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Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Icon79(m): 4:41pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
KPOM! O pari TheMan17: |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Oga, you married a slayqueen and expect her to be virtuous? Jesus! I will advice that you withdrawn all privileges from her and send her back to her family as she is beyond redemption. Focus on your kids and your life. I wish you well |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Mikeiron78(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Based on the information provided, you seem to be insecure for one reason; You are way too older than her and you're scared of not being able to keep up with her and eventually losing her to a younger guy. That's life. |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Kayharry(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Is ur wife a Taurus? |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by maasoap(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
truthsayer009: See me see trouble o. Lol Someone is complaining about his wife behaving like a wayward woman just because she has a good and young look, you're saying he should join her at the gym. I don't even understand why he let's her move around with those types of friends |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Better dont listen to anyones advise to divorce. Marriage is not about divorcing. You have to endure. I know of a couple that are going to 60 years in Marriage. The woman lived with the man being a cheat. But she never backed out. She fought For her home even when slay queens wanted to ruin It. If You are thinking about divorce It shows your immatured. And consider your children. Children from broken homes suffer a lot. If You think she goes to party. Then try to attend with her. You are the one being boring in the relationship. The more You go in a Marriage the more You spice up things. I know also of a couple every saturday And sunday they go to the bar to chill. And during some special occassions they go to the club. Why dont You start being free. For the text messages its normal. Most women Just love when some unknown guy calls them sweet names espically If your not used to that. But If You think she is cheating. Talk to her And to the elders in her family. Most women in her case do this For fun not actually to cheat Because from your post It seems your not this kind of social man. And its not cool. Even my dad tooo isnt social. And that some of the problems my mum is facing. He doesnt go to party. I mean wedding parties, birthday parties, And other stuffs. That Why mum tells us to marry a social man. Because a man that is social spices the home And It becomes Better If the woman is tooo. You end up spicing your sex life, You spice up your romance, And even in the family You would want the best For them. And when You dress You become a killer in fashion. So thats my point. But my advice is that dont divorce It will only make things worst. Nothing is peaceful or good about separating. Even now You have kids. If You do this. Your children will never respect You. You can try And look For other ways to sought the Marriage out. Besides only a wise man. Endures to the end. And only a real man knows how to make the home shake. So think wise Bye. |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Paul112(m): 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Samolaogun: This is a case of a responsible man married to an overzealous slay queen, you married her out of lust, because of her nice physique which made you never to waist time in marrying her, the kind of friends she mingles with would have given you the foreknowledge before paying her bride price, well i wont advice you to divorce her but endure to the end because you took an oath with her which states for better for worse, you are only experiencing the worst part of her now, but dont wait for death to do you part with her. Talk things with her and also slay like a young handsome dude to put back her heart towards you. |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Iykediallo: 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
sinaj:sdfp |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Habbatically: 4:42pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
donstan18:You are senseless. 11 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by DrumOfPatriots: 4:43pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Reading through this thread and laff don kee me, people saying the OP is insecure but non of you said anything about guys calling a married woman "LOVE" if i call any of una mama "LOVE' which of una go like am ? which of una papa go like am ? Come on no dignity among women again. Chai. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Ufedolove: 4:45pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
sinaj: How do you feel now that you've spat this rubbish? What's the relationship between a sexily good-looking woman and a flirty woman? |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by sanusi44z(m): 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Samolaogun:I am not married but i can relate with you. Do you have access to her phone? As a married couple, you need to have access to each other's phone or you have to have access to her phone. That is the first thing i will do when i get married. She should not be hiding anything from you. You are the husband, you have to have a say on your wife. Your wife is a slay queen as they said, party type, over fashionable, want to compete with friends, want to have likes on instagram, want men attention. Let me tell you, even if she is a faithful and has pure intention, one day or some time, she wouldn't know when she will fall to someone or more, she will cheat. I have been there before. |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Icon79(m): 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Word! O pari healthserve: 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Icon79:Gbam! The OP married a slayqueen and he is paying the price. He cannot say he didn't see these signs from dating stage, neither will he say she suddenly changed to this. She has zero regard for him.neither does she has atom of virtue in her. He either divorces her or die in silence 1 Like |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by TempleHouse: 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Women seems to stay with those men that maltreat them. Most of the beautiful ladies that behave well do get some bad treatment from their husband and yet ignore it and pretend all is well. If you treat some women like Queen, they'll turn the husband to Cinderella. 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Ufedolove: 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
donstan18: I bet you typed this in a rush to have a meaningful first-comment but sorry, you've typed rubbish. 8 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by CyberWolf: 4:47pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
