love without money these days? impossible.

Safitu:
That’s after marriage, and you better find a way to get back on top of your game otherwise you lose respect and sanity from your woman and family members. You don’t know what these men are going through behind close doors. As a man you must hustle, there’s no way around it. You can’t depend on a woman to feed you unless the woman is desperate and insecure.

See as her reply is making me to shake... rich girls eeeeh

hhhhhhhmmmm

LillyVal:
Can a man makes a woman happy without money?

Yes, but only if the woman has got her own money and is lonely.

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

Then you must cook for me and do the laundry. You can't be sitting around and spending my money

Oma307:

I doubt if she will answer this question. so a boyfriend is to take care of a grown lady who's not handicap all in the name of girlfriend. I hope most of our ladies will not be used for yahoo yahoo

She's just thinking like a typical Nigerian girl, with no dreams or career, her biggest dream in life will be to marry a rich man, instead of dreaming of been rich herself

theButterfly:
A working class woman who has bills to pay will use her own money to pay them [b|c that's what working class women do], not wait around for a man to mooch off on.

When they are married? Do they continue paying the family bills too? Lol , when I was a teen, (19) specifically I used to have your mentality. Then I believed love is enough , money does not matter but now I know better.For a relationship to survive, money must be involved. From buying airtime to communicate, to little gift exchange, celebrating special dates, helping out financially, to wedding, running the family and providing for kids.Yes Love is good, it's the foundation but money makes it better.Let's not frustrate love.

Well I'm not saying the man must be wealthy and all but must be financially stable to avoid stories that touch.

To all these hypocritical beings wanting Safiatu's head for lunch here's a question :

Can a Nigerian Man make a Woman happy without Money?

MariaLavina:
When they are married? Do they continue paying the family bills too? Lol , when I was a teen, (19) specifically I used to have your mentality. Then I believed love is enough , money does not matter but now I know better.For a relationship to survive, money must be involved. From buying airtime to communicate, to little gift exchange, celebrating special dates, helping out financially, to wedding, running the family and providing for kids.Yes Love is good, it's the foundation but money makes it better.Let's not frustrate love.

Well I'm not saying the man must be wealthy and all but must be financially stable to avoid stories that touch.

Both the man and the woman should be financially stable to avoid stories that touch

Safitu:
Fresh grads, nysc or older women. All women will demand money from a guy as far as they have needs. You can’t run away from it unless you date an underage girl in secondary school.

Your post is always about how all women wants money from men...haba. it is so obvious how you reason I pity your boyfriend share because if anything happens to his job or business you are gone.smh

Deepfeel:


Both the man and the woman should be financially stable to avoid stories that touch

The thread is about men nah? Why do you guys always see competition in everything like this?

Safitu:
That’s after marriage, and you better find a way to get back on top of your game otherwise you lose respect and sanity from your woman and family members. You don’t know what these men are going through behind close doors. As a man you must hustle, there’s no way around it. You can’t depend on a woman to feed you unless the woman is desperate and insecure.

that's coming from a woman. Wow! Am encouraged by your sincerity.

MariaLavina:
To all these hypocritical beings wanting Safiatu's head for lunch here's a question :

Can a Nigerian Man make a Woman happy without Money?

Why not ? poor Nigerian women without money marry rich men and make them happy, same thing poor Nigerian men without money can marry a rich woman and make her happy

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

what is your role in his life? Just to open leg... nonsense

Deepfeel:

Why not ? poor Nigerian women without money marry rich men and make them happy, same thing poor Nigerian men without money can marry a rich woman and make her happy

What are you saying? Do you understand the question at all?

MariaLavina:
When they are married? Do they continue paying the family bills too? Lol , when I was a teen, (19) specifically I used to have your mentality. Then I believed love is enough , money does not matter but now I know better.For a relationship to survive, money must be involved. From buying airtime to communicate, to little gift exchange, celebrating special dates, helping out financially, to wedding, running the family and providing for kids.Yes Love is good, it's the foundation but money makes it better.Let's not frustrate love.

Well I'm not saying the man must be wealthy and all but must be financially stable to avoid stories that touch.

is it only applicable to the man? My dear it is both ways

loswhite:
is it only applicable to the man? My dear it is both ways

Bobo argue with your keypad. This isn't a competition biko.

MariaLavina:
To all these hypocritical beings wanting Safiatu's head for lunch here's a question :

Can a Nigerian Man make a Woman happy without Money?

yes...there are several ways to make someone happy


safitu is right though
.money is irreplaceable in a relationship

loswhite:
Your post is always about how all women wants money from men...haba. it is so obvious how you reason I pity your boyfriend share because if anything happens to his job or business you are gone.smh

look she is been realistic, hardly will u see a naija babe that will stay with you without money

babyfaceafrica:
yes...there are several ways to make someone happy


safitu is right though
.money is irreplaceable in a relationship

Oya Give 5 ways that does not involve money, let us learn.

babyfaceafrica:
look she is been realistic, hardly will u see a naija babe that will stay with you without money

That's because without money naija guys have nothing to offer nah .

MariaLavina:
Oya Give 5 ways that does not involve money, let us learn.

sex,attention,jokes,spending quality time

MariaLavina:
That's because without money naija guys have nothing to offer nah .

I disagree
..but ur opinion

babyfaceafrica:
sex ,attention,jokes,spending quality time

See your life? And one guy up there is questioning safia what she has to offer? just see?

Okay... Sex, won't you buy condoms, will you do it in the air( since air is free), what about food to regain energy you lost? if she gets pregnant, abortion fee nko? baby things (if you want to keep it) and so on.

Jokes: Only a happy man can crack jokes, a happy man is he with satisfied stomach and pocket ( money) Poor man don't joke.

Quality time: doing what? licking her ears?abi? in the air maybe. No be inside apartment with correct electricity watching movie even that one as cheap as it is it involves money.

Attention:how do you give her attention? By staying with her all day and night doing nothing abi?


Bros you failed! Next person!

Deepfeel:


Both the man and the woman should be financially stable to avoid stories that touch

Word

If you like, cry and get mad. The truth shall always remain the truth. No money no love. It’s not about being a millionaire, but you must set a stable foundation for yourself and your partner to build on. A lazy man with empty pockets can never be respected by his woman or the people around him.

Safitu:
[b]If you like, cry and get mad. The truth shall always remain the truth. No money no love. [/b]It’s not about being a millionaire, but you must set a stable foundation for yourself and your partner to build on. A lazy man with empty pockets can never be respected by his woman or the people around him.

So all those women way they marry bricklayer and co, them no love their husbands?

MariaLavina:
What are you saying? Do you understand the question at all?

I just answered the question, "can a man make a woman happy without money"

If they had a better option they will go for it.

SavageSavior:
So all those women way they marry bricklayer and co, them no love their husbands?