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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Omoluabi16(m): 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
From the little I've heard, seems like mbaise people are a terrible people. Also heard they eat people.. Bad stereotypes too about ijebu and ebira people of kogi. Last last na discrimination go kill us for Naija. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Wickedfacts: 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Mbaise people fought the Pope because of their greed. If you can marry from a place where they fought the Pope, be ready to have Satan as an inlaw. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by fineheart: 10:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Trezagezz: Haba! Your use of English language is as bad as the quality of your advice. Which higher institution did you attend? 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by crackhouse(m): 10:41pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
There's a saying that "if you see an mbaise man and a snake in your house, that you should kill the mbaise man first". |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Okoroawusa: 10:42pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Sofistcatdmoron: 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
YorubaNinja:cheaters, go and marry your agbo hustling and agege bread hustling afonja ladies 2 Likes
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Joystark(f): 10:43pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
slimanyd: lol 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
![]() You have awesome parents. But you must be an ungrateful girl to question their wise counsel. Listen, there are no good men worthy of a deltan kpekus in Mbaise. Do not fall for their gimmicks. I once dated an mbaise girl. I loved her so well that I could kill for her. One day, her friend called me and said my babe was dying and in need of blood. I am O+. I donated blood at the clinic. The next day, I went back to the clinic only to see a guy lying beside her with a blood bag hanging over the metal hanger. I got mad. It was my blood that this Mbaise girl "donated" to her boyfriend. Later, I found that she faked her admission at the clinic to make the guy feel she got ill from losing a lot of blood. The mad girl was also O+. Fear Mbaise people! 9 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
JLM: Yes but when things go wrong with your husband you will face it alone without your parents. Sorry but for all those ones who wished they had listened, as many wish that they hadnt Not everything parents do is completely altruistic. Some parents act selfishly because they dont want you embarrass them by marrying from the wrong place ( and before that, do the wrong job and before that, study the wrong course, go to the wrong university, etc.) Parents can use you to flex and if you dont spot their motives you are done for. Plus with "typical" African parenting you are still a child no matter your age, so your opinions or feelings dont necessarily matter to them as much as theirs when it comes to serious issues Sometimes the love is tied in with vanity and selfish interest, the OP needs to look at the situation objectively and not just blindly follow her parents. This is so important 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by chieni(f): 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14:I want to ask, since you have been dating him for three years have you noticed any of the traits people mentioned here in him? If you haven't then I believe he's truly yours. 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Kcreal2: 10:46pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
crackhouse:It was a revenge song by Kabaka after Dr. Sir Warrior cheated on him. Both of them were Oriental brothers |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by 24kmagic: 10:48pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
All Nigerians are bad and evil, that's according to the international community and especially south Africa. All Mbaise people are bad and evil, that's according to Nigerians. But hear this: Any tribe or group of people known for a particular character or thing, then they are truly that thing. In other words, The international community and especially South Africans are right about Nigerians. Nigerians are absolutely right about Mbaise people, which means you have every reason to worry. The choice is yours. Meanwhile...... Once in a while, don't you single ladies and gentlemen jokingly ask your parents where they wouldn't want you to marry from? Once in a while, I jokingly ask my mom where she'll not want me to marry from and so far, she hasn't mentioned a particular place. It's not like I will even consider her when the time comes sha but just in case. We don't reject or discriminate people when marriage is involved. Discrimination runs in the blood of southerners. I just wonder why. The only form of discrimination here in the middle belt is on the basis of religion. I want to marry from the south east or south south. I just hope that when the time comes, issues like this will not come up. Cos if southerners can discriminate against each other, what's the faith of a middle beltan who southerners see as Hausa/Fulani? 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by sacramento1212: 10:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: How can you be involved deeply with a man for 3 years and didn't confirm if tomorrow you decide to progress in the relationship, if your parents will accept. The issue about his tribe ought to have come in early before now to avoid unnecessary wasting of time. Marriage is between families apart from the individuals involved. My late uncle married an Mbaise woman and i must say that many things said about them are True. The marriage was filled with regrets because according to the information by my parents, he was warned against going that route but he was blinded by love. I guess there might still be some good ones there though. If your parents insist they won't allow you go and state viable reasons for that, i will advise you adhere and shun those saying you should shun them because if tomorrow it doesn't go well, it's your family you will fall back to. You are a Lady leaving your territory to join with another so you need to be very careful of where you are going to in the name of marriage. You are still fine at 26 and can still achieve marriage before 30. Even those that are already in their 30s still will get married. Don't because of age factor rush into something that will be filled with everlasting regrets. Take your time and in all, pray very well for God's guidance and direction. Good luck 10 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by millionboi2: 10:51pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
