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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by orimsamsam(m): 10:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
hamid6249:please sir , what your reasons |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by slimanyd: 10:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
seangy4konji: North Koreans 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by McAausim: 10:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by johnaruson(m): 10:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Because you are poor and not independent, if not, nobody has right on your choice of spouse. If marriage didn't work, you can separate peacefully. 11 Likes
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by styless(f): 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
who read that story about a similar suitor issue on www.dnbstories.com? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Bofoy4(m): 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Run away my sister IMO state men are wicked one marry my sis for one year now and even with a child he refuse to take her from uyo to his village, IMO state men in fact most Igbo guy are use to the game Run for ur life Ur parents are not fools to take that decision 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by seangy4konji: 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
slimanyd:com on.. I don't know. The state but think IMO.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by carlleung(m): 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
An old saying goes thus; if a snake crawls into your house and an mbaise indigene comes in too,first kill mbaise before snake. Don't know if it's just a myth or a Caricature 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by SamOyovwi: 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
O don't know these people o. Tell me more about them. Enlighten me |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by wisdom042(m): 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I heard so much about mbaise dat they are corny and sometimes dey apply too much sense in handling issues 8 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
MedicH: Why why |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nova15: 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
AfroKnight: Of all the advice in the world, this is the worst 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Bofoy4(m): 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
johnaruson:may DAT happen to ur sister in jesus name Amen |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Hotzone(m): 10:02pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ursullalinda:He/she must have studied in the school if ‘perfect pretense’ |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ednut1(m): 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Carry belle 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by seangy4konji: 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Same way o can never marry any ijebu or ondo,ilesha,ijesha lady My father married a second wife whose mother was from oguachi or something.. The mother was loyal for ever and so was the wife my father married from that side.. If I we as woman from that side.. Oguachi.. Till death to us part. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Lol. it seems you havent heard... But they cant stop you, if you trust yourself, go ahead. At least for the Mbaise people to exist until now, somebody must have married them and bore their children So they cant all be 100% bad But on second thought i find it hard to believe that you can be surprised at your parents reaction. I think my parents would sound like that too. maybe you grew up in a detribalised environment where you wont be hearing these stereotypes Well to answer your question, in my mothers words "Mbaise people are over-wise in marriage" 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by arodavoo(m): 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I think it better to ask your parent the reason.. Than coming here to ask, your parent must have had a reason for saying so.. I believe you should only come here when you've known the reason for rejecting people from that side Do well to check my profile to learn importation from Turkey, USA, UK Malaysia and china 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Mutemenot(m): 10:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
There's a saying " when an imbaise man and snake invades your house, chase the man away before the snake" .. but no be me talk am oh 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by slimanyd: 10:04pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
jimmyolasun: Yansh keeeee you there 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nooneonline(m): 10:04pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Well as the saying goes... If u happen to see an mbaise man and a snake. Kill the mbaise man before u kill the snake. On a personal level I have not heard any good thing about them. Please be warned there is no smoke without fire 14 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by EmmyBiggy(m): 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I know you can discuss anything with your mom, ask her and she will tell you everything, our parent always want the best for us 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Bofoy4: Who presided over the this concoted lie you just called marriage . 7 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by DEBJOCH1(m): 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
DON'T WORRY, YOUR PARENT WILL MARRY YOU, AT YOUR AGE YOU WANT TO REMAIN OTONAKA NNA RIGHT? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by greggng: 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: Mbaise is my maternal home....they are great people. They hate injustice...they are very caring people. No society is perfect enough....the most important thing is the character of the man you wanna marry. The only area I disagree with mbaise people is on their requirement for marriage...when someone is marrying their daughter's....but I have been told that they have reduced their requirement now....but it doesn't apply to you cos you are not the one buying your bride price.. Again they are predominantly Catholic ...so visit one rev father in your community to help convince your father. In General igbo men are the best in terms of taking care of their wife and children 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Emary(f): 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
It's an old belief among the Igbo that "If you see a snake and you see an Mbaise man, you'd better kill the man and leave the snake". They were notoriously crafty and unreliable but that is a generalization and doesn't necessarily mean your husband or his family are like that. I would suggest you engage your parents' priest or pastor to intervene in the matter. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Pubichairs(m): 10:06pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Sister I would advice u to heed to ur parents advice You are definitely entering a one chance marriage Mbaise men are wayward...u dated him for three years..u still don't know much about him u will regret ever marrying a guy from there...my word of advice 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
3 yrs are enough to make findings abt your guy Love conquers many things And the will of God for you is all that matters. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: Age is no longer on your side. please go where your heart lies |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by pweeryambre: 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
wisdom042:during my youth service, the one I met was so kind and generous, but womanize a lot and very good looking too. my neigbours husband is from thesame ahiazu mbaise, have refused to go and pay his wife dowry only did introduction and has impregnated her with 3 kids , the wife is from Enugu state, she still worried till today. I also know a wicked mbaise man that I needed an assistance from, the conditions he gave me was just terrible, I had to back off. they are nice people, I think, but the majority are just mean hearted.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by NaijaTushboy(m): 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: never you marry any man from Mbaise coz most if not all of them are impotent 2 Likes |
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