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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ojojo1985: 11:46pm On Sep 26, 2019
my dear, no tribe is good and no tribe is bad,truly there might be this general believe that mbaise people are bad and coneled.but it all depends on individual differences, you have dated this guy for 3 yrs,no one we understand him better than u.if u truly luv the guy fellow ur heart bone ur parent.if the beginning send money to ur parent 2morow now dem go forget say na mbaise man.

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:46pm On Sep 26, 2019
seangy4konji:
Same way o can never marry any ijebu or ondo,ilesha,ijesha lady

My father married a second wife whose mother was from oguachi or something.. The mother was loyal for ever and so was the wife my father married from that side.. If I we as woman from that side.. Oguachi.. Till death to us part.

I believe you mean Ogwashi-Ukwu from Delta Igbo part of Delta State. Delta Igbo women are generally very nice and loyal.

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 11:48pm On Sep 26, 2019
richie240:


@kcee14, ds gentleman iwas trying so hard not to tell u sth.
What it is? #go_figure
wink

I dont get you, I told her at the end of my post whats supposedly "wrong" with mbaise people
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by cooooooks(m): 11:51pm On Sep 26, 2019
So no single Nigerian woman from places other than Mbaise has cheated??

okokkk:
cry

You have awesome parents. But you must be an ungrateful girl to question their wise counsel. Listen, there are no good men worthy of a deltan kpekus in Mbaise. Do not fall for their gimmicks. I once dated an mbaise girl. I loved her so well that I could kill for her. One day, her friend called me and said my babe was dying and in need of blood. I am O+. I donated blood at the clinic. The next day, I went back to the clinic only to see a guy lying beside her with a blood bag hanging over the metal hanger. I got mad. It was my blood that this Mbaise girl "donated" to her boyfriend.

Later, I found that she faked her admission at the clinic to make the guy feel she got ill from losing a lot of blood. The mad girl was also O+. Fear Mbaise people!

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by executive12: 11:51pm On Sep 26, 2019
greggng:



Mbaise is my maternal home....they are great people. They hate injustice...they are very caring people. No society is perfect enough....the most important thing is the character of the man you wanna marry. The only area I disagree with mbaise people is on their requirement for marriage...when someone is marrying their daughter's....but I have been told that they have reduced their requirement now....but it doesn't apply to you cos you are not the one buying your bride price.. Again they are predominantly Catholic ...so visit one rev father in your community to help convince your father. In General igbo men are the best in terms of taking care of their wife and children

You are being economical with the truth about the Mbaise people. They are generally mean.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by luminouz(m): 11:51pm On Sep 26, 2019
okokkk:
cry

You have awesome parents. But you must be an ungrateful girl to question their wise counsel. Listen, there are no good men worthy of a deltan kpekus in Mbaise. Do not fall for their gimmicks. I once dated an mbaise girl. I loved her so well that I could kill for her. One day, her friend called me and said my babe was dying and in need of blood. I am O+. I donated blood at the clinic. The next day, I went back to the clinic only to see a guy lying beside her with a blood bag hanging over the metal hanger. I got mad. It was my blood that this Mbaise girl "donated" to her boyfriend.

Later, I found that she faked her admission at the clinic to make the guy feel she got ill from losing a lot of blood. The mad girl was also O+. Fear Mbaise people!

Damn!!!
That's some cold shiiit!
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Jobabori(m): 11:54pm On Sep 26, 2019
hamid6249:
E dey pain u ooo haaaaaaa....you are mad , I'm entitle to my personal opinion ...to hell with u...see mad man dey talk about greediness , I personally funded ibadan people with my hard earned money on in the name of helping them but gboom they showed thierlineage character ....ole ni gbogbo yin
You are entitled to your opinion to insult the best Omoluabi on the planet Earth. From which bush did you originate from?. Where did a pauper like you get money to finance Ibadan people?. You were born poor and remain poor since. You gave birth to a LovePeddler and called her a daughter. Ask from other women that married from Ibadan. They will narate to you how goodness and mercy has fallen on them as a result of that. The greedy LovePeddler that you gave birth to nearly brought calamities to her Ibadan man before she was discovered and sent out to her mentally deranged father.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by humilitypays(m): 11:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
I opened this thread with an mbaise friend beside me and he laughed like kilode cheesy

This guy is the best guy ever. The best human being I have ever met in fact. Over nice de worry him.

Mbaise ke.

Mbaise na correct community oh, don't let poor Nigerians suffering from poverty mentality and stereotype to deceive u, Mbaise people I have met are all amazing people mhen.


The issue Mbaise people have with people is that they are too wise to a fault, they are too industrious to a fault. They are too hardworking to a fault.

Take a look at Nollywood industry, Mbaise people make up majority of the big actors and directors that made Nollywood, they are too talented and success driven.

In Imo state, Mbaise people are one of the most successful communities in Imo after Orlu. They are success driven.

Their guys are ladies dream men, forget all the thrash small boys and girls are saying here op, in fact you are lucky to get an Mbaise man to agree to marry u cos they usually prefer marrying within Mbaise.

For your info, Mbaise people built Nollywood industry and Nigeria's movie industry.

