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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Onyi90(m): 10:06am On Oct 03, 2019 |
U are immature firstly for allowing ur mum to manipulate ur emotions |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Aleora(f): 10:12am On Oct 03, 2019 |
dayveed1:haba that's too harsh.....how will you feel if someone called your mum a witch...not cool at all.. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Emmanuelcann: 10:16am On Oct 03, 2019 |
If you are a Christian just take the problem to God. He is able! 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Aleora(f): 10:19am On Oct 03, 2019 |
sassysure:Nice. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by cacao(m): 10:20am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Man let me be sincere with you 1. You are not qualify to marry if you are not yet free from your mother's breast. 2. You are not yet mature to marry when you are still under the control of your mother's 3. I put it to you that your dad never had happy marriage, because no man is happy to be under the control of his wife your mother. 4. An unsubmissive wife is a torn in the flesh of every husband. 5. You are not also being sincere in your choice of wife, you appeared as a gold digger. 6. Your mother's no how she is surprising and oppressing your father, so she doesn't want you her son to pass through what your father passes through under her hands. 7. Your mother is afraid of her old age sickness, that is why she want you to marry a medical doctor. #tobefrank# 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by NuclearReactor: 10:21am On Oct 03, 2019 |
pocohantas: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nigerians always find a way to make you laugh even with the most serious issues.... 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Horlufemi(m): 10:27am On Oct 03, 2019 |
You are not a man. My mum didn't like many of my girlfriends then but she dare not say it. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Offpoint: 10:29am On Oct 03, 2019 |
midnighter:Come on! babe you've not seen my comments before naw... maybe you just saw one whom I typed under the influence of malaria ![]() |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Vimezprojects(m): 10:32am On Oct 03, 2019 |
your case is normal because it happens, The truth is your mother has grown to be so fond of you that she's almost loosing it. She's gradually crossing the line of which if special care isn't taken fast.. you'll regret it as a man. She feels threatened that you may not be there for her as you use to as soon as you get married,that's why she hates the women you bring.she uses the one she recommends to buy time. At the moment she doesn't know what she is doing..so my advice to you if you want to get married is (1) Be a man. What I mean by that is..you need to stand on your ground on what you want. Sit her down talk sense into her...don't be surprised she's not gonna listen but talk anyways. She will cry, be angry at the end of the day she will forgive you later. But you have to stand on your ground. (2) even after your wedding.expect her because she will Wana come to your home to spend some time and cause another havock. Be prepared when that time comes..to let her know she won't be staying like when you were a bachelor. All these you do will gradually bring her senses back to go focus on her husband. (3) buy her gift after you have let them know your final decision. (4) call a meeting with your nuclear family.make sure your sisters are there to support you Good luck man 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by udemzyudex(m): 10:33am On Oct 03, 2019 |
You see in this life ehn ,if you give someone the opportunity to always make decisions for you ,you will always be in their trap. Right now ,I only take advise from my mum or dad,the decision is left for me to make. If you see reason with what she's telling you , fine but if you think she's over reacting ,tell her and make your own decision. After all whether good or bad ,you will be the only one to take the fall. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by RexTramadol1: 10:37am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by 9ja083: 10:52am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Go ahead and marry her. I was once in your shoes. Mine was both families were against it like your mom did. So we waited for extra 4yrs yet no approval. But her parents have started disturbing to settle down as younger ones were already married. My parents have no option than to let me marry my choice. Lol. My mom used to tell her friends that my wife was her house help. So she and everyone in the house treated her so badly that i have to separate her from the family. That didn't stop her from loving them as her own. Her family on the other hand hardly value and respect me as a man. But i dont care. At last, everyone got so tired of us. So they have to accept us the way we are. We are 7 yrs old in marriage and still counting! So i know how you feel. Just bear it in mind that everyone might treat her bad. Don't make her live with your family and that wont stop u from doing your duty as a son. Thank God you said she understands and she has a matured sense of reasoning. By the time she sees her grandchildren from her, she will forget all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Nobody: 10:54am On Oct 03, 2019 |
In the next fifty years. You mum might begone and you will be left with any decision you make today.. Be guided 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by dayveed1(m): 10:58am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Aleora:any mother that act like that is a potential witch.. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by IamPlato(m): 11:00am On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103:forget about all those, "she trained me and i never lacked" bullshiit. all that is to keep you in check. you may not believe me, your mom does not love you. her blessing to your marriage doesnt mean a thing thats all religious illusion. go and marry who you love and the one your heart has chosen. if you marry because of your mom you will suffer |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by bluefilm: 11:19am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Guy, I wanted to call you a goat, an idiot, a zuwo, a coward, a mama's boy and all that... But on a second thought, I decided to look at it from a different angle. This is the issue: Your mom doesn't want to be REPLACED in your life. She is so insecure about that. You have to give her that assurance. You have to make a lot of promises to her that you MUST keep. That is what will solve the problem. