiting or calling her. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Martinez39(m): 6:17am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Ebubenma:Hahahahahaha. Na so.
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Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:18am On Jul 19, 2019 |
MariaAngeles: Her mother is also doing this without apology. The mother told me to go get something doing. Also, to leave her for now cos there is time for everything, time to separate, time to come together, time to reconcile and so on. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:20am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace: Its true. I think an extreme abusive words to her has affected her state of mind |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by delishpot: 6:22am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee: Welcome |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by bigx(m): 6:22am On Jul 19, 2019 |
She isn't mature 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by femi4: 6:23am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:He still need to make money somehow.....its over 10months already |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Nobody: 6:23am On Jul 19, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:24am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Alashoalash10: Yes the mother in law is the problem. However, when my family visited sometime ago, her mother said she is not giving her daughter to two men to marry. That if she decides she wants to go back to her husband, no one, not even her, the mother, can stop her. However, she was asked if she is still interested in her marriage or she was no longer interested, and her answers was that she is still interested. This is where the confusion is. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by nurex01(m): 6:25am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee:I would advice you to marry a little girl again. If she comes, welcome. If you don't love her again that is the end. Please, just look for means to take care of your children. Don't let her give you emotional distress. I'm sure by the time you're able to find a humble lady, you would have forgotten the past. I pray God provide job too 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:25am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Alashoalash10: Her father is late |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by nurex01(m): 6:27am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee:Mr Tunagee, people are wicked they might be deceiving you with this line. Do you think it's easy for a married lady to stay away for so long like Dt? Please, don't fall for their words again 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:28am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Princedapace: I really appreciate your advise. Thanks |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:31am On Jul 19, 2019 |
babeosisi: The truth is she has never been intelligent, and does very annoying things, hence my verbal abusive nature towards her. The worst part is that she allows her mother to be dictating terms for her |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by nurex01(m): 6:31am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Please, take heart. Pray to God for His guidance. Look for another one. Settle down! Move on 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by dokiOloye(m): 6:32am On Jul 19, 2019 |
SirVintageCock:You got it bro. Pusssy niggers everywhere. Opportunity wey you go use de carry 2 baby every night,even as I've never been a womaniser,learn new vices. Mtchewwww |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Nobody: 6:32am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee: You're saying "wow... Thank you, " thank God you admitted you use negative words on her when provoked. Do you know what that does to a woman? Especially one of her age? Emotional abuse is the worse kind of abuse anyone can face. The words will keep resounding in your ears even years later. Who knows what you said to her that made her leave. Let me tell you the truth, nature has made it that for married couples, the man should be the head and sole provider of the family especially if you guys started your marriage that way. And when you lost your job, the reaction was normal of a typical woman. It was your responsibility as a man to assure her that you'll get something better. You are the man, the leader. A leader is always in the business of reassuring his followers. But what did you do? You turned into a fellow woman and was trading words with her. If you want her back and you have her phone number, recall every single negative word you said concerning her and send her a text apologizing for each of them. You can also choose to visit her and apologize. To think she even had to take up a teaching job to help out and you are here painting her black. Men should never go verbal on their wives if they want peace. It's a woman thing. If you do it, your wife will begin to feel she is living with a fellow woman, and you know how women hardly stay together. She will leave (if she is peaceful) or make life unbearable for you in her own little way. You have been trying to get her back because you know she is a good woman, even though not the best. Why don't you drop your ego, apologize genuinely, and pray continually to God to lift you? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by SlimzDboss(m): 6:33am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Bros she is yours since you already married her. Money or no money go claim her back and bring her home then talk senses into her. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:34am On Jul 19, 2019 |
babeosisi: Her dad is late. Her mum is second wife out of 8 wives in a polygamous set up, but her mum had all her children for same man, and she is still in her husband's house |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:37am On Jul 19, 2019 |
J111333: Arranging another marriage would mean she has to divorce first, we are legally married. However, her mother keeps saying she is not ready to give her daughter to two men to marry, and that they don't do such in their family. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:38am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Economy1: I tell you. I know the beginning was faulty. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by OgenemaroKessy(m): 6:39am On Jul 19, 2019 |
[color=#990000][/color][quote Wow �. You just said it as I love to. ���author=Fountainofyouth post=80394802]Honestly this is sad, from all your write up, the problem started when you lost your job, meaning all was fine before then, meaning you enticed her with money when you both started dating, meaning there was never real love in the first place just love for material and financial gain, well,since she is still interested in the marriage, give her more time that she needs, do your part by calling and seeing her not just sending your mum to go there, make steps too towards getting her back cos it's obvious you both still want to be together, all the best. P.S To all those guys that says "make money first then women will flow your way" this is the end result.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by gulfer: 6:40am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee:That's why you have no ally in the family, yu should try reaching out to an elder (prefarably male) in the extended family. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by themanderon: 6:41am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee: The fact you are from a broken home shows you need serious prayers to save your marriage as the demons that attacked your parents marriage are coming for yours. These things are very much real and if not stopped they will come for your children too when the time comes. Though many will not believe it but I'm saying this from experience. Also its good before your pick a lady to check out the kind of woman she has as a mother because usually mother's have a very profound influence in a lady's life. Did you not check out her ma and know the kind of woman she was before tying the knot? |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by skywalker240(m): 6:41am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee:God bless you, it is well with you. |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:42am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Mummymahdi: I think, to a large extent, I did not manage my home well; always intolerant, and angry at her slightest provocation. She originally did not use to take issues o her family, buy I think the issue started to get out of hand cos of my excesses. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by dokiOloye(m): 6:42am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Hedonini:The fact that he doesn't have any of d regular guys' vices is why d wife is still staying out cos she feels he's harmless. If she hear say some other chicos done de sleep over for her matrimonial bed, na speed she go use run come house. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by Tunagee(m): 6:46am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Mstick: The truth about me is that I don't paint blue, black. O always say things the way they are,hence my admittance of being vocally abusive to my wife. I appreciate your comment, and I know I did not manage my emotions well, especially towards my wife. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by 400billionman: 6:46am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tunagee: Money stops bullshit. Secondly, stop giving her attention. You are fuelling her stupidity... Husband scarce, your own con dey misbehave. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Abandoned Her Matrimonial Home by blindjustice13(m): 6:48am On Jul 19, 2019 |
[quote author=Tunagee post=80394471] There is a common thing about humans, when you appear to be needy they become moee difficult to get through to. Stop begging, you have done enough. Your mother inlaw left you a subtle solution, get something doing, go and look for work,have a source of income . Secondly she said you should give her time, them give her time,there are some things you just cant fight, right now you are the common equation between her and her mother, remove yourself from the emotion and see how long before friction sets in between them. If you have kids, call her and tell her you want to speak with the kids, speak with them and tell them to greet mummy and end your call,you only want to hear from the kids not her. She needs to see those who truly want her progress and those who don't. And for now you trying to convince her that her mom doesn't want her good will meet stiff resistance.Take care of your kids by proxy and leave her alone, letting your kids know you still care should be your main goal. And lastly work on your mouth, there are more civilized ways to pass a message across without being abusive. Oga forget say we dey curse ourselves for nairaland, don't take that attitude to your significant other o. 2 Likes |
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