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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by bluediesel03: 6:52am On Sep 27, 2019 |
bobkezel:Terrible Things has happened, happening and will still happened I have not heard anyone coming from mbaise.Just like the names you mentioned.Very notorious names coming from South East non is from mbaise. Terrible things will still happen and it will surprise you,it will come from the so good towns.How can a town be bad when terrible things that shake Nigerians and the world at large hardly comes from the town.South East has produced a very notorious criminals of international standard non come from mbaise.I have been in this nairaland for some years,I have read terrible news from South East but non from this so call bad town.if you doubt me henceforth monitor towns in South East that habour and dish out terrible things. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ursullalinda(f): 7:00am On Sep 27, 2019 |
executive12: It's a She and hasn't given a reason to complain. Don't generalise not everyone is bad |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by kettle84(m): 7:00am On Sep 27, 2019 |
ChEkWaSIyKe:The way people stereotype tribal issues is silly.Mbaise people are good people ,I am not from Mbaise but I most tell you that the world is a global village and everyone's behavior and character is shaped by agents of socialization.People from Mbaise travel and live elsewhere and have their orientation about life shaped according to their educational and environmental exposure enhance having a sound mindset and pattern of thought. we are humans and are imperfect.Who is good or which tribe is good in all aspects?Let's be guided with our condemnation of a people because hearts are being hurt by negative comments against the Mbaise people. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Sam2310(m): 7:01am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kcee14 u mean your parent didn't knew your guy tribe within those 3year? Because me am not understand why your parent have to do that now. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by imitateMe(m): 7:04am On Sep 27, 2019 |
ngwababe:I was talking to you 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by efighter: 7:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
johnaruson: This one is definitely from a broken home. Omolangidi. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by TemmyT002(m): 7:25am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Arrest them or sue them na |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by TemmyT002(m): 7:26am On Sep 27, 2019 |
YorubaNinja: Osheyyy Your head dey there 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by TemmyT002(m): 7:27am On Sep 27, 2019 |
hamid6249: This is tribalistic Nawa for you o |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by stormborn28(m): 7:27am On Sep 27, 2019 |
ngwababe:nawa ooooo...money matter again |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by SimpleDimples: 7:31am On Sep 27, 2019 |
The rejected stone will be a corner stone. Ì am from Imo and I got 2 responsible and hardworking in-laws from mbaise. Irrespective of your town, tribe or colour, whoever is good is good, and who is deadly is deadly. 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by stormborn28(m): 7:34am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Lamasta:your last statement is superb 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Toneyo(m): 7:37am On Sep 27, 2019 |
I have a friend whose younger brother married before him. His younger brother found a woman he wants to marry but his parents refused all because she is from Imo state. This said man is from Anambra. The union was dissolved and he married his parents preferred choice. My friend had same issue. He found himself entangled with woman from Imo state and precisely Mbaise woman. Same thing his parents did but he followed his heart and went ahead and married her. Today, my friend his still happily married. 9 years now. And each time we come to contact he put his wife on high esteem. He always says she is the best thing that has happened to him. Her people are the best inlaws so far among the brothers wives. The one that married his parents preferred choice, the woman is the trouble in that family. Every December she causes trouble. Evert August meeting she will always have fights with the senior wives in the family. No respect for her mother inlaw. She will farm where is not given to her as her portion. Parents are not always right. Sometimes they push you to your doom. Just like my friend Kunle I met in secondary school (we are still friends till today) got an Igbo girl pregnant. She bore him a daughter but Kunle's people refused him to marry her because she is an Igbo. Kunle later married his parents preferred choice (a beautiful Yoruba lady). Till day they are accusing her of being the cause to the cardiac arrest that took the life of my friend's mom. She always fights her mother inlaw and wouldn't give breathing space. No child yet for Kunle from that lady. Lucky enough, the Igbo girl wasnt yet married, Kunle had to retrace his step and got a second wife. She has 3 for him now. My brother, sometimes parents decisions in our lives can bring us pains or ruins. davidadenrele: 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Pearl05(f): 7:50am On Sep 27, 2019 |