bluediesel03:thy could b very notorious dat evil may hav bcom a norm. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by YorubaNinja: 10:54pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Sofistcatdmoron: Well, as your moniker displayed... "Sophisticated Mor0n". It says it all. ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by FarahAideed: 10:55pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: My sister is married to an Mbaise man and I tell you she always tells me how wicked the man is and only we as a family know what we have passed through with that man ..better listen to your parents oo 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Jobabori(m): 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
hamid6249:You and your future generations are the most useless for calling Ibadan "useless bunch of people". Is your one man experience ( which may be due to your greediness) enough to generalise to entire Noble descendants of Oluyole?. Ibadan people are the best. You are the worst. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ramaju: 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
MedicH:I have too. Persuade your parents but Mbaise people strong gan gan. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by life103: 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14:its obvious your parents have their reasons for not wanting you to mary an mbaise man, but you just can't stereotype a whole state 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by hamid6249: 10:57pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
E dey pain u ooo haaaaaaa....you are mad , I'm entitle to my personal opinion ...to hell with u...see mad man dey talk about greediness , I personally funded ibadan people with my hard earned money on in the name of helping them but gboom they showed thierlineage character ....ole ni gbogbo yin Jobabori: 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by arodavoo(m): 10:58pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
millionboi2: How and who have I deceived... If you don't have any reasonable to say, is better you shut down your dull brain and sleep |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by MedicH: 10:58pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ramaju: Lol my papa. If he begin to narrate his ordeal eeh sotee he said once you introduce yourself to him and say you're from Mbaise he will just automatically brace up to be at alert for your tricks. Our tenant taught him a bitter lesson sha |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ngwababe(f): 10:58pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
imitateMe: I wasn't talking to you. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Teena101: 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Truth be told my dear..I asked about something like this some time ago and I was told that mbaise are very stingy set of people and to cap it all during my N.D days in a maritime institute;our class rep was as stingy as anything and that guy is from mbaise..this guy buy me groundnut #50 chop #40 inside..lol..funny but its true..this class rep dated my friens but u nothing drip from him body even to the extent say na the girl dey pay their transport take go her house ooo and them go still kpansh ontop.. mbaise are like tortoise..if I tell you story of this my class rep ehn,am sure you would have a second thought about what your parents said but the question to this is: Is the guy meeting up your needs?? In terms of finance..(just saying ooo...nobody should quote me) 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Okwyjesus(m): 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
doy56: They are crafy species of lgboman Hardly straight forward 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
![]() Okoroawusa: 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by omotoyossi(m): 11:04pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Imagine this mentality in 2019.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ngwababe: Is it boyfriend's job to give you money? Bunch of leeches |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nlPoster: 11:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
seangy4konji: I'm not Ijebu dear. I don't believe I've ever even set foot in Ijebuland before? Unless in transit? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by bobkezel(m): 11:06pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Hmmm Mbaise people. All the atrocities committed in Igbo land are committed by mbaise people. They are very wicked and heartless. I heard Buhari's grandmother was from mbaise. The xenophobic attack in SA was started by an mbaise man. Evans the kidnapper is from mbaise. Rev king is from mbaise. Derico nwa mama was from mbaise. Eddy na nawgu was from mbaise. Otokoto was from mbaise. Gracious the serial killer was from mbaise. Adolf Hitler's grandfather was from mbaise. All the bad news u hear in Igbo land is only from mbaise. The same way all Nigerians abroad are all bad people, all of them. Bombocrats stereotype. 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 11:07pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by millionboi2: 11:08pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
arodavoo:Oga read my post again and stop fooling urself....Mr mini importer |
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