luluosas:
Zainab, divorce is wickedness and it is very of you to advise her to divorce her husband because of this avoidable mistake.
Sorry to ask, please, don't feel offended. Did your mother divorced your father? Cheers.

What her husband did is abomination and she is free to divorced and move on with her. I wish your wife could do to the same to you by getting pregnant for your nephews then you can come and tell us , that you have forgiven her because it was avoidable mistake. As for my mother not she did not divorced my dad because he didn’t stoop so low to sleep with any of my mum family members. Thank you

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Does she want to keep the child?!!!!!! Is she mad?!!!!

Abomination. How can a man even begin to consider the thought of having sex with a girl who is young enough to be his daughter?

Confront your husband and tell him to confess now in order that his case could be forgivable because there is foolproof paternity tests that will prove if he really got her pregnant and then he would not be forgiven and all his remaining reputation will go to the dogs.

Omojudy:
As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel.
If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child.
Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair.
Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability.
Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.

Wow! You'll just sweep his wrongdoing under the rug like that?

Ain't your husband lucky to have such a wife. I pray he doesn't take it for granted.

Thanks for the words of support. But here is my biggest dilemma , I have confronted him with this, but he refuses to admit that he Is responsible for her pregnancy. He wont explain or show me the doctor results. Every cell in my brain says he is guilty but him not admitting to me makes me feel guilty about being angry about something that he claims he didn't do, but I know he did. My niece mother insists that we wait until the baby is here then DNA tests will be done. I just can't get passed what he's done. Everytime I look at him , it makes me hate him more. He has no remorse for what he's done because he won't admit it. I am sleeping in my children room because I don't want him until he can come clean.

Agneseze:
Thanks for the words of support. But here is my biggest dilemma , I have confronted him with this, but he refuses to admit that he Is responsible for her pregnancy. He wont explain or show me the doctor results. Every cell in my brain says he is guilty but him not admitting to me makes me feel guilty about being angry about something that he claims he didn't do, but I know he did. My niece mother insists that we wait until the baby is here then DNA tests will be done. I just can't get passed what he's done. Everytime I look at him , it makes me hate him more. He has no remorse for what he's done because he won't admit it. I am sleeping in my children room because I don't want him until he can come clean.

Stop questioning him then, let sleeping dogs lie for now, when the baby is born DNA will prove him right or wrong, just try cheer up especially for your kids, betrayal of this magnitude can hurt alot

loveymom:


Which marriage?

Marriage that the husband is sleeping with wife's relative, is that one marriage?

The day men start swallowing the same pill they dish out to women is the day marriages will be perfect until then you men should enjoy your confused world

hahaha...that was a nice reply. Na now you talk am. They should share the garri. I thought you were insinuating settlement by inviting both families because that one will not work

Omojudy:
As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel.
If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child.
Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair.
Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability.
Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.

So a young girl will carry her child for nine months, you will ask to take it from her. Fear God na! Can you give your child away. The pregnancy is the most stress here. One she comes to term with it, she will love her baby even if she was conceived by the devil

Agneseze:
I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes

I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old

She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.

My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.

My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please

Your husband is responsible. Period. How many red flags do you need to see?
Why would your niece hide the news from you if your husband is innocent? If someone else is responsible, don't you think that your husband as the head of the house would have interrogated your niece to find out who got her pregnant?
You have 9 months to finalize divorce proceedings, unless you are willing to share your house with an idi.ot.
When the child is born, everything will become crystal clear.
Lesson: Most men are billy goats; they will thrust into anything and anyone

Agneseze:
I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes

I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old

She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.

My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.

My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please

DNA test to the rescue after birth

Omojudy:
As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel.
If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child.
Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair.
Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability.
Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.

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Give you custody of her own child

Have you ever given birth before

tabithababy:
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Give you custody of her own child

Have you ever given birth before

Lol. She took the "good wife" script too far.