franchasng: Thank you so much. The Danseach was even the first to go against there agreement and tried to defraud Dr. sir warrior; whom being a mbaise man hated injustice and cheats like passion. Warrior then outsmarted the Dansach so out of anger that his plans didn't work out he sang that rubbish song that made people to see mbaise as mean and wicked folks. There are wicked people everywhere but that shouldn't make us generalized a clan. I my family, there are relatives that I won't even enter their house to drink water, I can't take a handshake from them none let them touch me either in dream nor reality. But that doesn't mean that my town people are bad. I'm not even from IMO state talk more of mbaise. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by johnaruson(m): 7:52am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Fulish comments, you are a syndicate of a broken hom. efighter: |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by stormborn28(m): 8:01am On Sep 27, 2019 |
pweeryambre:hmmmmm...."majority "have settled the case |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nlPoster: 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Do mbaise or Imo people practice polygamy? Why are some posters pushing second wife and blah blah orisirisi on the thread? Is the OP a second wife? Also playing tag "name and shame" as if nobody can see what they're doing? |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Jaguar77: 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kcee14: I for one, I'm against stereotypes because I know that no society is 100% perfect, people should be judged individually and not based on their society or family background. What matters is if the guy loves and cares for you because dating for 3 years you must have known his good and bad characters. In that sense you know what kind of man he is Just ask your parents the reason for their decision then get to explain to them how different your guy is, maybe they might give him a chance to prove himself and get to know him better 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by RollsRoc(m): 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Listen to your parents. Mbaise is like Ijebu 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by virago(f): 8:32am On Sep 27, 2019 |
ngwababe: Are you implying that giving money willingly is a true sign of love |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by virago(f): 8:34am On Sep 27, 2019 |
slimanyd: Most times parents don't always know the best in situations like this 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by owelle22(m): 8:34am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Thank your stars dat u have a good parents |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 8:40am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Just know parents are not always right? The world of their time isn't that of today.With the evolve of technologies we can meet people from different part of the world,while during their time they only interact with people within their locality. Just pray and hope it ends fine,life is a gamble.And when you in, if the odds are against you,stick to it its your choice. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by larryking540: 8:44am On Sep 27, 2019 |
virago:. My dear dat is d definition of Love to a Nigeria girl o, he must be giving me money That's y many fall into the hands of one chance husband nowadays and after 1 year they start looking for a way out of d marriage,,,,, |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nlPoster: 8:49am On Sep 27, 2019 |
OP you forgot to add: I created a new id in order to make this post. . . |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by genitori(m): 8:54am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kcee14: Well, you have to try and know their reasons; this is Africa, without their consent no marriage. I also here people say I'll not (or will not allow my child) to marry from this particular tribe, religion, social class, race, and so sort, just because they are 'evil'; and so are you too asking what sort of people the 'mbaise' are. I don't really believe this; tribe, religion, social class, race, etc do not determine the sort of 'heart' one has. There are good and evil people in all tribes, religions, social classes, races, etc. So, back to the point, try and know their reasons. if the reason is not based on 'den say den say' then it is historically based. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nini007(m): 8:58am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kcee14:Listen to your parents please. They always know. I know it'll be difficult but just listen to them, they love you. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Teerach: 9:01am On Sep 27, 2019 |
You dated a guy for three years. Ask ur sef this question, can I do five years with him? Can I do ten? If the answer is yes, get him to introduce himself to them. Get to talk with your parents before he comes. STOP GENERALIZATION. |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Bahddo(m): 9:04am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Nigerian parents are too difficult, coupled with the tribal bigotry prevalent in Nigeria. They prefer you marry a devil from the tribes they accept, than marry an angel from a tribe they don't like. Sometimes they have no meaningful reason except a bad experience they once had with someone from there. As if we don't all have bad people in our tribes. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Bahddo(m): 9:08am On Sep 27, 2019 |
nini007:no they do not always know,, although they would never admit it. They are humans too and are prone to emotional judgements based on stereotypes. True, it is usually motivated by love but the motivation does not validate the method. Many parents have stifled their children's potential out of love, and others have ensured their children get married to terrible persons from 'good' families or tribes. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 9:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
khiaa:Because of this https://www.nairaland.com/5410485/sex-tourism-booming-big-business/1#821541963 |
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