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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Carlyboi(m): 11:08pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
hamid6249:. Hahaha bros this your statement and generalization they useless.its only a grown fool that would say such....we Ibadan peeps way we dey accommodating pass anything. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
midnighter: What is then is the difference between girlfriend and olosho? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by zoghys: 11:10pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
[quote author=keepingmum post=82599062]The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ". The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi. Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and Are you for real or you just dumb. Ijebu's as people are one of the bedrock to of the little civilization we still enjoy in this country and they have progress as a tribe and people. And here you are allaying the horrible experience you have with just an ijebu man to the whole lot. If you don't have an idea of what the situation is with the ijebu's, I suggest you shut your mouth and stop exhibiting for foolishness. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Olaonipekun11: 11:11pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
seangy4konji:Dude u r not full blooded Yoruba u r osu. Stop calling yourself Yoruba. I’m fully Yoruba n I can say that |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Samakus(m): 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I have only met 5 Mbaise persons in my entire life. Hear the analogy!!! 1. My former colleague. A guy who I thought was my good friend but ended knowing the things he said behind me and ifelt like 'killing' him. In your front, he will shine teeth, behind you, you have been murdered. 2. My neighbour. One of the most selfish person alive. He can never inconvenience himself for anyone but when he's in need, he will be very good. He usually comes back home late, so I usually wake at night to open gate for him. The day I went for a night vigil, even though I pre informed him to help me open the gate when I come back around 4am, he switched off his phone and I had to sleep at the gate till morning as there was nobody else around to open the gate for me. 3. My crush. A beautiful, well endowed Mbaise girl. I asked her out, she still dey form Don Jazzy, I kuku japa, pursue other alternatives even though we have hung out a few times. Before I know what's up, babe saw me as her number one enemy. I will see her on the road and greet her, she will hiss and start walking fast. Sometimes, once she see me from afar, she will turn back or change her route. I was like, wetin I do wrong? I didn't even get returns on my investment but I still forego it. Why this girl dey see me as Buhari? ![]() 4. My Guy's friend. A truly handsome, working class, married guy who cannot sit with guys and buy beer and drink but once he sees a woman, he can spend 1m. You only know he has money when there's a girl around. Ask him for a little help no matter the urgency, O.Y.O but bring a girl along, viaaamm! Money shows up. 5. My bet guy-turned friend. A truly wonderful guy. He formerly live in Malay before relocating back to Naija. He's a friend in deed. Unselfish, rational, intelligent, business inclined and a brother. He's a friend any guyman will wish to have. So be the judge 7 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by faithfull18(f): 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
hamid6249:What is wrong with Ibadan people again? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by matrixmuzi: 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Dear sister, I have heard what so many people here are saying about mbaise people. I am from mbaise and honestly we don't have to crawl to a woman to beg to marry her. I will advise u to listen to ur parents not because mbaise people are bad as everyone is painting us to be but because any little disagreement u will have with him will bring up that I told u about mbaise people. So if he does not marry u there are millions out there waiting and praying to have an mbaise man too likewise u . So please listen to ur parents 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ifnyioj22(m): 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Don't blame them! It has always been said that when you see snake and mbaise person kill the......... Before you kill......... You can fill in the blank space |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NuissancePolice: Girlfriend is leased and olosho is short-term hire...while your wife is your title deed. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nasa28(m): 11:12pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
sacramento1212: Best advice so far. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Enemyofpeace: 11:17pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
All I know is that if I see snake and I see mbaise man, I go kill the mbaise man and allow the snake to escape. If you know you know |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by franchasng: 11:18pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Wickedfacts:Another one ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
midnighter: So which one are you currently? How much is your honey pot worth? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Omoslim26: 11:20pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
so much stupid comments I have 3 frnds from mbaise I have dated a gal from MBAISE and I can tell you wit all assurance that all those rubbish said about them is absolute trash people are bad not because of the tribe they come from but because they choose to be bad only a reasonable person would know this 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by skyhighweb(m): 11:20pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ngwababe:money willingly u no get work ur hand dey pain u? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Kcee14: Mbaise ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:22pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