Agneseze:
Thanks for the words of support. But here is my biggest dilemma , I have confronted him with this, but he refuses to admit that he Is responsible for her pregnancy. He wont explain or show me the doctor results. Every cell in my brain says he is guilty but him not admitting to me makes me feel guilty about being angry about something that he claims he didn't do, but I know he did. My niece mother insists that we wait until the baby is here then DNA tests will be done. I just can't get passed what he's done. Everytime I look at him , it makes me hate him more. He has no remorse for what he's done because he won't admit it. I am sleeping in my children room because I don't want him until he can come clean.

Why is he hiding the doctors report, if he doesn't have skeleton in his cupboard.

Madam, the way I handle issues might be different from you that is why am short in giving you advice based on what I will do.

Just follow your heart and hold on for the DNA test but Hmmm 9 months is quite a long time. I pray you don't have hbp by then because even if you forgive you might find it hard to forget.

If your husband was remorseful, it would have helped in the process of you healing from the heartbreak but no he is proving macho man.

tabithababy:
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Give you custody of her own child

Have you ever given birth before

She is actually giving the father of her child custody. And do remember she is 19, my relative who we probably care about each other not my enemy and education and the whole world is ahead of her. But if she wants to be a baby mama rather from that age, who am I to stop her? Like I said it’s an option that I have seen work for someone’s family I know personally!

Mayflowa:


So a young girl will carry her child for nine months, you will ask to take it from her. Fear God na! Can you give your child away. The pregnancy is the most stress here. One she comes to term with it, she will love her baby even if she was conceived by the devil

It’s not giving her child away, it’s letting her grow up in the custody of her father which is better in stability/security while the mother who is only 19 can have an education and a life rather than become a baby mama so early in life.

dochenaj:

Wow! You'll just sweet his wrongdoing under the rug like that?

Ain't your husband lucky to have such a wife. I pray he doesn't take it for granted.

My dear he does sometimes but I know how to corner him! Hahaha

Give her child away indeed as if you can give your own child away


What if she gives birth to a baby girl, am sure the man will slee'p with his daughter as he is not showing any remorse at all

You are just feeling he is a well respected man.

He is absolutely not.

Another thin there is karma.

I leaved with my elder sister when I was much younger. Her husband was trying to pressurize me into having sex with him. God helped to reject his offer.
That was a time he refused to pay my school fees and I will will cry all day in secret. He tried to fustrate me in different ways but I never told anyone.until when he beat me mercilessly I had to pack my load and left. Now he is even late.

So when I got married . I decided to leave with this my elder sister s daughter, my husband stated pressurising this my sisters daughter and the girl denied his offer too but why I was angry is bcause she didnt tell me on time. If she had I would have divorced this man long time ago she. Told me many years after.

Such a man doesn't change from my experience. They get worst

this is bad

Amanda4life:
You are just feeling he is a well respected man.

He is absolutely not.

Another thin there is karma.

I leaved with my elder sister when I was much younger. Her husband was trying to pressurize me into having sex with him. God helped to reject his offer.
That was a time he refused to pay my school fees and I will will cry all day in secret. He tried to fustrate me in different ways but I never told anyone.until when he beat me mercilessly I had to pack my load and left. Now he is even late.

So when I got married . I decided to leave with this my elder sister s daughter, my husband stated pressurising this my sisters daughter and the girl denied his offer too but why I was angry is bcause she didnt tell me on time. If she had I would have divorced this man long time ago she. Told me many years after.

Such a man doesn't change from my experience. They get worst

filthy animals

Don't be a clown. My wife is married to me and will never get involved in immorality no matter what pressure because she is a true daughter of Sarah.
Honestly, I don't know why people intentionally drives off topic when their emotions are touched. Bye.

MrBrownJay1:


What a sad statement.... avoidable mistake indeed. I hope you think the same way when your wife does this "avoidable mistake" and get pregnant by some stranger.