All the big actors u cherish in Nigeria are mostly Mbaise. From Genevieve to Rita Dominic to Kanayo O Kanayo to Okey Bakasi to just name it.


Without Mbaise people, there won't be Nollywood.

Those guys are too intelligent and smart mhen.

If u want to be successful as a Nigerian person, pls befriend an Mbaise guy or Nnewi guy, they will help u grow if u are honest with them too.


Guys looking for a wife, their women are very industrious, they don't rely or depend on their hubby to survive. They will help u create wealth from nothing.

All the stereotypes people say about Mbaise people are fallacies.

Yes there are bad people from Mbaise but they are all also in every tribe and race, but people tend to blow Mbaise people bad character to the roofs.

Op talk to your parents they will be glad u married him.

I have friends married to Mbaise people and they are all balling happily.

The comments from page 1 are really hilarious, reading them alone can tell its from myopic, broke and economically struggling people, op don't be like them.

But to avoid had I known, pls listen to your parents if they insist, don't pity your Mbaise boyfriend, he will find plenty ladies to marry cos Mbaise guys I know are all hot cake, na ladies de rush them oh, so to obey your parents, u can tell him that sorry u can't go ahead with the marriage but be assured that the guy will find a better lady to wife once u leave, don't pity him, he will be just fine.

All the best

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by chapmanapr: 12:01am On Sep 27, 2019
bobkezel:
Hmmm
Mbaise people. All the atrocities committed in Igbo land are committed by mbaise people. They are very wicked and heartless. I heard Buhari's grandmother was from mbaise. The xenophobic attack in SA was started by an mbaise man. Evans the kidnapper is from mbaise. Rev king is from mbaise. Derico nwa mama was from mbaise. Eddy na nawgu was from mbaise. Otokoto was from mbaise. Gracious the serial killer was from mbaise. Adolf Hitler's grandfather was from mbaise. All the bad news u hear in Igbo land is only from mbaise.
The same way all Nigerians abroad are all bad people, all of them.
Bombocrats stereotype.



Lmfao!!! grin
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by richie240: 12:02am On Sep 27, 2019
midnighter:


I dont get you, I told her at the end of my post whats supposedly "wrong" with mbaise people
lolz, dts alright. U don't need to say it. She'll find out one way or d other.

Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Engrvince: 12:03am On Sep 27, 2019
My dear the truth be told
This is a very serious issue and not a joke
,truth be told there is no way u can put every one in one shoe is not possible ok,
In every tribe their are always bad and good people,same way in every religion
There is always bad and good people too,
Eg : christians and muslims,
There are bad christians and good ones too,
Same way there are bad muslims and good one too,

My point remains that every one from mbaise is not bad and can never be bad,
I have met four to five of them as friends and they are all great people,
Same way some people fron mbaise might be bad just like every other tribes,

If my parents for example tell me
Such the first question i will ask them is

WHY?
so my dear i sugest u a ask them
WHY?
if they have no good reason then they aint saying
Anything
Besides is ur future not their
But the truth remains that u surely need their blessings
So be wise
True fact.........

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Orlando7au: 12:05am On Sep 27, 2019
QueenVaji:
They always want to bring wisness in everything they fo... meanwhile they are so foolish and wicked like akwa ibom people..

You're a capital f00l for dragging Akwa-Ibom people into this issue. Please take your hate elsewhere. Anu afia
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Lamanii22(f): 12:07am On Sep 27, 2019
CharlesJok3r:
And what is wrong with mbaise men that your parents don't want you to marry them?
BTW this is the first time I'm hearing mbaise undecided. I know I'm not alone.




Me too oo and I know we are plenty that haven't heard of/about mbaise....
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 12:14am On Sep 27, 2019
richie240:

lolz, dts alright. U don't need to say it. She'll find out one way or d other.

Lol
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Correcto: 12:24am On Sep 27, 2019
You statement is false and misleading. Your personal experience does not define the world
Bofoy4:
Run away my sister IMO state men are wicked one marry my sis for one year now and even with a child he refuse to take her from uyo to his village, IMO state men in fact most Igbo guy are use to the game
Run for ur life
Ur parents are not fools to take that decision
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by uduoyibo(f): 12:38am On Sep 27, 2019
I am married to mbaise guy and our marriage has been sweet. Everything about them is individual and family. My husband is and has been a very wonderful man. But I know very well, even some parents from the same IMO state rejects mbaise people and I don't know the reason why. But the little I observed is that, make sure the guy is ready and willing to stand by you when the heat comes because their women are troublesome. They will keep on looking for reasons to hate you. Another thing is that, they are money conscious like the marriage is all about their family. They have that attitude of give us; give us and not regarding your own family. The day I got married to my husband, everything would have gone wrong if not because I have an understanding family and my husband who really loved me. And the way my village people were looking at me as if i am being sold to slavery hmmnn. When you are married to them as a wife, know your right, your boundary, when to talk to them or ignore them. Study the family your going to like book and you will leave peacefully with them. I fought that battle with my mother in law and my husband sisters and I won. Today, my mother in law will call me her sweet daughter. Everything is like film. When are married to mbaise man trade with caution but their men are really nice and sweet