YorubaNinja:yes afonja are slowpoke ![]() |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Shashar: 11:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
ursullalinda: You encountered him. Have you really had much dealings with him? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 11:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Omoslim26: A person is still a product of their culture...their choice to be good or bad can be influenced by cultural factors. What is "good" to some people may not be to others...thats how all these stereotypes are born those mbaise people have a reputation for always trying to outsmart people. If somebodys cultural/life orientation handed down by their parents is " do not let anybody cheat you" and they go about messing people up, then they would be seeing their actions as "good" while other people would be getting irritated with them So its not as simple as all that 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ChEkWaSIyKe(f): 11:25pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
To be honest, haven't read all the comments about Mbaise people here and nobody from Mbaise can be BOLD enough to open up and counter all the comment above, it means people are right about their comment. Serious this has brought a bad reputation to the people of Mbaise from the way people attest to it. The whole world is watching and listening to this. The government, community leaders, parents, girls and boys should do something about this menace hence, that place will be no go area for marriage. A friend of mine vow never to marry from IMO state as a whole. That he rather remain single that marry from IMO state. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by hkidola00(m): 11:28pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
hamid6249:u are very stupid |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
keepingmum: Exactly. That has been my experience with them. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by silverkings: 11:32pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Wickedfacts:Because they fought the Pope?? U no get sense 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by richie240: 11:32pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
@kcee14, Go thru ds: https://www.nairaland.com/2275780/ngwa-people-really-cannibals?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C5377516437 Also, u can make a Google search abt them. best wishes. midnighter:@kcee14, ds gentleman was trying so hard not to tell u sth. What it is? #go_figure ![]()
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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by lonelygem(m): 11:32pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
AfroKnight: Don't dare option 1. If he eventually turn out to be what u never expected in future, he might take advantage of the gap between you and your family to treat you like a child of nobody. Anyone can change but your family will always catch your hands when you slip. Turning your bank against them over a man you cant absolutely vouch for is like selling yourself to a slave trader. Be patient and seek their reasons, don't be blinded by affections, remember that if you eventually get married and it go sour, you wont even remember if u both had dated for 10 years before singing a chorus of divorce. The biggest weapon anyone can use to shatter your life is a wide gap between you and your parent or family, never compromise that bond for any man or woman irrespective of feelings.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by chibjohn(m): 11:34pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Reading this thread till this point, it's evident why Nigeria is the way it is today. The youths who are educated and should reason logically are still believing in stereotypes. No wonder a dullard like Buhari was able to win Nigeria's presidency. The youths that should be agents of change are worse that their father's generation. It seems there are a lot of issues in IMO. From the OSU caste system to Mbaise people stereotypes. Who knows what we will read next. MAKE USE OF YOUR EDUCATION PEOPLE!!!!!!!! SHUN STEREOTYPES!!!! THERE IS NO SINGLE STORY ABOUT ANY GROUP OF PEOPLE!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Wickedfacts: 11:35pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
silverkings: Only devils like Mbaise animals fight the Pope They fought the Pope because he refused to support their nepotism and stupidity. FYI, I have an Mbaise woman as my neighbour. Her husband also an Nwafor daily laments how his wife is a problem to him and his family. Forget it, Mbaise people are direct descendants of Satan 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Wickedfacts: 11:38pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
[s] chibjohn:[/s] Only 3 people can fight the Pope. Satan, Antichrist and Mbaise people. Apart from Satan, show me anywhere in the world where the Pope was fought with the way Mbaise people did. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:40pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Bofoy4: Don't generalize about Imo State or Igbo. Some parts of Imo are wonderful; eg Owerri area, Okigwe. I have got good experiences from dealing with people from those areas. But very terrible experiences with Mbaise. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by cooooooks(m): 11:43pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Your parents, like most Nigerians, are being tribalistic and racist. The story about Mbaise is that they demand too much money when people come to marry their daughters. I've never heard anything about Mbaise men. You are 26. You and this guy have been together for 3 good years. Do you want to marry him? If you do, carry on. With or without your parents' blessings. No be dem go dey the marriage. If you say you will look for someone else, when will you find somebody you love like this guy? Will you now do rush rush marriage? Don't marry him just because your parents don't like him o. Make sure you want to marry him before you do so. Cheers. Kcee14: 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Jombom: 11:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Ijebus are nothing like that. keepingmum: |
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