Omojudy:

It’s not giving her child away, it’s letting her grow up in the custody of her father which is better in stability/security while the mother who is only 19 can have an education and a life rather than become a baby mama so early in life.

have you got kids?

dochenaj:
Abomination. How can a man even begin to consider the thought of having sex with a girl who is young enough to be his daughter?

I wonder ..

Abomination you said? Haven't you done worse than this? Honestly, you are really thinking your anus. And I pray you have sense. Cheers

Zainab20198:

What her husband did is abomination and she is free to divorced and move on with her. I wish your wife could do to the same to you by getting pregnant for your nephews then you can come and tell us , that you have forgiven her because it was avoidable mistake. As for my mother not she did not divorced my dad because he didn’t stoop so low to sleep with any of my mum family members. Thank you

Agneseze:
I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes

I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old

She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.

My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.

My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please

Ur husband is a loose dog and quite stupid of all gals to sleep with and impregnate it was ur 19 year old niece. I have seen the so called best of men do the most stupid things when at close proximity with ladies, sm become total different human beings entirely. From respectable to randy old man like they are two different persons bt if ur are smart and observant u will know their tendency.

Ur husband is a disgrace and even if he’s well known or respected he has no character what so ever. He needs to change after acknowledging his wrongs.

On him being guilty it’s quite obvious form 2 things. 1. Him not letting u take the gal to the hospital like when did it become his work to take the gal to the such personal stuffs

Then 2. Coming back with a fake result and not even showing u the results. Hiding information from u and all that only for the gal to go back to her mum and confirm she is pregnant.

Ur husband is a disgrace of a man and not a respectable man. He needs to change and turn around.

What a horrible situation to be in, my sister you need to give that man space. You need to be far for now until your niece gives birth if not this type of man can kill you or you will waste him, nine months is too far to go through this trauma. Kindly give yourself some breathing space. The fact that he is hiding the result from you shows he doesn't have regards for your person. Please don't go into depression because of him, just take a walk.

Agneseze:
Thanks for the words of support. But here is my biggest dilemma , I have confronted him with this, but he refuses to admit that he Is responsible for her pregnancy. He wont explain or show me the doctor results. Every cell in my brain says he is guilty but him not admitting to me makes me feel guilty about being angry about something that he claims he didn't do, but I know he did. My niece mother insists that we wait until the baby is here then DNA tests will be done. I just can't get passed what he's done. Everytime I look at him , it makes me hate him more. He has no remorse for what he's done because he won't admit it. I am sleeping in my children room because I don't want him until he can come clean.

But nawa for that man
His behaving like this shows he is a reprobate. Yes he is very ashamed, but he should own up and ask his wife whom he had wronged badly for forgiveness.
Nawa
Except he didn't, but his actions shows that he did. Why is he hiding the result. If the DNA result confirms him, how will he face his wife?


Madam Sorry for the hurt and trauma you are passing through. May the Good Lord comfort your hurting heart.

desvi:


have you got kids?

Yes! Anyway it’s opinion. You can’t reason same as me. That’s why we are different. Stick to what works for you.

luluosas:
Don't be a clown. My wife is married to me and will never get involved in immorality no matter what pressure because she is a true daughter of Sarah.
Honestly, I don't know why people intentionally drives off topic when their emotions are touched. Bye.

Lol, and here ladies and gentlemen we see the hypocrisy of Nigerian men, who are quick to expect women to act one way but yet they themselves are not willing to abide by their own deluded BS.

Who cares who your wife is, the question IS: if she bring a bastard baby home, would you forgive her?!

What's good for the goose....

mrsfavour:
just that trust gone, it still left me shocked. I won't take any man serious again.

I know how it feels, that feeling of eternal disappointment. It will only make you better

MrBrownJay1:


Lol, and here ladies and gentlemen we see the hypocrisy of Nigerian men, who are quick to expect women to act one way but yet they themselves are not willing to abide by their own delused BS.

Who cares who your wife is, the question IS: if she bring a bastard baby home, would you forgive her?!

What's good for the goose....

Na him type dey faint for house when DNA result fall out.