Over the years, i have read a lot of writeup and comments, in different online forums, denigrating and degrading older ladies, (I:e 25-35). Sometimes i wonder if older age now translate to some sort of deadly diseases, funny enough in real world today, i noticed that a lot of young men are getting married to older ladies, it's a know fact that women are more tolerable and more suitable for wife and mother roles as they get more older. in fact, a Friend of mine will be tying the nut with his heart throb in two weeks time, this guy is a well known player of the highest caliber but his Waterloo turned out to be a lady three years older than him. Myself, my best ever girlfriend remained my first girlfriend a lady 7 years older, i ended that relationship because of peer pressure.
My question is, if you decide to settle down today, and your face with
1) a Lady five years older than you beautiful, independent, well behaved and down to earth.
2) a young girl five years younger than you super beautiful, dependent, ill mannered, proud and arrogant.
Who will you choose as a wife and what are your reasons for such choice.

I will go for old lady with less or no shakara

1. With immediate effect.....smile

madridguy:
I will go for old lady with less or no shakara

so why do we derive pleasure in shaming these ladies,like as if it's a crime to grow mature

Oluwadamilare118:
1. With immediate effect.....smile

what are your reasons for going for the first option

Do you have evidence of your claim?

Goldensword:

so why do we derive pleasure in shaming these ladies,like as if it's a crime to grow mature

madridguy:
Do you have evidence of your claim?

https://www.nairaland.com/5334274/ladies#80836358

This thread has evidence

Goldensword:

what are your reasons for going for the first option

THat well behave means a lot to me. It may looks obvious, to me that's my best option.

The op of the thread is even female so i don't see why dragging guys into this.
Moreover are you married?

ImaIma1:


https://www.nairaland.com/5334274/ladies#80836358

This thread has evidence

you do not have to give us options so you can make us think OLDER women are attractive

older women passed through the hoe phase with some residual particles in them

they do not have a choice than to be tolerant, patient with you, they're that because hoe phase 2 doesn't come faster



and please older women starts from 28 not 25

Goldensword:

what are your reasons for going for the first option

Because of well deserve manner

My fiancé is 6 years older. We getting married soon.


So no big deal

madridguy:
The op of the thread is even female so i don't see why dragging guys into this.
Moreover are you married?

I'm a guy please, i'm still single as well, go back and read the post again.

lilmax:
you do not have to give us options so you can make us think OLDER women are attractive

older women passed through the hoe phase with some residual particles in them

they do not have a choice than to be tolerant, patient with you, they're that because hoe phase 2 doesn't come faster



and please older women starts from 28 not 25

Hope you know marriage is not friendship, so will you go for a virgin that has potential to send you to early grave when you can choose so call older lady that will prolong your life

madridguy:
The op of the thread is even female so i don't see why dragging guys into this.
Moreover are you married?

There was myopic comment from one guy.

You are late

molybdenum0012:
My fiancé is 6 years older. We getting married soon.


So no big deal

exactly what i'm saying, all the bashing and insults are only seen online, in real world the reverse is what is common these days.

Goldensword:

Hope you know marriage is not friendship, so will you go for a virgin that has potential to send you to early grave when you can choose so call older lady that will prolong your life

Don't be misguided. Age shouldn't be your yastic for choosing a life partner. Character should.

Haven't you meet very good younger girls in your entire life as well as very bad older ladies?

Age doesn't change anybody.
A girl that was bad when younger will still be bad even though she has grown older. Her age is just counting down. The character will be same

Same thing applies to a good girl. That's why you should look for good character, not beauty for a lifetime relationship (Marriage)

Again, don't even think that because a lady is older she will be of good character. Investigate properly before you choose.

Or that a girl is of bad character because she's younger. Investigate properly before you reject.

CosmicJames:

Don't be misguided. Age shouldn't be your yastic for choosing a life partner. Character should.

Haven't you meet very good younger girls in your entire life as well as very bad older ladies?

Age doesn't change anybody.
A girl that was bad when younger will still be bad even though she has grown older. Her age is just counting down. The character will be same

Same thing applies to a good girl. That's why you should look for good character, not beauty for a lifetime relationship (Marriage)

Again, don't even think that because a lady is older she will be of good character. Investigate properly before you choose.

Or that a girl is of bad character because she's younger. Investigate properly before you reject.

We're still on thesame plan, Geee i'm saying we need to stop bashing matured ladies, especially good ones

sense is not directly or inversely proportional to age.
Marry a guy or lady with sense

Goldensword:

exactly what i'm saying, all the bashing and insults are only seen online, in real world the reverse is what is common these days.

Most guys that do that don't know that people's wants and desire are varied. What you don't like, someone somewhere may cherish it a lots.

I think the discrimination stems from our African culture. Things are changing now and people are making choices base on what they want without giving a hoot about culture.

When you do things base on general opinion, it is called mental slavery, but when you don't give a hoot about what people say, then you are mentally emancipated.

Goldensword:

We're still on thesame plan, Geee i'm saying we need to stop bashing matured ladies, especially good ones

Good effort then. But unfortunately, the bashing will not, and cannot stop.

The reason is simple.
Very few people are striving hard to unleash the good side of their nature. The rest others are by default unleashing their bad side

I hope you understand because I don't enough time to explain what I mean in full

Just one guy

ImaIma1:


There was myopic comment from one guy.

You are late

I will not marry either of them.

I tell you what....

No matter how beautiful, brilliant, humble, caring, romantic and homely you are, I can't have anything serious to do with you once you're older than me, even if it's just with one day. In fact, I cannot have anything serious to do with my age mate. If you like be like virgin Mary, I don't care. I take the issue of age very, very seriously.


As for the younger lady, let her go to hell with her beauty.
I hate arrogance, I can't leave with it.

So, I will ditch them both and try the third option.

ladiesreject:
I will not marry either of them.

I tell you what....

No matter how beautiful, brilliant, humble, caring, romantic and homely you are, I can't have anything serious to do with you once you're older than me, even if it's just with one day. In fact, I cannot have anything serious to do with my age mate. If you like be like virgin Mary, I don't care. I take the issue of age very, very seriously.


As for the younger lady, let her go to hell with her beauty.
I hate arrogance, I can't leave with it.

So, I will ditch them both and try the third option.

funny which one is third option again, please give us the option

molybdenum0012:
My fiancé is 6 years older. We getting married soon.


So no big deal

Pardon my inquisitiveness. Are you a Male of Female?

Adeinfo:

Pardon my inquisitiveness. Are you a Male of Female?

Does it matter? Fyi, I'm a male

GIRLS AND WOMEN DONT HAVE MANNER OF APPROACH TO MEN. TRUE OR FALSE ?

Adeinfo:

Pardon my inquisitiveness. Are you a Male of Female?

Age doesn't really matter, his peace of mind is more important, as long as his fiancee is young enough to give him children, nothing is wrong with the age difference

Goldensword:

Age doesn't really matter, his peace of mind is more important, as long as his fiancee is young enough to give him children, nothing is wrong with the age difference

Just wanted to be inquisitive because me too I'm dating a lady two years older than me. Planning of taking her to the altar

Adeinfo:

Just wanted to be inquisitive because me too I'm dating a lady two years older than me. Planning of taking her to the altar

Gee follow your heart, forget what the world think of you, use your brain, remember after all said and done it's you that is going share thesame roof with her.