Sandra8:

You dear are the trash, jokes on you

ife mi we only attract what we are, trash we alway find a wastebin we're inseparable, lovin our God4bid union already

ericsmith:



ife mi we only attract what we are, trash we alway find a wastebin we're inseparable, lovin our God4bid union already

Desperado for love, all the love you can get from me is only this

Sandra8:


Desperado for love, all the love you can get from me is only this

Desperado for marriage you cannt give what u don't av ... amma keep screwing u 4 life

ericsmith:



Desperado for marriage you cannt give what u don't av ... amma keep screwing u 4 life

So you want to marry Kai better stay off dear

So you sell second electronics, please dear don't talk me again

Sandra8:


So you want to marry Kai better stay off dear

So you sell second electronics, please dear don't talk me again

Oh! sorry wastebin, those used gadgets of mine are worth more than ur dowry, they're not trash i can just throw @you

ericsmith:




Oh! sorry wastebin, those used gadgets of mine are worth more than ur dowry, they're not trash i can just throw @you

I'll reply you for the last time dear. You are not my kind (and that's putting it nicely), don't mention or quote me again going forward. Wish you all the best you wish yourself dearie. More money and success in your path way

Given that a lady's greatest wish is to be desired and her body her destiny, how do u win in this game? you win when you become married to ya dream guy. if you play hard to get because of what ubunja talked about here in nairaland, chances are your younger ones won't play hard to get. they (the younger ones) don't have time to take this life too serious. they know men own this world or they have been told so they dont have time playing hard to get when they remember their body dictates their destiny since time matures them fast and retires them fast. Even God said you will be ruled over. No matter what we read about ubunja miseducation, we still love our ladies perfect. Ubunja's teachings are meant only for the females players. its a win win thing for us guys. Well if u insist you want to play hard to get and rubbish marriage, well you will one day start paying for sex.

Sandra8:


I'll reply you for the last time dear. You are not my kind (and that's putting it nicely), don't mention or quote me again going forward. Wish you all the best you wish yourself dearie. More money and success in your path way

sebi ur maiden name is nice, miss muah ! finally u realize u're not my match ... just when i thot we found love
i wish you sense to write what even gurls can relate with ... i believe in resurrection

dinodesmond:
Given that a lady's greatest wish is to be desired and her body her destiny, how do u win in this game? you win when you become married to ya dream guy. if you play hard to get because of what ubunja talked about here in nairaland, chances are your younger ones won't play hard to get. they (the younger ones) don't have time to take this life too serious. they know men own this world or they have been told so they dont have time playing hard to get when they remember their body dictates their destiny since time matures them fast and retires them fast. Even God said you will be ruled over. No matter what we read about ubunja miseducation, we still love our ladies perfect. Ubunja's teachings are meant only for the females players. its a win win thing for us guys. Well if u insist you want to play hard to get and rubbish marriage, well you will one day start paying for sex.

This post dear is not about playing hard to get but to get an alpha to fall in love with you. Two different things dear
And the younger generations of girls will be more feminists than we are currently dear

Rubbish thread. Rubbish sandra8. Denreledave gay boy where are you?

MissGhosted:
Rubbish thread. Rubbish sandra8. Denreledave gay boy where are you?

Yes dear. I still dey

Sandra8:


You obviously know little about psychology dear, I'm a pro at what I do baby boy. That was why your first post was filled with ignorance

Proffessional producer no vex na...
Sandra for the money!

funmisticqueen:
Ladies, this is how you know a miseducation hits home, op has decided to pick her battles, and arguing with you doesn't qualify

Thumbs up!

I never believed the so called matured females can condescend so low to start writing miseducation.
Society has always been male dominated and the whole male chasing female has been the dynamic and focus. "Men control, women follow". While there are well meaning women out there trying to change this dynamics and liberate women from placing their self worth on the size of their buttocks and how much male attention they get, you are here miseducation women on how to get male attention by all means. Do you even understand the meaning of the word miseducation?
I have to preach to you right now, the purpose of life is to create the right value and impact lives. It is very difficult to achieve this when you are all up in your head thinking about how to land a lady (for a guy) or how to attract men (for a lady). If your way of getting a man to marry you is through sex and manipulative techniques, prepare to take those techniques into marriage because that will continue to the foundation of the Union you entered. Only heaven knows the catastrophe awaiting such superficial union.

Need I mention that women are disadvantaged careerwise in many fields? In some career path, women have less than 1% representation at the senior level.Yet, you use your sharp brains and good writing skills to write about miseducation, so low. My prediction will be that you are less engaged and have free time, because if you were fully engaged thinking of miseducation to write wouldn't be where your energy is directed. And to all the females encouraging this misuse of energy, you all disgust me. You all ladies should go and think of away to create value for yourselves, not competing with some miseducation that is meant for broke men. Sex, Dick, pussy, don't create value and over indulging in these without a clear vision for your life will keep you vision less.
Cc all sensible monikers excluding sandra8

Sandra8 you did a good job in your definition of primary Alphamales and secondary Alphamales...

