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Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Factgist: 2:07pm On Jul 20, 2019
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Here at factboyz, we are very committed to facts; and we’ve compiled one for your consumption and consideration. It is a known fact that Nigeria is blessed beyond measure with citizens who value tradition and culture. It is interesting to note that the traditions and culture we once valued as Nigerians no longer count any longer as there is an inordinate desire to emulate European and American counterparts who are not even keen to emulate us.

However, factboyz brings to you 10 values most Nigerian ladies if not all, have lost. we will still write about the men, so don’t feel feminist.


1. Dressing:

In the Nigerian culture, modesty is key to the way you will be addressed. If you dress without covering the contours and breasts properly, you will be addressed in a sexually provocative way. It is sad that most Nigerian ladies no longer dress modestly as they are keen to be noticed by men. Yes, attention matters, but you must get attention from the right man, not from the wrong one who might one to sexually objectify you. Most Nigerian mothers no longer teach their daughters how to dress, hence a generation of rugged indecency is gradually growing which shouldn’t be. Celebrities have helped to spread the strange fire, which is passionately affecting our ladies negatively.


2. Respect:

Well before we delve in, I must commend the way Nigerian ladies respect elders, but the percentage is actually dropping as the years roll by. Well, we can blame it to the abusive nature of some men, or perhaps the lack of proper training by mums to their daughters. Also, the value of showing respect to elders is also being lost. However, the fact remains that respect is reciprocal you respect when it’s worth it; but the numbers keep dropping as the society is changing.


3. Managing a Home:

Having a house does not necessarily mean having a home. Home management is the process of properly maintaining a home and property and overseeing necessary household activities. Much like operating a business,managing a home requires skills such as planning, organizing, budgeting and directing. As the society now demands the attention of both husband and wife, it is hard for a lady to have direct influence on the life of the kids by training them well. Leaving the realms of marriage to the realms of spinsterhood, it is expedient that every lady should acquire skills needed to successfully run a home properly. Showing unending love and care to the husband, training the kids the right way according to religious and moral standards, and managing the welfare of the family. Let’s not throw all our weights into the feminism move, men should help out in cooking too.


4. Sitting Culture:

There was a time when women couldn’t sit anyhow. Back then, it showed a sign of carelessness to the part of the woman and it wasn’t a good sign back then. Now, however ladies sit anyhow and don’t give a dot what you think about it. I think its because of the fact that ladies now put on trousers and minimal emphasis is made to it, but good sitting culture is a tradition fast losing its stand.


5. Pride of Virginity:

Everyone cannot boast of being a virgin before marriage; thats a fact. However, you must not feel less important if you lost yours before marriage, go pursue your dreams and be the best you can be!
Virginity was once greatly valued, but because of the decaying culture around us, championed by Europeans and Americans; its value has been technically devalued. I used technically because most people (men and women) want to marry virgins, so even if the number of non-virgins before marriage keep increasing, the value is too. The value of keeping oneself before marriage is almost lost to the past.
Finally, lets live to be proud of our heritage and culture. Lets value what we have and think less of what we don’t have.

What do you Think?



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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Factgist: 2:08pm On Jul 20, 2019
What do you think?

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 20, 2019
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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 20, 2019
Factgist:
What do you think?

You men have wrecked the image of our country internationally, and we are no longer respected as a country, and you still have the guts to post that rubbish up there. The thunder that will fire you is still doing push-ups.

Remove that rubbish and post only those of the men that have lost their values.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by AryEmber(f): 6:33pm On Jul 20, 2019
100 percent

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by ednut1(m): 7:07pm On Jul 20, 2019
Blame the women as usual. the Nigerian guys that have lost it dont deserve blame too

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by CosmicPhoenix: 7:37pm On Jul 20, 2019
6.Common Sense

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by TrollKiller(m): 7:41pm On Jul 20, 2019
They're gradually losing endurance
They're gradually losing independence from men
They're gradually losing self worth
They're gradually losing the high IQs and intellect.
They're gradually losing their common sense of logic
They're gradually losing and reducing their wife material quality.
They're gradually losing all of the above.
If you no like wetin i talk, sniper day. Go swallow small

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 20, 2019
I do not care, what will be will be. A man that will marry a lady will do so honourably, so cut ladies some slack.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Paxie55: 7:54pm On Jul 20, 2019
-Virginity kee you there.

Are you not meant to be virgin yourself?

Are these ladies the ones having sex with themselves?

If there are lesser virgin male in Nigeria, there's also, lesser virgin female in Nigeria.

-Respect? Why should I respect you when you haven't respected yourself? Or, you think cos you have two sagged balls translates to acquiring Respect?

Men do the worse, But, you can hardly see women creating threads up and down.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by luvyaself95(m): 9:04pm On Jul 20, 2019
Paxie55:
-Virginity kee you there.

Are you not meant to be virgin yourself?

Are these ladies the ones having sex with themselves?

If there are lesser virgin male in Nigeria, there's also, lesser virgin female in Nigeria.

-Respect? Why should I respect you when you haven't respected yourself? Or, you think cos you have two sagged balls translates to acquiring Respect?

