MiseryHimself:


Ha, wish it for my entire family kwa Bia, wetin I do you?

frozen70:


You asked after my family, I said they are doing good and instead of you to glorify God, your reply was

"I have a sneaky suspicion that they are not"

Then I said, wish it for your entire family

So if its good or bad, so it be for you

victorian:










Because they don't understand how Nigerian marriages work, they think it's all about the wedding day.

Most men naturally are not the talking type. Women love to talk and share our everyday life with the one we love. In relationships, yea some men can bend a little and chat with you, but in marriage? Most men close up and behave like Oga and employee kind of relationship.

Nowadays marriages amongst the poor and average class, it's women that's the bread winners in homes. Sad but true. They work their assz out to keep the home running and avoid shame.
Anyways I wish all intending brides and grooms 100percent best of luck, cos y'all really need it.
Ain't easy.

PrimadonnaO:
I don't know if I'd be speaking for a minority, but the thing is that women romanticise caring for others by default.

And then when a woman loves a man, she begins to feel like she can't live without him... she wants to have children with him. She wants to love him and love his family... to care for him, to nurture a home and not feel like she's making wrong emotional and psychological investments. That's the point where she begins to crave marriage.

theButterfly:
Men are also excited but surprisingly more nervous.

DeRay98:


But when old age comes and their priorities change, career success is no longer a sufficient consolation. Loneliness comes slowly like a thief and they start to discover that all most of their girl gang have left for marriage and no longer interested in weekly hangouts, old gang members are revelling in motherhood and talking their experience with hubby and babies etc. Suddenly, silent cries occupies them in their private home. All their toasters have disappeared into marriages and no longer interested in babes except of course for a fling because she's lonely and desperately needs a man's muscular touch.
That's when go secretly date marriage men because they don't want insults from small small boys...

frozen70:


You asked after my family, I said they are doing good and instead of you to glorify God, your reply was

"I have a sneaky suspicion that they are not"

Then I said, wish it for your entire family

So if its good or bad, so it be for you

starbright4real:
gud day, pls i seriously need a job, i am a graduate of accounting (hnd) 07037799108

crismark:

chai!!! bros pls its okay

wristbangle:


Much sense in this statement. Not that I am saying we should totally adopt the western culture in terms of method to approach a lady and vice Versa but pick the positive side of it as being quite a shy, timid and emotional guy score a good point in ladies point of view.

Our ladies here love ruthless man hence the reason why the ones with human feelings had lost focus and have become more ruthless/wicked. Sometimes I blame the ladies. You can't eat your cake and have it. It is either you go for a ruthless or a soft minded man.

Ugosample:


it's not all women o


A woman who.was being too picky while in her youth while looking flr is most likely to be in the category you painted above

But a woman who knows marriage is not for her from day 1 will not feel so awkward when she is older
there are so many fulfilling things one can do.
it does not have to be all marriage

theButterfly:
Men are also excited but surprisingly more nervous.

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

CsRockefeller:


Two times a Man ponders if he's making the right decision;

1. When resigning from a job
2. When getting married.

No 2 is more pronounced.

modik:
Reason is simple :

They have been elevated to the higher level of Mrs and can't wait for the social respect and class distinction it attracts.

This statement always come to mind : "DON'T YOU KNOW I'M A MARRIED WOMAN? "

healthserve:



My dear. I'll wait. Even if its a week. Mo fe mo idi oro na iya mi

komodapson:


Oh...you're ready to wait for a week... Am ready to wait for 6 weeks ( 1 transfer window)... Let her just highlight 2 benefits...lol...just 2

Ugosample:


it's not all women o


A woman who.was being too picky while in her youth while looking flr is most likely to be in the category you painted above

But a woman who knows marriage is not for her from day 1 will not feel so awkward when she is older
there are so many fulfilling things one can do.
it does not have to be all marriage

healthserve:




Men leave those confused things. Couldn't even denfend her position intelligently

komodapson:


I felt dead when I saw her reference to a 2013 post...I could easily picture the kind of mind such thoughts emanated from

QueenSuccubus:






Im reading it thru & thru but my culture is different babe, so i can't relate to Nigerian marriage set up

victorian:
true well said ,we men don't talk much but women do , there were times when the men shouldered most in the home, and there will come times of financial weakness, the wisest of women cover the man's weakness while women with bad attitude and brought up who wreck home cause a stir or end the marriage, my father was once at this Stage and what my mother did was to sell her jewellery box and gave him the money , this was way back and it was a fortune , my father almost cried , he swore to never fall financially again, today my mother remains his jewel , I some times ask him why is he pampering my mum instead of his children , my old man still de buy chocolate, wine and roses for my mum , I actually feel jealous about this two people in public as they behave like teenage lovers, but thank god no be tonto born me o.









Because they don't understand how Nigerian marriages work, they think it's all about the wedding day.

Most men naturally are not the talking type. Women love to talk and share our everyday life with the one we love. In relationships, yea some men can bend a little and chat with you, but in marriage? Most men close up and behave like Oga and employee kind of relationship.

Nowadays marriages amongst the poor and average class, it's women that's the bread winners in homes. Sad but true. They work their assz out to keep the home running and avoid shame.
Anyways I wish all intending brides and grooms 100percent best of luck, cos y'all really need it.
Ain't easy.

victorian:








Eeyah

Your mum truly stood by your dad.

That one u said thank God, no be Tonto born you is funny..

That Tonto is one crazy woman!

godofuck231:
may your blood be resistant from toxic friends like that of tonto, may your man never know no waist pain, may his sword of ego remain string ,may he terrorise your bed and thighs, night or day till oh God becomes your prayer , ijn

victorian:








Hmmmmmm


Isn't that prayer too much?


I don't need my man to terrorize my thighs o!

Biko I'm too soft for such terror, Biko nu.

I will pass on it. I wan live long.

godofuck231:
receive cassava then ijn

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS