I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason. Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?

Create the right atmosphere for miracles to happen...

Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to gobble up preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's horrny no more feels horrny, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be out of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or the rather obvious fact that she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

You guys need to sit down and talk about it. Try to bring back the vibe you used previously that made sex enjoyable.

Did you add too much weight , If yes, try working out to put your body back in shape.

I don't want to believe she might be seeing someone else. A date will be fine so both of you can communicate..

Figuratively speaking....... If a path is less or never trodden for sometime, it gets overgrown with weeds and thorns.......... For you to create that path again, you need to clear the weeds and thorns.

Get your cutlass and get to work bro.......... Woo her all over again.

Goodluck

Do you need us to blow a trumpet into your ears that your wife is now fvcking a new dick?

kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick

Na wa for you o!

Chaiii.....Don't worry...

Allow Okafor's Law of Congodynamics to take its course here.....


Okafor's Law of Congodynamics states that once a Congo has been shined before (C1), it can always be Re-shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly the previous times it was shined (P).
(C1 P = C∞)...

All thanks to Chief NwaAmaikpe!!

Aside the plethora of advice you'll get here, go for a professional counseling in a hospital.

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

I've never read an amazing piece of well compounded nonsense like this in my life.
Where did you study?

NwaAmaikpe:




Which lady born of a woman who has tasted preek and even sexchatted will not want to taste preek after not eating it for 1year?

Are you just naive or did your mom accidentally drop you on your head as a baby?

Someone that used to tell you she's Hot no more feels Hot, a lady that used to initiate sexchats isn't keen anymore.

Someone that would yearn for you is warning you forehand that she may not want your VitaminD if you come?

She's full all of a sudden and you think she's full of the holy spirit.

That woman has been getting the best sex in the world...either from a man or even from a woman and that is even easier.
But I blame you for keeping her for so long without sex forgetting that water must find it's level.

If she doesn't want sex from you anymore it could be a sign of love. I think she's contracted a killer disease and doesn't want you to catch it or she's found love elsewhere.

Thank me later.

Uhmm deep..

Jayslicky:


Do you need us to blow a trumpet into your ears that your wife is now fvcking a new dick?

...
It's quite obvious the woman has been receiving another dick else where..

Hmmm...its been a while, sometimes the body forgets. Don't rush her...just court her all over again. Those kisses, those tracing the spine with kisses, those eyes staring, the cuddling, the gifting, the tripping, the smoscching...hmmm ... These will jog her memory and she would be a fountain for you again. Happy seexxing o

Welcome back. Na wa for you o...a whole 1 year!

olabrinks:
After a long time of not having frequent sex, maybe she has become accustomed to living that way. Maybe she doesn’t see the excitement of sex anymore. Sometimes when you don’t have sex for so long, you can even forget what it feels like, hence her nonchalant attitude. I’m sure once you guys start having frequent sex again, her libido will go back to normal. Do not assume she’s cheating when there’s no evidence or any suspicion to think so.

Thanks o my sister...them advisers here are mostly men. They have no idea of what it feels like to live in a woman's body. We forget the whole thing if we allow the farmyard to fallow for too long. Its a fact.

kestolove95:
She's now fvcking a nice dick

Epirit de corps....

Hmmm... this is very strange. I don’t agree though that the human body forgets about sex!!! Except she has a hormonal problem. I can never forget about the feelings of sex biko . Even if Na 100yrs. Even as a pubescent you get changes in your body and urges. Not to talk of a woman that has done it well and even produced two kids.

Try not to leave anyone you love without sex for that long and try to get her intimacy gadgets. At least it keeps her busy till you come. Take her for STD test first before sex and try to be open minded when it comes to sex if you are not.

sisisioge:
Hmmm...its been a while, sometimes the body forgets. Don't rush her...just court her all over again. Those kisses, those tracing the spine with kisses, those eyes staring, the cuddling, the gifting, the tripping, the smoscching...hmmm ... These will jog her memory and she would be a fountain for you again. Happy seexxing o

Welcome back. Na wa for you o...a whole 1 year!

See wetin Zeeworld don cause

Divorce

its a natural progression of any union. its like how you cant eat rice everyday forever. plus you said you were away for a year ? some guy man has dropped that 10 ton gbola on her

Another guy is already cumin insyd her bro

Jokes apart kindly investigate your madam as it’s seems she is already sexually attractive to another woman, dog (pets) or man !!!!

New era wife.


A wife will just wake up one morning and talk rubbish and the man will be listening....


Even warning you ahead...more like don't even try to force it. Oga you have been warned, carry a new wife on your way back. Maybe that will reset the sexual urge back...


Even if she doesn't feel the same way again, must she say it. She could have pretended and force herself to loving it again...some women shaa

Na wa o

And u paid bride price..
If u pay better go and collect it back

Naiaralanders cannot do anything about it.

It happens all the time.

Either she's getting satisfied elsewhere (even with toys) or she has lost the spark.

Basically, She probably might have been getting it somewhere or even might have patronized those IG vendors selling v ibrator to satisfy her self. And don't you ever trust a woman that much, vouching against her cheating, A woman can cheat right under your nose and be smart enough to cover every of her tracks, you wouldn't suspect a thing. On the flip side, she might have lost the spark due to your absence and dry spell and needs her mind re-calibrated again for sex. It's time to work her emotions again by treating her like the first time you just met her. Clean Lexus down my sig.

oyetunder:
Naiaralanders cannot do anything about it.

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