I once told someone that even a player/secondary Alphamale can become serious with you depending on the attitude you portray.... A cousin of mine who was a full time secondary Alphamale male got into a bet that he can fvck a particular babe... He won the bet... But when he introduced her to me... I advised him to be serious with her cos I saw somethings in her that could be good for marriage... He was still fvcking around while the babe was aware but she will report to me when they have issues for me to settle them... She was actually a good influence on my cousin despite his lifestyle... To cut the long story short... He is today married to her with three kids despite the fact his mum was at first against the marriage but I managed to convince him cos he believes so much in my counsel... My cousin trained her through school and even bought her a car... They are waxing stronger in marriage now... Note: I didn't say much about some of the qualities of his wife that made me convinced that she will make a good wife for him...

You and Ubunja are doing very well, however, your miseducations are more for persons who are not ready to get married... That is where I come in... While on my part... The goal from the beginning is centered on "getting married" cos you can't be a player for life...


Sorry for the typos...

Below is a thread I wrote in 2016 on Nairaland...


https://www.nairaland.com/3046021/romancelanders-females-wake-up-reality

Lmao the game is real and ON you've got points though but that JEALOUSY part is were you flawed believe the moment you try that JEALOUSY game with any smart guy ,he brings out the card2 that is showing you he's got hotter girls around .
Flaw 2: Don't be mistaken no alpha male wants to capture your HEART all alphas are secondary alphas because alphas know that a woman's heart can NEVER be captured for long so they just play with it.Alphas strong focus is that PUSSY not Your HEART once the hold that pussy strong automatically sooner or later the Heart will hopelessly fall in line to be played with. No player wants your heart no alpha wants your heart only Simps do.
Flaw3: only white knights fall for that "naive damsel in distress" brahahaha because any redpiller knows NO Female is weak,naive, morally decent or good as she would have you think or portray because PRETENSE and Manipulations is in your genes. That's why a girl who has bleeped the whole of Africa will come out pretending to be morally upright and it's only an unsaved male that she will deceive with the usual " I have done it with only 3 guys and your the 4th "
Lastly ain't you females tired of that REAL MAN MANIPULATIVE card it's old now. .

SmellingAnus:
Sandra8 you did a good job in your definition of primary Alphamales and secondary Alphamales...

I once told someone that even a player/secondary Alphamale can become serious with you depending on the attitude you portray.... A cousin of mine who was a full time secondary Alphamale male got into a bet that he can fvck a particular babe... He won the bet... But when he introduced her to me... I advised him to be serious with her cos I saw somethings in her that could be good for marriage... He was still fvcking around while the babe was aware but she will report to me when they have issues for me to settle them... She was actually a good influence on my cousin despite his lifestyle... To cut the long story short... He is today married to her with three kids despite the fact his mum was at first against the marriage but I managed to convince him cos he believes so much in my counsel... My cousin trained her through school and even bought her a car... They are waxing stronger in marriage now... Note: I didn't say much about some of the qualities of his wife that made me convinced that she will make a good wife for him...

You and Ubunja are doing very well, however, your miseducations are more for persons who are not ready to get married... That is where I come in... While on my part... The goal from the beginning is centered on "getting married" cos you can't be a player for life...


Sorry for the typos...

Below is a thread I wrote in 2016 on Nairaland...


https://www.nairaland.com/3046021/romancelanders-females-wake-up-reality

Thank you for the information dear

Sandra8:


Yes for guys miseducation dear. This is for ladies, clear difference between the two

Lol even the girls are not understanding. They just want to get married to a man who's ready, get pregnant and have babies. What are u saying?

MedicH:


Lol even the girls are not understanding. They just want to get married to a man who's ready, get pregnant and have babies. What are u saying?

I told you before babe but you ears aren't listening

An Alpha male calls the shot. Not the other way round. If you try to instigate jealousy to manipulate him. He knows and walks away peacefully, afterall there are alot fishes in the ocean and he has got loads of them on his neck. You are even more at a disadvantage if your are attracted to him because you will lose the game.

And for the secondary alphas. You haven't really met a smooth one. So far you guys share kisses, smooching and romance you are as good as down because some have got their bed game skills that you loose yourself before you realize what just hit you

Raydans:
An Alpha male calls the shot. Not the other way round. If you try to instigate jealousy to manipulate him. He knows and walks away peacefully, afterall there are alot fishes in the ocean and he has got loads of them on his neck. You are even more at a disadvantage if your are attracted to him because you will lose the game.

And for the secondary alphas. You haven't really met a smooth one. So far you guys share kisses, smooching and romance you are as good as down because some have got their bed game skills that you loose yourself before you realize what just hit you

You failed to comprehend the FUN part. That's were you made a mistake in your write up dear

Sandra8:


You failed to comprehend the FUN part. That's were you made a mistake in your write up dear

Yea. Its a fun game. By this approach with an alpha you still loose in your own FUN game.

