Davash222:
E be like she don already block you sef.

Richnerd69:


She isn't online...

Davash222:
Story. Eve’s daughter don block you since.

Davash222:
Story. Eve’s daughter don block you since.

PrimadonnaO:
Lmfao! Literally!

Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!?

Dear OP, you're not ready for life yet, trust me... if this is how you intend to be policing your significant other about.

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for well over an hour.

So, just imagine how ordinary "I miss you" is getting you worked up.

But then again, I don't think I've ever told either of my exes that I miss them.

PrimadonnaO:
Lmfao! Literally!

Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!?

Dear OP, you're not ready for life yet, trust me... if this is how you intend to be policing your significant other about.

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for well over an hour.

So, just imagine how ordinary "I miss you" is getting you worked up.

But then again, I don't think I've ever told either of my exes that I miss them.

GraGra247:


This is total and complete bullshit!! If you are in a serious relationship you have no reason whatsoever to share intimate pasts with your ex(s) .

If you do so, you will certainly cheat. Mark my words. Its just a matter of time.

The funny thing is that you ladies cry foul when men do these kind of things but now that men try to avoid such, you women do it and pretend there's nothing wrong with it. Hypocrisy!

PrimadonnaO:



These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for well over an hour.

So, just imagine how ordinary "I miss you" is getting you worked up .

PrimadonnaO:


Is it really that intimate? That you see an old picture of someone and you send it to them.
I understand how the other partner finding out might feel a bit uncomfortable
It's a tricky subject really... and I can't quite say what's right or wrong. All I'm saying is that it's not always that serious. It's not necessarily a cause for worry.

Richnerd69:


Let your boyfriend know about the emboldened and how you keep encouraging your exes(thereby leading them on) , and let me know what happens thereafter. Thanks.




This is the problem I'm having, her inability to see the wrong in her deeds. It's a young relationship starting from scratch, and she's suppose to earn my trust little by little, but with every iota of trust she earns, she breaks it the next moment by raising a suspicion in me.

Lady, it doesn't matter how little , or harmless "I miss you too" might seem , if it will break your relationship, then don't do it. Trust is earned, not demanded.

blesskewe:
U are fighting for her but she doesn't want to fight for you

GraGra247:


All I'm saying is that its CERTAINLY a cause for worry. And I am fully supported by every relationship expert around the world.

NNo relationship expert will ever recommend you stay in touch with your exes to such dangerous degree of exchanging photos.

Such things can easily spark a long buried flame from any of the parties. Cheating with exes always begin with such little negligible but dangerous things.

Richnerd69:


Let your boyfriend know about the emboldened and how you keep encouraging your exes(thereby leading them on) , and let me know what happens thereafter. Thanks.




This is the problem I'm having, her inability to see the wrong in her deeds. It's a young relationship starting from scratch, and she's suppose to earn my trust little by little, but with every iota of trust she earns, she breaks it the next moment by raising a suspicion in me.

Lady, it doesn't matter how little , or harmless "I miss you too" might seem , if it will break your relationship, then don't do it. Trust is earned, not demanded.

GraGra247:


You are perfectly correct. Any lady that behaves that way and finds nothing wrong with it will CERTAINLY cheat.

Even to the extent of adding 2 love emojis. She's still very much interested in her Ex.

PrimadonnaO:


Ultimately, it's about discipline... and intent.

PrimadonnaO:


But how do y'all do the LDR thing? Were you guys already dating and living in the same town before the distance happened?

PrimadonnaO:
Lmfao! Literally!

Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!?

Dear OP, you're not ready for life yet, trust me... if this is how you intend to be policing your significant other about.

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for well over an hour.

So, just imagine how ordinary "I miss you" is getting you worked up.

But then again, I don't think I've ever told either of my exes that I miss them.

Richnerd69:


She was based in my state, and we were acquaintances. I decided to take it a little further than that 2yrs later , then she had already moved to another state. I wanted to a make a move before hand in person(she told me she had a thing form me then) . So we just clicked, whilst reminiscing about how we first met and how shy I was then. We already arranged to meet again next month. She's to stay a week.

GraGra247:


You obviously have no experience in relationships at all. Wait till experience teaches you very hard lessons.

Richnerd69:


I guess so. She called me 30mins ago still telling me she would stop, but she doesnt see any wrong, and if I want the pin to her social media accts, I can have them. She's so pretty, she must have tons of guys in her dm. I'm afraid I might see a lot more enough to scatter my heart in pieces. So I'd pass.

MariaLavina:
When I read your post the first word that came to my mind is Insecurity but reading through comments I thought you are just an overly sensitive (emotional being) but this post confirms my initial perception.
You are INSECURE!
You believe what happened in your former relationship will happen again and your lady being a beautiful one increases your anxiety. You don't believe in the relationship because you don't believe in you being enough, that prompt your question' am I not enough'? Lol dude that question will be difficult to answer by any one especially when it's asked by someone you barely know for two months. My question to you is, Do you see yourself being enough? Are you valuable enough? How do you see yourself? Do you think she's too good for you? Work on your state of mind (esteem and confidence) You lack those two.



Now to telling an ex you miss them(him/her) Honestly speaking it is wrong especially when you are in a relationship. It refreshes memories and awaken desires to be together again. It is like saying there is a vacuum somewhere your current partner isn't filling and if there should be anyone to know this it should be ones current partner and not an ex. However we all should realize that ex's were once part of our lives and some can not be easily forgotten so it's normal to miss them. Op, telling your girlfriend you needed some space is wrong. You should have let your plight known to her, and work things out.That is how to build a relationship, your actions at such an early stage of your relationship shows you don't value her and sadly she might have interpreted it that way. You don't just pull out of things that way, you should have given her a benefit of doubt.

Richnerd69:


Deep. Thank you. I will work on my confidence and esteem.

PrimadonnaO:
Lmfao! Literally!

Why should you miss him. Am I not enough!?

Dear OP, you're not ready for life yet, trust me... if this is how you intend to be policing your significant other about.

These things aren't always that serious. Yes, you're overreacting! I talk to my both exes.

One is always sending pictures of us from way back whenever he stumbles on it. Just two weeks ago, I found one inbetween my books... from 4 years ago and I sent it to him. We laughed over it and all.

But trust me, there's nothing there. Perhaps, if I had a boyfriend like you and he had seen our conversations, he would have been jealous or upset. But really, there's nothing between us. I blocked him on Whatsapp but when either of us calls, we can stay on the phone talking for a decent amount of time.

But then again, I don't think I've ever told either of my exes that I miss them.

Enwhen:



All those calls and friendly attitude with ur ex is meant for what


Just imagine if ur bf is still having a friendly chat and others with his ex, how would u feel ?, Sometimes when u people want to hide and do things , u claim there is nothing, untill when it get to point when u starts remembering those swt memories and before u know it, it's another story....



I still can't reason what will make me to be calling and sending pics to my ex when I have somebody I presently live and wouldn't cherish my conversation with my ex...we are talking about opposite sex here, that no one is perfect and we r all prone to mistakes, as such, why drawing trouble close to u when u don't want it ??... Once u truely done with ex,. There should be no communication or anything , it should road side greetings hi /hello how are u doing finish... We all know what is right but because we want to be more smarter we claim there is nothinnnng!!!!!.