If your wife hasn’t started cheating, it’s just a matter of time. Forget all these people telling you that you’re insecure, you’re not. Your instinct is telling you that something is wrong and your instinct can never fail you so, listen to it and act. You’re the head of the house and whatever rule you make should be obeyed by everyone in the house, who is not ready to do that should get out. Even the Bible says that if your wife won’t do as you say, divorce her.. that’s if you’re a Christian. 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by kizwid(m): 4:48pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
A man said another man is referring to his wife as "love" and some are saying he is insecure... op, ppl will say rubbish but when such things happen to them, you will see how weak they are.... meanwhile woman are so unpredictable, you can't just conclud.. it your wife not your girlfriend, so check her phone, in fact if need be hire ppl to watch her for you, but do make sure you know thr fact before the take any action... a wife that any other man is fuckin not worth calling a wife 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by nitt: 4:48pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
LordKO: Your brain they gbe wella Good advice. God bless you 4 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:48pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
sanusi44z:You must have unrestricted access to her phone FROM the first day of dating... Don't wait till marriage |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Kokoebapluse(m): 4:49pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Are you also à good husband ? And sure you are a good husband ? Then you should not fear, because she know if she lose you to another women she Will regret it, Do you have good looking ? You too start and dress up, roll your life leave her alone dont talk to her about her dressing about her social life, you too start to dress like correct Guy man with enogh efizi you know alway smell good before You leave House and always ask her How you look like before you leave House even if she dont talk just smile and walk away, and alway keep quite about and behave like man when you return back home, dont talk too much and dont eat too much and dont sleep too much always press your phone in her present, trust me she Will start to confuse about What is goin on. You know What women brain always think about negative than positive, she Will start to think négative about your movement, and she Will always get jealous and agressive, once you notice that just have time to have talk with her and calm her down, you know What women hate ? Women dont like thire husband to dress too atcrative to other women, but always dress like u never Marry and look Good always, i tell u she Will nearly have bp, but make sure you are a resonsible man ooo, if you are not responsable she wont care How you look like, but as for me i dont care Who my wife friand is How she dress, but What am sure about is if she lose me she May not get someone to replace me back. And if my wife always' ignore my talk ï Will abandon her, let her live her life make i leave mine. Or we just seperate simple |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by DarkJeddi(m): 4:49pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Wait until you get married and you can then count yourself lucky for a woman like that.. Like someone said up there,never underestimate the power of your gut feelings.. If it squawks like a Duck and waddles like a Duck,be sure it ain't nothing but a Duck.. The Guy has enough reasons to suspect the wife and until his suspicions are proven to be untrue,he has every reason to be wary.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
The responses are funny though. A lot of guys are under the illusion that women are pikins they can just boss around. I forbid you from browsing Instagram, I will take away your privileges. I will check your phone. How? 1 Like |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by friendl: 4:49pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
I know she is an Imo lady ,guy better wise up ,otherwise she will kill you one day |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by jconsulting(f): 4:50pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
You marry slay queen , she go slay till she die , my prayer for you is not to turn to slain queen |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by MrOpp(m): 4:51pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
My brother, A lot of people here are inexperience, therefore, know the advise you take. It is completely improper for a married woman to have very close male friends who can even refer to her as "my love". whoever says that is alright is either inexperience or ignorant. Marriage require lots of sacrifice from both partners, always put yourself in your partner's shoe. Ask yourself "if my partner behaves this way or relate with opposite sex this way, will I be comfortable? and if the answer is no, know that acting/behaving that way will hurt your partner as well. Married people should know that when u have decide to get married, there are lot of lifestyle that require adjustment. There are dressing that's not fitting for married people, for instance a married man sagging his trousers, a married woman dressing inappropriately is completely wrong. people should understanding that you must not dress inappropriately before you look hot and sexy. you can dress appropriately and still be hot and sexy. Tbh, so many people in marriage today has no business being married, either there are not ready or there are not matured enough. Note that the maturity am referring to is not age. I mean mental maturity. Marriage require lots of mental maturity. Those things she is doing, she is way pass that lifestyle, she is now a woman, kids are looking up to her as role model. I will suggest you sit her down and school her, if she is teachable and she has the ability to unlearn, teach her with love I believe she will see reason to change her ways for good and know she is a married woman. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by bogdaddy(m): 4:51pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Oga give am belle no time Samolaogun: |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
LordKO:Coming from a man, you deserve a hug. 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by healthserve(m): 4:52pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by DaddyMorenike: 4:54pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace:Abeg no tell anybody?!!! |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Yuneehk(f): 4:54pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
Princedapace:I am not supporting her indecency. We're even saying the same thing. If a certain lifestyle of your proposed other half is one you can't deal with, why go ahead to still be with them? Different people have different lifestyles. The onus is on you to find that which you can live with. Don't settle for one you'd normally not like and hope for a change which most times, never comes. Sadly, this attitude towards her marriage would affect the poor kids who'd suffer from all of it if the marriage is dissolved. |
Re: I’m Suspecting My Wife by maasoap(m): 4:55pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
sinaj: donstan18: Somebody's wife has turned into a slay queen and you all are yarning insecurity up and down. As a man and husband, I can't even stand my wife having bunch of nuisances as friends and following one another up and down |
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