The approach can only work on betas and sissies who you can manipulate their emotions with jealousy and catch your FUN.

If an alpha finds you worthy enough of his attention. Rather than walking away. He can start using your own strategy against you to have the FUN

Sandra8:


I told you before babe but you ears aren't listening

Lol listen to what? These epistles? I just come here to laugh at comments and I think ur writings will be of greater use if it teaches women how to be better wives because only in that position can they become custodians of a hard working man's earnings in harsh economic realities.

Raydans:

Yea. Its a fun game. By this approach with an alpha you still loose in your own FUN game.

The approach can only work on betas and sissies who you can manipulate their emotions with jealousy and catch your FUN.

If an alpha finds you worthy enough of his attention. Rather than walking away. He can start using your own strategy against you to have the FUN

You like comprehension dear, I still have to spell everything out to you

MedicH:


Lol listen to what? These epistles? I just come here to laugh at comments and I think ur writings will be of greater use if it teaches women how to be better wives because only in that position can they become custodians of a hard working man's earnings in harsh economic realities.

Tell that to your stay at home wife dear

Sandra8:

Tell that to your stay at home wife dear

Lol don't be so pained na It's weekend. Not my making oo, na buhari do am. Stay at home Most jobs in this country are worse than staying at home.

MedicH:



Lol don't be so pained na It's weekend. Not my making oo, na buhari do am. Stay at home Most jobs in this country are worse than staying at home.

Despite this harsh economy you still want a stay at home wife, well that's your coffee to drink dear

Sandra8:


Despite this harsh economy you still want a stay at home wife, well that's your coffee to drink dear

What choice do I have? I'm planning my soon entry into husbandhood with my hard earned 5m to water the ground and give myself and kids a soft landing. My wife should be a helpmate but I don't know how this materializes except in bringing the uterus to harbour these babies for a short time. Some times I pray min wage should be raised to like 100k but I kbow it's impossible.

Sandra8:



You like comprehension dear, I still have to spell everything out to you

You dont have to stress yourself spelling it out. I understood the write up hook line and sinker.

I am telling you from a position of a primary alpha male.
That is what is going to happen. No more, no less

pryme:


Your piece started well, but ended terribly,
Your concept will do well on a movie script.

The problem here is over the years men have diligently tried to figure out how the woman thinks, how their mind works, (note the word "diligently" ) that's why they on top of this game.

Women on their false high horse believes they are the prize so they don't need to concern themselves with how a man thinks when they are what a man should be dying for.
A false scenario that is created for the women by men for as long as I can remember, only for the women to realize later on that she was getting stuffed to be eaten later.


Your first mistake,

You can't win a man in his own game, first he was raised by the society to play this game from his early years.
Second, most women are wired to be very emotional, and I have never seen a good game player (whether PlayStation or matters of the heart) that are emotional, the emotional players never get far, something you highlighted but will be difficult or impossible for most women.

Second mistake,
No sane man that wants a serious relationship with a woman (that may lead to marriage) will tolerate a woman that has been double dating and then have the nerve to make it official -

"Baby meet Honey, Honey meet Baby"

Any of the men that calls you after this scenario is indeed the fvckboy you are mistaking for a "primary alpha male" or whatever that means.
Cos no man with alot of self respect will bring himself to take you back.

Lastly,
Men are logical beings, jealousy might not be the outcome when you try your stunts, rather they be very wary of you, and very cautious with their dealings with you WHY? - because you can never be trusted, am sure you did not think of it this way.

Sorry but you are not there yet, you are still years away from figuring out or understanding man. You won't succeed from a woman's point of view.

Tchaiii. Too many senses in one post. Lucid analysis. Very clear and concise and devoid of emotional sentiment.


Are you a psychologist, between?

Sandra8:


Everything here should be done out of FUN for the lady... She is the player here and the guys the game dear

You want him to have a HEART BREAK that was the point of the whole game or are you not smart enough to see it

You want him to FEEL with his heart. then you can mend it back, that's why I said during the isolation period PICK his call sometimes

Please kiddo's if you like rational reasoning or comprehension on what I wrote, please just read and ignore dearies I won't want you to sound uneducated dear

Most of the guys who are replying you are not insulting you. But you are insulting them with your replies. Saying you won't want him to sound uneducated. Check his comment and see if he insulted you.

MedicH:


What choice do I have? I'm planning my soon entry into husbandhood with my hard earned 5m to water the ground and give myself and kids a soft landing. My wife should be a helpmate but I don't know how this materializes except in bringing the uterus to harbour these babies for a short time. Some times I pray min wage should be raised to like 100k but I kbow it's impossible.

You see your wife only as a "uterus habourer". SMH dear. I'm done with your misogynist conversation