I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

How so?

Because they have plans

healthserve:




How so?

Am too tired to explain for now,

CHoccolaTE:


Am too tired to explain for now,

My dear. I'll wait. Even if its a week. Mo fe mo idi oro na iya mi

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

You're unserious

That's there final bus stop for immunity and joy for their family that she is a full woman in another home that finally
becomes hers creating a bond that last forever for both families involved.

healthserve:



My dear. I'll wait. Even if its a week. Mo fe mo idi oro na iya mi

https://www.nairaland.com/1265450/why-men-think-womens-lives

Along with the reasons op stated, and other reasons as well

frozen70:


Thanks for the question

If you can look very well, in marriage, women run the home even if its the man or woman that is the bread winner

Children are given birth by women despite the men pregnanting them, but those children are more to their mum than dad because she understands them and always around with them

In a normal African family, the wife's family frequent their house more than the man's family

A man seeks for a wife to marry, marry her and she takes over the home, women are resilience and multi tasking more that men, especially in home front

So your argument is based on the fact that women are home-builders and the home is life, permit me to call it that.

Thank you for your response lol. You must be a really good wife and mom to your husband and 17 year old who would be gifted an android phone from his mama on his 17th birthday lol. However, while I agree with your statement, I partially agree with the reasons you gave lol.

CHoccolaTE:



https://www.nairaland.com/1265450/why-men-think-womens-lives

Are you for real ? 2013 Thread in 2019. You hold on to those ideals till now?

MiseryHimself:


So your argument is based on the fact that women are home-builders and the home is life, permit me to call it that.

Thank you for your response lol. You must be a really good wife and mom to your husband and 17 year old who is going to get an android phone from his good mama on his 17th birthday lol. However, while I agree with your statement, I partially agree with the reasons you gave lol.

Lol,

You are monitoring my contributions and post abi ❓

I will change my moniker, lol

healthserve:





Are you for real ? 2013 Thread in 2019. You hold on to those ideals till now?

Lol, nothing has changed about the things I wrote there, marriages are still like that

CHoccolaTE:



Lol, nothing has changed about the things I wrote there

Have you ever tired marriage counselling before. I'm seeing a pattern with you. Between that thread and your recent situation.

healthserve:




Have you ever tired marriage counselling before. I'm seeing a pattern with you. Between that thread and your recent situation.

What am I getting counselling for and what is my recent situation?

CHoccolaTE:


What am I getting counselling for and what is my recent situation?

Or I'm mistakening it with chocolate me and the thread she posted just now. My apologies


Anyways, whatsup. Are you married at the moment. If you are, how are you handling the 2013 post?

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

Aunty-Madam If you don't want to get married remain single and stop looking for those who will join your league. Remain single alone. Nobody is interested in your way of life. There are many career women in this country who are married and earn so much yet the bills of the family is completely on the man of the house. Some houses, the men earn less than their wives , still the household expenses is on them. Have you ever consider the African ladies that just sit 24/7 without doing anything but are seriously looking for husband who will take their responsibilities ? Men are the jobs they see. Marriage is a rescue mission to them. They are the ones busy looking for Iphone 11 from men. Funny enough, some ladies immediately stop working when they get married. Learn to appreciate the man in your life but if you want to remain single, don't drag others along with you.

I'm a man I'm proud of the responsibility God gave to me.. Care, provide for and protect my family. My wife is to help not to share my responsibility which I will encourage and support her to do...then that's a plus for me.... This bill sharing mentality of my fellow guys is becoming nauseating....as for ladies insulting housewives....Let me hammer this into ur heads URE ARE NOT IN ANYWAY BETTER THAN THEM.... If ure the goal-getter type that is career oriented, Thumbs up but every body won't be LIKE YOU.....YOU are YOU..... THEY are THEM....it is this same mentality of science students are better than arts students mentality ure portraying

healthserve:



Or I'm mistakening it with chocolate me and the thread she posted just now. My apologies


Anyways, whatsup. Are you married at the moment. If you are, how are you handling the 2013 post?

Yes you are confusing me with chocolateme

Sorry I can't divulge my marital status on naira land

If I say am single the next thing I will hear is that am an old miserable frustrated evening newspaper feminist that will never get a husband because of my feminism

If I say am married I will start hearing advice about marriage counselling and recent situation from people like you

Read my posts and understand them, don't worry about whether or not m married

CHoccolaTE:


Yes you are confusing me with chocolateme

Sorry I can't divulge my marital status on naira land

If I say am single the next thing I will hear is that am an old miserable frustrated evening newspaper feminist that will never get a husband because of my feminism

If I say am married I will start hearing advice about marriage counselling and recent situation from people like you

K

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

This is one of the bad friends girls should run away from..... Marriage calculator... %gain and %loss.

frozen70:


Lol,

You are monitoring my contributions and post abi ❓

I will change my moniker, lol

I check people's profile once in a while to know the kind of persons they are lol.

Nah, you don't want to change your moniker because of a wretch who has no ulterior motives towards you.

How is your hubby, your sons, and daughters?

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

actually marriage is a scam to men and not women. The only thing it does for them is help polish their ego (they feel man enough when they are able to slave all their lives at their jobs so they can provide for their wive and kids).

Read 'The Manipulated Man' written by a woman unafraid to say the truth.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

marriage is no child's play

For either the man
or the woman


it takes a whole lot
to keep things steady in a marriage

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

Since you figured marriage is a scam to females, I hope you don't get married some day and even more, I hope you don't have sexual relations in your unmarried state. You'll do just fine.

MiseryHimself:

I check people's profile once in a while to know the kind of persons they are lol.

Nah, you don't want to change your moniker because of a wretch who has no ulterior motives towards you.

How is your hubby, your sons, and daughters?

They are doing good

frozen70:


They are doing good

I have a sneaky suspicion that they are not.

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

This viewpoint is inaccurate

Marriage in itself is no child's play


Anyone going into marriage looking for "benefits" is not ready for marriage

But most people don't understand

They usually are topic for the society (especially in our society) as soon as they approach 30 and have not had any suitors..... I guess that's the main reason.
Also, after much waka waka most ladies truly feel relieved to still get a man who likes and marries them after giving all to one yawa guy

MiseryHimself:


I have a sneaky suspicion that they are not.

Wish it for your entire family

dasparrow:


The misogynist Nigerian society is the reason. Nigerian society has brainwashed its women into believing that their sole purpose on earth is marriage and child birth.

Today a lot of married Nigerian women are dead in their graves after being killed by their husbands. Many more are living poverty stricken lives raising families in face me I face you rooms the size of a chicken cage. Later they console themselves and their pathetic existence by looking down on their female counterparts that are single and think that they're better than them when in actuality Nigerian society does not respect anyone with a vagina. Period!

Go and see the way Nigerian society treats women who are married yet have no children or the ones with children that are all female or the ones who are widows. I can never allow any female child of mine reside in Nigeria. Nigeria is a horrible country. No wonder Nigeria is making no progress.

just so you know


men get the short end of the stick too

JoyceMeyersFan:

So it doesn’t have to do with love and companionship?

In most cases... Yes

We almost always marry people we didn't really expect to be our wives

frozen70:


Wish it for your entire family

Ha, wish it for my entire family kwa Bia, wetin I do you?