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by EtihadAirways(f): 11:32am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mail me your number, your mum number and the girl number, I will personally convince every party |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Ajaerof: 11:38am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Plz dnt mind my grammar, I really need assistance from uu guys, dis is contrary to the above topic, plz my marriage is 5yrs nw, he is a nice man in all angle but I noticed he is gay, always friends wit small boys I even hav to pursue one 2yrs again, he nearly pushed me out of d mans live, my husband dnt behave as if he is living wit a woman.... he has never bn moved sexually on me, am d one pushing our sex life and I think am getting tired nw, think after d two kids we have that he will change, to leave d marriage is wht is on my mind nw |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 11:43am On Oct 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Ajaerof: 11:49am On Oct 03, 2019 |
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Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 11:49am On Oct 03, 2019 |
midnighter: I kinda have a strong feeling that the Op should marry the lady and start a slow detachment with his mom to become independent I have a gut feeling that Hauwa would make a beautiful wife for the Op. Look how love is painted all over his comments. He's not just in love, the descriptive here is of a good woman who losing would be massive loss. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 11:52am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Op I personally feel if there are no complains besides these about Hauwa, you need to start preparing for a marriage with your MIL out of the picture. Its your life, your choice. You stand a chance to benefit lifetime loyalty by turning down your mum for her. Your mum has lived her life if she wants to reject your Lady, then the reasons have got to be solid. Till then, you're been mainuplated and controlled against your best interests |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by pocohantas(f): 11:57am On Oct 03, 2019 |
Acidosis: No be una. Your mothers are always good, but the daughters they bore and trained are all gold-digging oloshos... ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by VicM6: 12:01pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
kukuma marry your mother na.....she wants a medical wife for u and keep on rejecting other girls and then threatening you with one stupid blessing of a thing and you are here shivering. I pray she doesn't get you a wife that will be ur dooms day... Ask her when she wanted to get married to your dad, was she forced to marry him?. Bro, you are 28 and not 18 anymore.. you should be able to make basic decision on ur own.. remember you are the one to cater for ur family and not ur mom.... if eventually u agreed to marry her puppet she wants u to, and hell break loose... mark my words, ur mom will then be telling u that if i ask u to put ur hands in fire so u would abi.............. those who have ears let them hear.......... Marry ur dream heart and let ur mom out of this..... marriage is more complicated than girlfriend and boyfriend stuff o.... Tor |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by HonNEAT: 12:02pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
pocohantas:Hahahahahahaha, I Like Your Style Jare. He Is Not Ready To Marry. Na Mummy's Boy. He Can't Stand For What He Wants. That Means He Can't Run The Family Without The Mother drawing A Time Table For Him To Kiss His Wife. You Don't Want Go ahead And You Don't Want To Hauwa go, then Let Your mom No You're Angry Naa. Don't Visit, Call Or Pick Her Calls. Then If You're Important To Her She Will Beg. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103: While at it. Have a private chat with your dad. Telling him you don't see a better person. And even if you did, you've resolved to be with Hauwa. Talk to your siblings to get emotional support. Be ready for the long term, cause these may stretch beyond eight miles ![]() |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by Nobody: 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
bukatyne: I like this. So funny. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 12:04pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
LewsTherin: Apt ![]() |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 12:06pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103: She's also hunting for you like as she is to your dad, a lady who controls you, who would ultimately be under her control. Search for Ubunja check his threads, your mum is manipulative, controlling and abusive. Snap out of it |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 12:09pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
johndan103: If you can't deal with isolation, thus can't work. How this would affect your family's development also means a lot as your sisters would be turned against you. To marry this kinds, you need to relocate far from your family where they'll have to consider before visiting You need to start learning the ropes on how to manipulate your sisters to your side. How to play other family members slowly, patiently and gradually. |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by holusormi(m): 12:10pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Lmao, my advise since you really love her - take hauwa off the pills , your Mum will come around eventually when her grandchild is on the way - at least that’s what my elder brother did , - she also tried to influence my choice but I travelled out of Nigeria ASAP and when am coming , I’ll bring along a heavily pregnant girl for her viewing pleasure ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by healthserve(m): 12:15pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Chi59: Many ladies get killed by their MILs. You forgot adding this. I advise against marrying as a lady to any man who's mother rejected you. Some come around, some never back down, some kill the ladies. You just hear she had typhoid and died. Those who know, know 1 Like |
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