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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Zimmermann(m): 10:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14:LET ME GET SOMETHING STRAIGHT YOUNG LADY, U DATED A GUY FOR 3YEARS!!! AND STILL YOU DON'T KNOW HIM ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHETHER TO MARRY HIM OR NOT!!! ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by SPF247(m): 10:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14:they used to eat people...na why ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by pharrell8(m): 10:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
MondayOsunbor:Let's forget d proverb here and know d genuine reason Y her parents didn't oblige to it. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by BarrElChapo(m): 10:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Na why e dey good to ask your parents with style from the beginning, even me as man don dey use style ask my mom if she's cool with me marrying outside our tribe.. But OP all you can do here is get your mother ( if you're close with her ) and your siblings to stand with you then together you guys can convince/force your dad to change his stance 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Egbesu1(m): 10:24pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Your father is a wise man, he has seen the future , those guys are bad, their is a proverb in Igbo that says if a snake enters your house and an mbaise man enter, its say leave the snake n kill the mbaise man first. Thank your dad later. The guy don Bleep you like mad , your sense follow wind go 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Thor2025: 10:24pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Let's stop wasting time with what daddy and Mummy thinks regarding a life partner. If dem nor gree, find your way. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by AfroKnight: 10:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by micflo28(m): 10:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I am from mbaise call me i will let you know all about them 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by YorubaNinja: 10:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
keepingmum: Yet, it's an Ijebu man that brought liberation and education to Nigeria! ![]() 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by bluediesel03: 10:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I have been reading wicked and terrible things that happened in South East fo some time now I hardly read any one coming from mbaise.maybe we should henceforth be mindful of where bad news comes from so that we can know the bad area to avoid in East.I believe in practical not Dem say Dem say... 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Ademoore07(m): 10:26pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
During my post graduate studies at the unical in 2013, i accomodated an mbiase guy unknown to me that he was seeking admission. He lied to me then that he's a year 1 BCH student. He was the first mbaise indigene i ever encountered, unfortunately, he is a chronic 419. I'm not generalising though. 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by franchasng: 10:26pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
franchasng: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Obason22(m): 10:26pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Trezagezz:Ur side of story is based on mbaise woman getting married to another man from different state on tribe, what abt an mbaise man getting married to a lady from another state or tribe, what are d experience like. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by carlos1(m): 10:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Mbaise trending again. Wow. Ndi sowing machine and ladies machine |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by KingLennon(m): 10:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
PheelzAlmighty:As men scares so....You know wetin she pass thru to hold dat one down ![]() |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by salt1: 10:28pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Pubichairs: What you call fact is subjective. You can't use a few experiences to condemn a whole group. Each person must be judged on their merit. If I had listened to my mom's disapproval based on where someone comes from, I won't have married my awesome spouse. Think person not group 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by franchasng: 10:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Egbesu1:Stop peddling fake news, its not a proverb in Igbo land pls, it was culled from a revenge and hate-filled highlife song track sang by Dansach to criticize his former band leader Dr. Sir Warrior who happens to come from Mbaise, stop spreading fake news with boldness ![]() ![]() ![]() Na so others will hear it from you and keep spreading it without knowing how it all started. Just look at how he boldly said: "there is an addage in Igbo...." no be only addage, na addax in your village, fake news carrier ![]() 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by OlawaleBammie: 10:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Bofoy4: u hav tym oo, do u tink dat one get sense?? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by woky: 10:30pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by imitateMe(m): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ngwababe:So it's the job of boyfriend to send you money abi? You should be flogged. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
spiritedtete: To be honest when i get to know the origin of some people I cant help but avoid them due to the propaganda my parents drilled into me growing up.. Its not really good but fear just dey catch me |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by lomprico(m): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
them sabi fuckup. not all though |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by LordKO(m): 10:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Your parents should know that individuals - irrespective of family background, tribe, race, gender, etc - differ based on ethical leanings. Well, I know that it's a principle of natural justice that no person can judge a case in which they have an interest - Mbaise is my maternal home - yet without bias, I tell you majority of Mbaise people are good, forget about whatever stereotypes you've heard about them. Truth is that, they do protect their own (person, interest, possession, etc) with all their might, this makes many outsiders think and take them for bad people. When dealing with them (or a typical one), always make sure you live on the axiom "he whom comes into equity must come with clean hands" both in words and actions, and don't forget your diplomatic garb (sew one if you don't have one already). Don't forget diplomacy, I say, because with it and aforementioned axiom you can also get your parents consent. In summary, if you've achieved self-realization, which means you can/should be able to know your suitor's ethical leanings, then make your choice (either for or against) and live it to the fullest, whether or not your choice aligned to that of your parents choice. Man know thyself. 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Okoroawusa: 10:33pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Find another suitor nah! Abi na matter of life and death? 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by isaacsegun(m): 10:33pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
my experience with my boss back then in 2017 an mbise man, the man is very cunning and stingy but I can't generalize it to everyone of them. And besides, many people, even their fellow igbo men use to talk negatively about them. I will just tell you to listen to the advice of your parent! 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ovieneekperemo: 10:34pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: Listen to your parents. What the elder see sitting down, u the child will not see it standing up. My junior sister has been married to an mbaise man since 2002,my parents warned her but she didn't listen. As at today, she is the sole bread winner of the family, the man has nothing serious going for him. Be warned. This is a true story 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by millionboi2: 10:36pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
arodavoo:Stop deciving ppl,buying from dealers is better pending d time d pesin will build up and start full importation. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by JLM(f): 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Exwizaard: Never use these disrespective tone to refer to parents. They are like small gods on earth. No one can ever love you like them. If things go wrong with you everyone else will abandon you, the nairaland people here will not be there to help you. Believe me , I am talking from experience. Have a heart to heart talk with your parents and trust their decision. They have seen far. Except by nature you know that your parents do not have fair character or sense of judgement. Believe me many wish they had listened and obeyed, especially ladies, of which I am one. God help you 7 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by betterpikinn: 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by johnaruson(m): 10:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Your prayers for another person will happen to you a million folds in Jesus name, Amen. Bofoy4: |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Kcreal2: 10:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
If you see a snake and an Mbaise man, kill the Mbaise man first before the snake was a revenge song by Kabaka when he had issues with Dr Sir warrior in the 80s. The only thing I know about Mbaise is, they are too cunning |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Okoroawusa:okwia? No be do or die matter. |
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