theButterfly:
How is it a man's responsibility to be buying pads/feminine hygiene products and recharge cards for a woman? If a man does not buy these things for you, you cannot be faithful to him?

theButterfly:
How is it a man's responsibility to be buying pads/feminine hygiene products and recharge cards for a woman? If a man does not buy these things for you, you cannot be faithful to him?

loswhite:
Useless generation of girls...zero values the only thing in you ppls head is money it doesn't matter where the money come from smh

Useku:
I read a line up there that says "you cant be in a relationship for Free" wake up woman real homies don't roll with people with such mindset


Your not doing any one any favour by being in a relationship with them .

Only starved dudes with low self esteem subscribe to that crap, if your happiness will be dependent on my pocket size,feel free to bounce.


Stay woke guys.

catwalq:


There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

kingkuntaval:


But do YOU in particular have other life goals/aspirations besides marrying a rich man?

Eggovic:

The thing is every individual has their own definition of happiness. So while buying you gifts may make you happy, being supportive and pushing someone to achieving their dreams can make them happy too. Happiness is relative

catwalq:


Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

SmellingAnus:
A woman should be reasonable enough not expect her boyfriend pay her bills as if he is her father or her source of employment/income... He is a boyfriend and not a husband.... However I support the idea that a boyfriend should also support his financially responsible babe with his cash too and not to some irresponsible girl. These support is both ways no doubt it's expected that the man should do much more especially when he has the capacity to do so... However, It should be done more out of his own volition than someone trying to take advantage of him...

Safitu:
I know the truth is a hard pill to swallow, but it’s better to accept it now. Hustle now and get the girl of your dreams. No woman is going to feed you or respect you if you ain’t got sshit. You will only attract desperate women who are willing to be sugar momas for a bit of love. Nobody is saying you must be dangote, but bring something to the table ahbeg.

MariaLavina:
You are correct, however being supportive sometimes entails being financially supportive. I read a thread here sometimes ago about The difference between a lady who was with a guy when he had nothing, and a lady who helped him become something or someone. By that thread guys here made it clear, that supporting or being with a guy when he has nothing is useless, helping him financially is the main deal,
Guys on that thread devalued a loyal girlfriend but appreciate the spending girlfriend. Now why the double standard? If you are there, pushing your girl to achieve her dreams or supporting her verbally without actions, how useful is that?

Safitu:
I know the truth is a hard pill to swallow, but it’s better to accept it now. Hustle now and get the girl of your dreams. No woman is going to feed you or respect you if you ain’t got sshit. You will only attract desperate women who are willing to be sugar momas for a bit of love. Nobody is saying you must be dangote, but bring something to the table ahbeg.

Safitu:
I know the truth is a hard pill to swallow, but it’s better to accept it now. Hustle now and get the girl of your dreams. No woman is going to feed you or respect you if you ain’t got sshit. You will only attract desperate women who are willing to be sugar momas for a bit of love. Nobody is saying you must be dangote, but bring something to the table ahbeg.

Altern8:
Can a guy be happy if he doesn’t have money to enjoy life?

These days, I think guys should focus more on themselves and make money before committing to serious relationships. All those vacations in Dubai, Paris and even some exotic locations in Naija are not cheap at all.

Make money and flex your babe and make her feel good.

Or date a babe who doesn’t care about such gifts and trips. Such babes are rare sha, that is, if they even exist at all.

freethinker01:

Why on earth would I hustle because I want a girl or some girls to enjoy my money?
That's the most fvcked up shiit I've heard all day, in fact, this ruined my day.

dollytino4real:
my guy dat year, how levels u just 4get me about, pls make me happy but with money o!

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

SmellingAnus:
my woman... Abeg I fit come drop my CV for your company make you employ me... I fit be your body guard

catwalq:


Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

catwalq:


You are missing my point. Dreaming of marrying a rich man and actually marrying a rich man are two different things.
Just like some people desire tall guys or fair guys,but in most cases they end up with something different.

So,universally all girls DREAM of marrying rich men. Now whether they end up with rich men or not is another thing entirely. Do you understand what I'm saying?

Eroms4life17:
baby girl am not hating oo. But i cannot marry or recommend any guy i know to marry you. Good luck to whoever can put up with this your mindset. I cannot can!