izzou:


If you were married to such a man, you won't cover him up?

easyconnect:
It's really hard if it's a family member, but the point is, we have to develop more tick skin and subdue emotion, so has to do the right thing.
Way back in school, I heard the story of a chief gudge in PH, who prosecuted her husband and sent him to jail for impregnating their tenage house maid. The society call her horrible names, but I think she did the right thing.

So many families here are guilty of this crime.

Sometimes, when your house help is been wicked to your children, pay attention to her, most times, she's been abused by your husband.

izzou:


But do you think you can do it?

I know people can

izzou:


What about the shame?

The gossips.

The disgrace


I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but I can't let that secret out. I just can't

MariaLavina:
Lol... the thing is, that can never be a secret, it will get out someday and it will be more shameful and deadly.

I understand your view, but to me Justice must prevail.However, I won't be outing my man just like that, it will be on agreement. I will compel him to do it (confessing to the child's parents) Now whatever they do with the confession is left to them.After that we can seek ways to help him because he is obviously sick to have done that.

Honestly covering up isn't safe, It does more damage than good. Although I don't pray to experience such sha.

easyconnect:

It's hard though. Even if I can not do it fully, I will be by the side of the girl

Of course, I'll be by the side of the boy(in my case)

But to let it out?

I don't think I can stand the consequences oh

celeb4reallife:
I understand your point. When it's a family thing, the judgement becomes so difficult to handle.

The poor girl has been relocated to my family house. She now live with us.

The few family members who are aware now, really felt sad the mother have been crying. I wish her father was alive.

They've decided to handle the matter to God, but I wish I can hand it over to the law as well.

izzou:


Of course, I'll be by the side of the boy(in my case)

But to let it out?

I don't think I can stand the consequences oh

celeb4reallife:
I understand your point. When it's a family thing, the judgement becomes so difficult to handle.

The poor girl has been relocated to my family house. She now live with us.

The few family members who are aware now, really felt sad the mother have been crying. I wish her father was alive.

They've decided to handle the matter to God, but I wish I can hand it over to the law as well.

izzou:


What about the shame?

The gossips.

The disgrace


I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but I can't let that secret out. I just can't

SirVintageCock:
I will blackmail the hell out of that motherfucker..

Let me inform you OP, that girl will hate you lots when she grows up for not doing anything to the fvcker. If she has a fiery temper, she may hatch a scheme to maim the man. It took me 25years to hatch my own retirement plan for this monster.
l will confront the "uncle" that tried that sh!t with me and my kid-bro when I was barely ten. He is acting all churchy and stuff now but his living hell will begin on his birthday few months from now.

SirVintageCock:
I will blackmail the hell out of that motherfucker..

Let me inform you OP, that girl will hate you lots when she grows up for not doing anything to the fvcker. If she has a fiery temper, she may hatch a scheme to maim the man. It took me 25years to hatch my own retirement plan for this monster.
l will confront the "uncle" that tried that sh!t with me and my kid-bro when I was barely ten. He is acting all churchy and stuff now but his living hell will begin on his birthday few months from now.

pocohantas:


Why did this make me smile...

SirVintageCock:
I will blackmail the hell out of that motherfucker..

Let me inform you OP, that girl will hate you lots when she grows up for not doing anything to the fvcker. If she has a fiery temper, she may hatch a scheme to maim the man. It took me 25years to hatch my own retirement plan for this monster.
l will confront the "uncle" that tried that sh!t with me and my kid-bro when I was barely ten. He is acting all churchy and stuff now but his living hell will begin on his birthday few months from now.

Former US House Speaker Dennis "Denny" Hastert has been sentenced to 15 months in federal prison. The actual charge that got him here was structuring currency transactions to evade currency transaction reports — that is, he withdrew cash from his bank accounts in increments of less than $10,000 each, in order to get around laws that mandate banks report transactions of $10,000 and over to the federal government. Hastert pled guilty to one count of structuring in October.

But that's not what the case was really about. What it was really about was Hastert's repeated molestation of male students as a teacher and wrestling coach at Yorkville High School in suburban Chicago over 30 years ago. The feds just happened to catch him withdrawing cash improperly to pay as hush money to one of his former victims.

This isn't merely an allegation. Dennis Hastert, former third-ranking member of the US federal government, admitted in open court to molesting children. "I'm sorry to those I hurt and misled. First I wanted to apologize for the boys I mistreated when I was their coach," he said. "What I did was wrong and I regret it. They looked to me, and I took advantage of them."

Under questioning from federal judge Thomas Durkin, Hastert acknowledged sexually abusing at least three wrestlers.

"Nothing is more disturbing than having 'serial child molester' and 'speaker of the House' in the same sentence," Durkin said upon sentencing Hastert. The sentence — which also requires Hastert to pay $250,000, spend two years on supervised release, and register for sex offender treatment — was stiffer than that requested by prosecutors, who initially asked for zero to six months as part of his plea deal.

pocohantas:


Lots of our "wonderful mothers" of the past covered such. Women are still covering it till today. I will definitely let her family know, what they choose to do with him is up to them, because I really won't have any use for him again.

Fck adults all you want o, but let kids be kids abeg.

chii8:
Someone's 13year old child was raped and you're asking for advice?like seriously

Cover this up and watch how he will rape your own daughter and neighbor's daughter, then those ones will castrate his balls.

Your husband is sick in the balls,do the right thing.

izzou:


In the OP's case, that's what I'll do

I was actually imagining one's spouse in that same act..... Like your husband being the perpetrator, or my wife..

Is it easy exposing such?

pocohantas:


Noit is never easy.

Thinking of it now, all those marriages we see breaking upandan. Maybe either of them has done something that can't be said, something worse than infidelity (or battery).

izzou:


What about the shame?

The gossips.

The disgrace


I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but I can't let that secret out. I just can't

Sterope:
You can't let it out however you should be willing to face the consequences of his actions, all past, present and future actions. The wife is complicit. That rape is bigger than her marriage.

It is situations like this that encourages men and women to continue. Another man will do such, beg for forgiveness and expects to be forgiven.

easyconnect:

My dear, I can understand the pain.
So confused here.
Have you find out if it's a continuous process? What measure did the woman took to protect the girl?
Was the man drunk when he did that? After he appologied, did he repeat the act? All these will gaurd you to make the right decision.

izzou:


As a wife, can you do it?

izzou:


If you were married to such a man, you won't cover him up?

tritritri:



My sister do better shopping for the girl, Drop her back. if ur husband act remorse let the matter go for a while, reflect on what happen and the cause, if dis was his only mistake ...u might forgive him, but if he's a womanizer then talk to ur pastor or elder .

people will give u advise because dey dnt knw u.or dey dnt care the outcome, but if it happens to dere relatives it a different advise.

cococandy: