Martinez39:
Okay dear, dearie.

if you understand

Blackivy27:
please. So its cool for someone to toy with my emotion and i should just walk away content. If i were a guy your response would be different.

Martinez39:
Grow up. How old are you?

Blackivy27:
please. So its cool for someone to toy with my emotion and i should just walk away content. If i were a guy your response would be different.

Martinez39:
I am not saying you should walk away content or it's right to toy with one's emotions. Misrepresentations like this is why I don't argue with women or replied to the thread you opened about intelligence.

All I am saying is move on. Don't get stuck in the past. Close that chapter of your life and move on. The boy you are losing sleep over has moved to another girl. Stop looking for explanations and move on. If you can't understand and follow this advice, your case is beyond me.

Blackivy27:
Age has nothing to do with this. He owes me no explanation, fine but dont make it sound like its my fault. No matter my age i would fallen inlove and him behaving this queer is mean and you know it.

Blackivy27:
your initial statement came out crude. I get you now though.

Martinez39:
It's your fault that you don't know when to call it quit and move on.

I asked for your age because I refuse to believe that an adult will go running to their ex, who have moved on to another spouse, for explanations. This is childish stuff.

Nuclear99:
All this girls, confusion full their head

Nuclear99:
...

Blackivy27:
Thats not an option. Just airing my views that my boyfriend is a confused being.

Ardar:
You've just been played.

If you've had sex with him them am sorry to say that that's all he wanted and nothing else.

He was sweet to you and then suddenly changed, he don chop finish na wetin again remain?

Now he's trying to push you away without giving you any tangible reason cuz that is how they are.

he has moved on from you to his next victim (His new GF) , I just dey pity the girl.

Tomorrow now guys like this will come to nairaland whine and rant about women and insult them

Stop crying for that he-goat, he is not worth your tears.

Men and their wahala

Blackivy27:
@ Korllami007 i would love to agree but thats not it. He tends to see me as this innocent thing. He found it weird when i talked dirty once. He likes that whole romance, looking at each other love than sex. Once his friends were watching porn and i was curious (i didnt know that it was it then)he prevented me. That i wouldnt like it.

Blackivy29:
I just wanted answers. When we broke up, he gave me none. Rather he was dribbling me like a ball. I was confused. If he had a good reason, i would have left him. But now that i got a chance as to why the love of my like broke my heart, i wish i hadnt. Hes blaming me in that innocent way. And he believes it. Because he doesnt know its me.

lilmonarch:
All these babies going into relationships sef

Blackivy29:
I didnt say guys are stupid. But as the opposite sex, confusing.

Blackivy29:
He was my first bf that i loved like hell.

Funmmyastic:
Following.

Ardar:
You've just been played.

If you've had sex with him them am sorry to say that that's all he wanted and nothing else.

He was sweet to you and then suddenly changed, he don chop finish na wetin again remain?

Now he's trying to push you away without giving you any tangible reason cuz that is how they are.

he has moved on from you to his next victim (His new GF) , I just dey pity the girl.

Tomorrow now guys like this will come to nairaland whine and rant about women and insult them

Stop crying for that he-goat, he is not worth your tears.

Men and their wahala.

Blackivy29:
He was my first bf that i loved like hell.

Martinez39:
If I had a dollar for each time Sandr.a8 replies with "dear", "dearie", and the kissing emoji, Otedola would bow to me.

SenecaTheYonger:


You knew his kind of person, why then did you bait him with that question?

Blackivy29:
He's babyish and thats why i loved him. I could be myself with him. So when i asked him to break up, heartbroken hoping he would say no, he wanted to please my by granting my wish! He agreed.
He still loves me. Im a wicked girl who broke his heart. I misunderstood him, bla bla bla. Im shocked, so now he's the victim? Wow. Guys are the most complex creatures to walk the earth.

Blackivy29:
what? Dont please. Heartbreak is annoying.

Chi59:

You asked for a breakup, he gave you a breakup, what else do you want?

Blackivy29:
He's babyish and thats why i loved him. I could be myself with him. So when i asked him to break up, heartbroken hoping he would say no, he wanted to please my by granting my wish! He agreed.
He still loves me. Im a wicked girl who broke his heart. I misunderstood him, bla bla bla. Im shocked, so now he's the victim? Wow. Guys are the most complex creatures to walk the earth.

fcdgrand:
"queen of mind game", that guy is under your spell & manipulation for long and you want to blackmail & guilt-trip him by claiming victim, now he is free at last

Martinez39:
I didn't even read that post of hers, it skipped me somehow. Blackivy27 is a confused human being. She is still on her high horse. She taught the boy will chase her to the ends of the universe. Good to note that the boy has gone his way and won't give her any explanations. I am also happy that the boy has found another girl. No boy must tolerate such unseriousness and childishness from a lady.

Blackivy27, forget about him and move on. He owes you no explanation and he is no longer yours. You are the confused person.

Chi59:

You asked for a breakup, he gave you a breakup, what else do you want?

damtan:

Personally, I wouldn't have said no if my gf pops the same question even though the love is real. I'll just walk away and move on

dottozil:


Babes forget that loser, your probably not over him cos your lonely, with time a better guy will come your way. Move on