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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by luminouz(m): 8:15am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Offpoint: But where will he gets the guts to 'man up' from? You? Or you sell some? Because I'm certainly not giving him mine. Guts are hard to come by,you either earn it or are born with it. OP is neither. His mom is very domineering. The moment he said even his dad allows her to take decisions and let her have her way in the home was when I knew OP is fuqin gone. If he is like his Dad,the poor hauwa babe will suffer if he marries her. Pity though,here,my mama dey beg me to bring anyone home,even if na from Mars. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by luminouz(m): 8:17am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mariangeles: Haaaaaaaa.... ![]() You can lie o... Humanist ko...Alienist ni... 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by midnighter(f): 8:19am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Offpoint: Lol the situation is so serious that all the kogis have come out to defend themselves and Offpoint has started commenting On-point 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by ctleurocollege: 8:22am On Oct 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by enemachris(m): 8:22am On Oct 03, 2019 |
From your write up, it shows that you are still an immature adult. You cant even take decision on your own and you are preparing for marriage? i pity you sha. Allow your mum live your life for you na. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by ShineGrace(m): 8:22am On Oct 03, 2019 |
I have a 3 question for you: 1st. Have you prayed concerning the relationship & got a conviction? 2nd. Have you discussed it with your spiritual father? 3rd. Has Hauwa prayed as well? If your answer to these questions is yes then your last assignment is to pray vehemently for your mother. May God take control over the situation & crown you with favour. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by beeboy09(m): 8:23am On Oct 03, 2019 |
And you keep changing by bringing different ladies? Youre enjoying it joor. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by sacramento1212: 8:25am On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103: It seems your mother controls the home and her decision is final? What's your Dad's opinion about this because your entire post is about mum. From what you have written down, i don't see anything logical from your mum to warrant her not accepting Hauwa. You have to make her see reasons some how but again, your wife to be must also be ready because she should remember that she's leaving her territory to join with yours and which normally she should have a good rapport with your mum & the rest of the family but the reverse is the case here. Sincerely, if i am Hauwa, i will back out because any family that doesn't wholeheartedly accept a lady will be a problem for her on the long run. And in this case your mother not even your siblings. If Hauwa's decision is final that it's either you or no one else whether your mum accepts her or not, then you also have to damn the consequences and act like a man and proceed with her. But it may turn out good or have catastrophic consequences in future. But finally, you have been pressing all the buttons from your mum's side, focus on your Dad. He's the man and should be the head of the house. Even when marital discussions between elders will take place, your mum as a woman doesn't have any business there. Your Dad should act too as a man and head of the family that he's and should not allow your mum be the final say in matters like this. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Mariangeles(f): 8:25am On Oct 03, 2019 |
luminouz:Excuse you ? Are we even acquainted ? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Offpoint: 8:26am On Oct 03, 2019 |
luminouz:Lol, I guess he inherited his "Softness" from his dad. My own mama dey even beg if na cripple ma bring come home... 5 years now I still dey Tella sey "NEXT YEAR" my next year never finish ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by innobarca(m): 8:27am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Since you and your mum are very close and you always do as she says, pls continue. Allow your mum to get a wife for you. For me, nobody will tell me who to marry.... Not a pastor, not a sister, not my mum, not my dad,not a prophet. I take full responsibility of every of my actions, nobody to blame tomorrow or in the future. 5 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Offpoint: 8:28am On Oct 03, 2019 |
midnighter:lol ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by emaderocha(m): 8:29am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Your mother is not entirely wrong neither is she right.what i see is a mum who loves her little boy who wants to be a man very much.your mum is just so scared of the fact that her place in your life is about to be taken by another woman who she feels might make you love her less.to me,what you should do is to assure your mum of your love and that your wife will also love and cherish her,let her know that she will be very welcome into your new family and am sure her worries will disappear graudually.wish you luck and happy married life when you do get married. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by skukimania(f): 8:30am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Tell your mum Hauwa is pregnant and it's a must she marries whoever she is pregnant for in her culture. Otherwise, she will die. Maybe, that will change her mind. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Olaikpu10: 8:30am On Oct 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Zonto231(m): 8:30am On Oct 03, 2019 |
