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Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 2:55pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to. I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery. Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Abfinest007(m): 3:03pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
if I tell u yes I won't provide another one for u so find solution to your headache 56 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by kobarney(m): 3:09pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Surgery please. thanks and God bless 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 3:17pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Thanks Bruh kobarney: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 3:20pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bruh I just dey think ham you know ladies there might be strings attached to it which she doesn't wanna tell me about. Abfinest007: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by ednut1(m): 3:22pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami:avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u sleep with her now and the appendix ruptures and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex ![]() 245 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 3:27pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Lmao I dey try getting her off my mind I had to inform my mom about it which she persuade her to go for test I'm afraid if there's more to it if not how can someone toy with her health just because of some pastors ednut1: 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by ednut1(m): 3:28pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami:avoid such people. They are fools. Let her go marry her pastors. 60 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by murphyibiam15(m): 3:28pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Break up continue ![]() ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 3:30pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Funny part was we've been having sex frequently lately which she feels wield this days I want her to come around so I can made her go for P T I'm scared already Bhami: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by hemartins(m): 3:39pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Funny reason why people want to break up. I would advice you grow up. 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Spunkyempire: 3:41pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
The problem is from her pastor! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by blesskewe(f): 3:43pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Since she believes the pastor than getting the surgery Talk sense in to her but if no gree Make devil no use you 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by ednut1(m): 3:45pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami:having sex but still carrying pastor and revelation for head. Op let the appendix rupture lasan during sex. Your own don be 43 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by dave4rella(m): 3:59pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
![]() Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery If she refuses, dump her sorry ass You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer. Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by cerpvad(m): 4:11pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Did you ask her if she has committed abortions before? This is part of the reason a lady could be suffering from stomach pains perpetually. Bhami: 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 4:16pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Funny part its getting unbearable for her too even in cold weather my gf body temperature gets high also stomach pains. She told me she uses some drugs as pain killer. I can't force her to for surgery she believes in a pastors so much and nah those white garment ones. She's really a WIFEY material but with this I gats find my way also we both of same age. dave4rella: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Alexaonfleek: 4:16pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
If she doesn't perform the surgery,i doubt she'll make it before the end of the year.it will rupture and kill her If she performs the surgery she still has a chance to live. What I'll advise u to do is that don't break up with her yet,give her reasons to go for the surgery,talk to her and her family and please tell her to go to another church and look for a very good pastor or priest,I bet my right hand that that pastor she's going to is probably a fake pastor. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 4:20pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
She said no according to her, her mom took her to 2 different hospitals to make sure its isn't abortion.also noticed each time she hold on pee for a long time her stomach swell until she ease herself all this got me so confused cerpvad: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 4:29pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
The problem here is I don't think the father knows about her health condition her parent got separated when she was younger both they both live in osogbo her mom turn to Christian those white garment cos of some spiritual problem.after the break up or so. I believe they keep it away from her dad.the old man would have taken steps if he should knowvhe would have taken steps both her mom and her both believes in those wield stufffs so much Alexaonfleek: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by guy1234: 4:40pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bros, forget that she's your girlfriend for now, assume that she's your younger sister, what will you do. It's just ignorance beclouding her judgement. Do all you can in your power to make her seek medical help. Call the mom and probably the dad and reason with them or any of her family members that you know of. You might not settle down with her later in life, but you'll be happy you saved a life . 35 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by carzola(m): 4:49pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him... After the break up he proposed to her, Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept, She came back begging I refused her back. 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
That's what I've been doing since the start of this relationship bruh had to bring her to my level tbh she had a rough past I'll try my best and continue persuading.I can only get to her mom we've met ounce like that coincidently the last time I asked for her mom number she only curb me and talk it off. guy1234: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 4:55pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Those people do more harm than good they think them fit predict destiny.funny enough a lot of people fall for those traps but later regret. carzola: 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by guy1234: 5:00pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami: Just try to do your best, and make her see reason why her life is in danger. Hopefully the appendix won't rupture when she's in your place, then you know you r in shit. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Alexaonfleek: 5:21pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami:isn't she close to her dad |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by GennyCheta(f): 5:23pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Talk to her about it, life first. Some fake prophecies put people in bondage n lead them to early death. If you so much love her see to the root of all this. You guys should meet who ever gave her that prophecy n ask questions elsewhere also, sometimes women's spiritual life is complicated so you hv to be careful if you love her 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Cutehector(m): 5:40pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
You have been fvcking her na.. Na wetin just dey ya mind.. Mai friend will you carry that girl and go to the hospital yourself and pay for her surgery! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(m): 5:47pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bruh she refused due to some prophecy we've been dating for like 10months but we start to have sex just last week I came to realize how complicated her health issue was yesterday Cutehector: |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Lamanii22(f): 5:48pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bhami: Many people have died through this prophecy of a thing... Prophecy sometimes isn't true, I'd choose the scriptures over it... She better do surgery, it's just like saying a pregnant woman who'S overly-due for labour shouldn't do CS ... So surgery please... |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 5:48pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
She hasn't said the whole truth about her health condition. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Lamanii22(f): 5:50pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
ednut1: Loool this is lowkey funny |
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