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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:57pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
KanuSE: Of course infidelity can be forgiven BY LOW SELF ESTEEM PEOPLE.... desperate to stay married at ANY cost, in order to keep the charade of "Mrs happily married somebody" |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by KanuSE: 7:04pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Even @bolded, I maintain that infidelity can be forgiven if the two are willing. I admire how you're trying to water down your strong stance - skillful. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by felaismyhero(m): 7:07pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:true |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:10pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
KanuSE: My stand on cheating spouses would NEVER be watered down. Any cheating spouse should be divorced, NO QUESTION ASKED! 1 Like |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:11pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:14pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:14pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:16pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:16pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by KanuSE: 7:17pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: So they have low self esteem because they choose to forgive their spouses' infidelity. Look here, this world is not a difficult place to live but we humans do all to complicate things. What's the big deal in forgiving your unfaithful spouse if you still want them around & they're sober? My question to you is - what's the probability of getting it right a second time if everyone subscribes to your method? Is there a guarantee that it's gonna be greener on the other side? Can you categorically say that every divorcee is entirely happy?
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by DevilhimseIf: 7:19pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
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Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by felaismyhero(m): 7:31pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:maybe this would help: oxford dictionary defines self-esteem as 'a feeling of being happy with your own character and abilities'.going by this,if a woman despite being cheated on by her husband,is confident about her character and abilities.then her self esteen is high! someone mentioned earlier here that jay z cheated on beyonce(tho am not sure if there's proof for that!),yet beyonce is one of the most confident women on earth.we are human,we are prone to errors.that a person cheats does not mean he has NO respect for his partner! |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by felaismyhero(m): 7:37pm On Aug 23, 2019 |
KanuSE:i hope he would try answer your question. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Magnoliaa(f): 5:09pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Mayflowa: Wtf are you jumping into conclusions like this?? Why?? One single comment, on a single issue and you can already tell this much about the person who commented. Where tf is the American mentality/mindset in the comment? We have a lot, a WHOLE lot of those problems you mentioned right here in African, but—we just don't see them as problems. They are normalties. We confused stress, timidity, mental illnesses, etc for hard work, humility, a 'strong' personality, etc. So, does the example you gave justify a low self-esteem? It's still the same thing in any culture. 3 Likes |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Magnoliaa(f): 5:23pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Toks2008: Wow. This is shocking, really trying to get your reasoning here. So, HIV is everywhere, right? Like, REALLY in every places? If you leave a place, you very well will find yourself in a place with HIV, too? So, there aren't places, men etc that are free from HIV? HIV is constantly around you, on a daily basis that you just shouldn't bother doing something about your environment or well-being? So, if there's a danger, fire or something harmful around you, don't try to do anything it? And @ your last statement, beautiful reasoning there. Every guy out there is infected with HIV, so just with the cheating partner you have... SMH. So sick. 1 Like |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Magnoliaa(f): 5:35pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Pattypatt: So, why not rather divorce? Because, there's not much difference between what you just said and being a single momma/single. You're being on your own, and doing YOU. You've very much left him ... @bolded, that is no husband then, especially by the definition of one in a marriage (union). 3 Likes |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Toks2008(m): 5:45pm On Aug 28, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: I'm trying not to be surprised by your reasoning. Is there anything hard for you to comprehend in my post or you just want to post for the sake of it. Ladies give the excuse that they may contract HIV from a cheating man so they leave and as logical as it sounds my question is very clear..."Will they not make love ever again without a condom? If yes fine but if NO then what is the guaranty that the new guy does not have it already? That he shows you q negative test result today does not mean he can't get it tomorrow. What is the point? The moment you find out your husband is cheating just switch him to booty call mode and start using condom with him rather than running out of your marriage like mumu. Trust me, outside is full of single ladies and it will take the grave of GOD FOR the lady to get q decent guy that will want to be with a divorcee and when the lady already has kids then it makes it worse. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Magnoliaa(f): 9:21pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
Toks2008: Exactly my point. I was only reiterating your opinion, which is that there's a high chance that the next guy out there is already infected, so just stay with your cheating spouse. Somehow, every guy out there is infected. You're just going to end up with an infected guy. There's zero chance that you'll find a faithful guy, free from STIs, right? Because HIV/AIDS is that common. What is the point? The moment you find out your husband is cheating just switch him to booty call mode and start using condom with him rather than running out of your marriage like mumu. Trust me, outside is full of single ladies and it will take the grave of GOD FOR the lady to get q decent guy that will want to be with a divorcee and when the lady already has kids then it makes it worse. Why are you assuming the lady will be leaving her marriage to get into another marriage again? Is that all there is to do? To life? Herself? A divorcee doesn't necessarily have to re-marry again and if they choose to, or rather if some kind of men (or women) doesn't want them, well . . . good riddance. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Toks2008(m): 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: So is it worth it leaving your marriage to be celibate forever? Let's be frank dearie.. it's not worth it except you just want to argue for its sake. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Magnoliaa(f): 12:08am On Sep 10, 2019 |
Toks2008: I'm not arguing for its sake, because I really do believe people are different and different things work for different people. You can't get it, you might not get it, but it's okay. You don't have to ... Sex can be a huge deal and it also can't be a huge deal. (Besides, there are many aspects to a marriage, also. So many. It's way more than having sex and living under the same roof - because what I can infer from your post is that a woman should remain in an unfaithful marriage because of the sex. You're excluding her emotions and psyche, mental health and so many other things). I never suggested full celibacy, like, for the rest of one's life. You're the one just making it seem as if once a lady gets divorced, then that is the end. Or it's a requirement for her to get married again. And if she chooses to, there are a million guys out there who'll be faithful to her and satisfy her sexually. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Nobody: 12:44am On Sep 10, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:On the first person u mentioned: the post is about marriage infidelity not domestic violence. Which one is fvcking the maid and beat the wife blue black? On the second mention: Is Cardi b low self-esteemed? Or Beyonce?. Her saying she isn't going to leave him doesn't mean she will just let it slide. Had it been she said she isn't going to react at all to the scandal, you would have been right. |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Nobody: 12:24am On Sep 13, 2019 |
Toks2008:Gosh, I can't believe you typed this stuff... 1 Like |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by opebiboy: 3:59pm On Sep 15, 2019 |
Mumu |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by MarieSucre(f): 1:09am On Mar 19, 2020 |
Toks2008: Shuooo! Then let him leave na. That's like advising someone to stay in a horrible company because the moment they leave, their bosses will hire another person. Lol. If you like cheating so much then the responsibility to hold your marriage together is on you. Nobody will have sense for you. Have sense for yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by Hazlett1988: 3:15am On Mar 19, 2020 |
SAY NO TO TRIBALISM |
Re: Omawumi: If My Husband Cheats, I Won't Leave Him by wany(f): 3:39am On Mar 19, 2020 |
That your opinion with his doesn't align doesn't make him ignorant. Why not educate us?Are you minding the warp brain,this is one of the reason his own wife left him. |
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