Men do the worse, But, you can hardly see women creating threads up and down.

The only place the guy messed up is when he mentioned virginity like you said girls don't sex themselves that correct and there are some non virgin that are far better than virgin girls i can relate my ex taught the lesson as her proclaim virginity...
beside i need you to swallow the words ( Men do the worse ) everybody is bad or you yourself are clean in that aspect neither you or me have the right to judge others, i might quote from bible forget it apply to everyone and anything
so why you or i can't judge anyone is because some people have motive for whatever they do in relationship it maybe for just pleasure, self interest, revenge, to test you or unknown but it left to you to use your brain not your heart..
i don't think am talking sense here but you have sense abi na sensitize it...

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:17pm On Jul 20, 2019
One morning like that when my woman still dey Lagos, I enter france road go withdraw money, I dey queue for the back of this girl, she be look me repeatedly like that, at first I no notice, but to find out if na me she dey look, na hin I wink, she smile small but she no come look me again, she come withdraw na hin I follow withdraw, to my surprise she dey wait for me come ask why I dey wink, na hin I ask am jokingly why she dey look me too, she follow me talk like say she don know me before, as we dey waka dey talk I dey hope say we go part ways, gaskiya my direction na her direction, we enter the same keke come drop for the same place, she enter my compound, my thinking no dey straight again, the way we dey talk sef no make me know wetin I go talk, e come happen say na corper, she come visit her friend wey dey my compound, we come part ways as she go her friend room, wey me be think say naso e go end and me I dey ready to play PES after cooking, na hin I hear person dey knock my door, e come turn this girl, I don know say she get mission, I be tell myself, gaskiya I no lie, as we dey talk I come ask am make we play PES, she say she hate am die, I shaa somehow suspend the PES, cook sef I no cook again, this girl be talk dey touch me unnecessarily, na hin I do her bidding unavoidably, for the many hours wey she dey my place, her friend no even call am say where she dey, na person go marry am, that one sure, if I no be the first to enter her Jerusalem, e possible make I no be the last, God epp some men with the kind woman wey them go marry, God epp them walahi

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by lilmax(m): 10:18pm On Jul 20, 2019
lol

most Nigerian women can only manage their pussiess with accountants, drilling check inspectors

we men should just marry the ones with common sense and leave the rest leftovers for dumbass boys to worship

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:23pm On Jul 20, 2019
Paxie55:
-Virginity kee you there.

Are you not meant to be virgin yourself?

Are these ladies the ones having sex with themselves?

If there are lesser virgin male in Nigeria, there's also, lesser virgin female in Nigeria.

-Respect? Why should I respect you when you haven't respected yourself? Or, you think cos you have two sagged balls translates to acquiring Respect?

Men do the worse, But, you can hardly see women creating threads up and down.




I concur, but try understand that it's the victims of a lady's infidelity that always react most, same goes with the victims of some guy's infidelity

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Xbursta(m): 1:19am On Jul 21, 2019
Pattypatt:
I do not care, what will be will be. A man that will marry a lay will do so honourably, so cut ladies some slack.

This write up truly defined the state of your IQ

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Magnoliaa(f): 4:22am On Jul 21, 2019
Mtchewwwwwww.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Magnoliaa(f): 4:26am On Jul 21, 2019
I actually think women are in pursuit of more higher values, becoming more of what they can be, and being in charge of their lives.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by StrikeBack(m): 7:06am On Jul 21, 2019
Magnoliaa:
I actually think women are in pursuit of more higher values, becoming more of what they can be, and being in charge of their lives.
But it comes with a great cost!!
Unfortunately, you won't admit.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Magnoliaa(f): 12:13am On Jul 22, 2019
StrikeBack:

But it comes with a great cost!!
Unfortunately, you won't admit.

What's the cost?

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Factgist: 1:36am On Jul 22, 2019
grin lalasticlala
Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by DeeTweenie(f): 11:37am On Jul 22, 2019
So true
Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by SultanOfAbia: 11:37am On Jul 22, 2019
Fde
Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by DameB(f): 11:37am On Jul 22, 2019
Please tell them o.....
Civilization doesn't mean being uncouth



Just a little question based on number 5....
I have heard men say they were virgins when they got married, How do you confirm if a man is a virgin?

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by BlackCrainte: 11:37am On Jul 22, 2019
6. Strength and flexibility on bed.

Most of today's girls are just logs of wood that can barely go past 3 rounds. Too stiff

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Nobody: 11:38am On Jul 22, 2019
Ok. so who is going to talk about yahoo yahoo boys, ritualist and co. undecided

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by chemgee: 11:38am On Jul 22, 2019
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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by SweetOlive(f): 11:38am On Jul 22, 2019
undecided undecided

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by namiji2598: 11:39am On Jul 22, 2019
For the boys


1. Money


2.money


3.money


4.money


5.money

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 22, 2019
Op you are on point.
I wonder how the society will be like 20years from now.

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Re: Top 5 Rare Values Most Nigerian Ladies Are Gradually Losing by GenFunction: 11:39am On Jul 22, 2019
esp No.4

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