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Divit(m): 12:43am On Sep 27, 2019
jimmyolasun:
Ibadan people with their serpent tongue.... Tufia .... Anyway, I can shaa manage your females because una dey get yansh for that region

I swear you get am grin
I be yoruba boy and I’ve always been amazed by their back and hips endowments cheesy

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by DeHumbleTboy: 12:56am On Sep 27, 2019
jimmyolasun:
Ibadan people with their serpent tongue.... Tufia .... Anyway, I can shaa manage your females because una dey get yansh for that region

Is this not the son of okoro savage?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ecowas: 1:03am On Sep 27, 2019
@bobkezel
Hmmm
Mbaise people. All the atrocities committed in Igbo land are committed by mbaise people. They are very wicked and heartless. I heard Buhari's grandmother was from mbaise. The xenophobic attack in SA was started by an mbaise man. Evans the kidnapper is from mbaise. Rev king is from mbaise. Derico nwa mama was from mbaise. Eddy na nawgu was from mbaise. Otokoto was from mbaise. Gracious the serial killer was from mbaise. Adolf Hitler's grandfather was from mbaise. All the bad news u hear in Igbo land is only from mbaise.
The same way all Nigerians abroad are all bad people, all of them.
Bombocrats stereotype.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin na two for you oooo

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by deltateam: 1:13am On Sep 27, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

What an elder sees squatting, if you like climb iroko tree you won't see it.

For starters do you think your parents that suffered towards raising you mean bad for you? Yes, you dated him for 3 years but na 1 day e go clear for you.

My people say if you sabi pound, pound for mortar but if you never sabi, pound am for your laps make e for clear your eyes.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by highbee02: 1:44am On Sep 27, 2019
hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people



Thank u, that's the mistake I made, even their ladies. I'm considering marrying a second wife

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by highbee02: 1:47am On Sep 27, 2019
Jobabori:

You are entitled to your opinion to insult the best Omoluabi on the planet Earth. From which bush did you originate from?. Where did a pauper like you get money to finance Ibadan people?. You were born poor and remain poor since. You gave birth to a LovePeddler and called her a daughter. Ask from other women that married from Ibadan. They will narate to you how goodness and mercy has fallen on them as a result of that. The greedy LovePeddler that you gave birth to nearly brought calamities to her Ibadan man before she was discovered and sent out to her mentally deranged father.



Iran Oyenusi
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ndindiatu: 2:48am On Sep 27, 2019
donbachi:
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...
Lies. I met one in yankee here and said ok let me try mbaise away from home. Bu Manu. Tufiakwa. The guy no bie am. Worst Niger guy I don jam. My sister run oh
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ziegurf(m): 3:04am On Sep 27, 2019
...Sir warrior their brother said, when SNAKE and MBAISE man entered your house, please kill/chase the MBAISE man and entertain the SNAKE
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by centboy123456(m): 3:11am On Sep 27, 2019
hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people


lol do you have problems with them
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by azeezengr(m): 3:12am On Sep 27, 2019
Mbaise man is the subject matter yet I can see some people spreading their hatred for Ibadan and Ijebu people. Ijebus are enterprising and Ibadan are accommodating, Anybody hating both is not enterprising and accommodating....if you disagree drop your town name before we proceed. Where are my from? Proudly Ibadan, happily married to descedants of Ijebu!!!! Oya leave Mbaise matter to come and face us. .. Back to the subject matter, your issue is domestic and 1000 online comments will not solve it Péople will abuse, mock and confuse you online, my final advice: Give your parents two options, the Mbaise man or me from Ibadan...we are so accommodating and my spouse is so enterprising ���
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by centboy123456(m): 3:13am On Sep 27, 2019
ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?


why must it be the bf give money willingly why can't you Nigeria girls give money to guys too vice versa no because Nigerians girls will never try it because once you tell them u like them u must give them money I tried for Nigeria girls
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by centboy123456(m): 3:22am On Sep 27, 2019
Pubichairs:
Sister I would advice u to heed to ur parents advice


You are definitely entering a one chance marriage


Mbaise men are wayward...u dated him for three years..u still don't know much about him


u will regret ever marrying a guy from there...my word of advice


why are you saying this what is the reason
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by LifeOfTrigga(m): 3:27am On Sep 27, 2019
I’m 25, original yoruba boy! wanna marry me?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by owomano(m): 3:30am On Sep 27, 2019
In this time and age, should parents determine where u marry from? Smh �‍♂️ tho
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by selemempe: 3:32am On Sep 27, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers
Am from Enugu...my uncle married an mbaise woman and i dated an mbaise girl...they are very mature people....mostly catholic

Do u know why they are hated, because they are all about their nuclear family...wife/husband and kids...no time to start worrying about parents when their family never settle.

Are u igbo? It could be that ur parents are biased about igbos in general....but sis, there is absolutely nothing i have seen wrong with mbaise as a people that other people dont have

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khiaa(f): 3:44am On Sep 27, 2019
MrPresident1:
Stupid stories everywhere

American will say bullshit

What does this have to do with Americans?

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