I think your mum is the exact replica of my mum,I have so many relationships due to her lifestyle of finding faults from every girl I bring home,the painful part is when I look around me I see all my exes she rejected all married with grown up kids while am still single at 38.This has really made me hate my mum but now I do what suits me cos a man has to be a man.so my advice for you is as long as you are financially stable and you are � sure you both love each other,start by taking Hauwa to a registry and formalize your union.Be a man and make your decisions and believe nothing will ever go wrong.your mum can keep her blessings cos Gods blessings is the greatest.wish you all the best Bro. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Wealthoptulent(m): 8:30am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Well, she is not a bad person, i mean your mum. More also she needs to understand ur choices. If you marry who ever she arranges n aint love, men are quick to maltreatment esp when emotionally approved [absence of love]. But can still manage if ur choice becomes sour. And i dont understand the loan part, dont throw bounty obligation towards women you about to marry. This is what is tearing my 1 year marriage apart, married my bestfriend of 9yrs bt outcome has bn sour so far. I pay all billlz, fuel car, pay her up keep monthly from jus one purse of my FG salary n side hustle. Bt complains of not enough despite no stable income from her side. Everyone around me are disappointed with her n graduallyleaving me to my faith. We separated for over a month now while we working on solution . Bros pray for God to lead you. Your choice is not the best, ur mum choice is not the best. Only God's choice bro. Am deep shit. Pray marriage of nowadays aint worth fighting ur love ones to achieve the tie knot! U will need them. Am back in the midst of family i almost shoved off to build a good home, bt was wrong they mending me ATM. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by luminouz(m): 8:30am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by papyskinsy: 8:31am On Oct 03, 2019 |
how long hv you been with your grl.. you should understand her to the deepest behaviour... women tend to change after marriage yur grl is already getting old and might jus wanna act cool... buh if both of yu can manage yur differences.. I would advise to get married.. and look for a way to show your mum the brighter side. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Heman7(m): 8:32am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Guy even the Bible says a man should leave his family to be with his wife so who is your mother to stop you...she is a devil in disguise 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by donprinyo(m): 8:34am On Oct 03, 2019 |
My broda, just grow some balls or u ask her to bring de one she likes so dat u can marry her. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by SOFTENGR: 8:34am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Stop introducing a woman to your mother. Cut off all ties from her if you want to be successful in life. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Angelfrost(m): 8:35am On Oct 03, 2019 |
THUNDER4real: I have decided to go with fiction, and save my counsel... Smh. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Felikz: 8:35am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Bro its your life that your talking about.. your mum can't live it for you. "For this course shall a Man leave his father and mother and shall Cleave to his wife" Bro. Make a manly move. Do whatever rocks your boat. Don't b pushed into "arrangee" marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Faithscharms2(f): 8:37am On Oct 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by notoriousbabe: 8:41am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Take it or leave it your mum has donated you to her people in their kingdom, even if you eventually marry, you won't enjoy it. Your mum is not whom she claimed to be |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by sniperr007(m): 8:41am On Oct 03, 2019 |
OlawaleBammie:You sha no get joy. You even involved his dad. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by UgoManchester(m): 8:43am On Oct 03, 2019 |
The whole story shows that 1). Your Mum is selfcentered and domineering woman. 2). you are still a mummy's boy and not yet man enough to stand on what you want. Until you grow up and act like a man to get what you want, your mum will keep controlling you like remote. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by JayPeeOham: 8:43am On Oct 03, 2019 |
My brother having carefully read and understood your passage. I will say there is more to this than meets the eye. But firstly, What position do you occupy in the family? If first Son or Child, have you ever wondered if she is your biological mom? Because obviously she might have a soft spot for you if you are not her biological son as in the case of many women. You really need to take out time to think this through carefully and I 'll advise you ask your mom that same question as it is clear that she only knows the reason for her behaviour base on the fact that no one can change her mind! Furthermore, marrying without your parent's consent is not advisable, It's just like you writing an exam without any supervision! The importance of a father and mother's blessings in a marriage cannot be overemphasized and any woman who truly wants to spend her whole life with you should know this. Above all, prayer is the key that opens any door, don't underestimate the power of prayer!!! All the best Bro, will be waiting for your Wedding Invite!! ![]() My guy, once again I say, there is something fishy and only your mom has the answer!!!!!!!! |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by sammirano: 8:45am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Give your mom time. Or you impregnate the lady. Mind you never marry without consent. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by oladipojesse(m): 8:45am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mummy is scared of.loosing your, your attention, care and so on. You should probably take mummy out, assure her that your woman will not take her place and you all continually love her. If she doesn't still agree, bros, joust propose to mummy already(jokes). Keep mention of it in your prayers, it could be more spiritual than you think. GOD bless you! |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by sniperr007(m): 8:48am On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103: Personally, I think your mom doesn't want you to get married now. She wants to enjoy her son & his money. Her fear is if you marry now, you will stop all the things you do now & attention she get from you will be diverted. That's a reason she wants to bring a girl that she can control so as to have same access to your life and delay the process. My advice is that you sit her down & tell her that nothing will change & that your babe is willing to be her daughter & respect her. Tell her that you can't marry who doesn't love you genuinely & vice versa. Pray to whatever God you believe in & talk to her. She's just been selfish & looking for her own interests. Good luck & wish you well. 2 Likes |
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