Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

Go do Lapo or Groomy or Seap. idiot! you never build your career finish, nah girl's own you wan die on top.! 27? Guy at 27 you suppose get brain o. You want to run away? Anyway you run to sha no come back. Mumu!

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

hahahahaha This is so funny

Is her name kia or khia? She a gold digger

Ariza:
Go do Lapo or Groomy or Seap. idiot! you never build your career finish, nah girl's own you wan die on top.! 27? Guy at 27 you suppose get brain o. You want to run away? Anyway you run to sha no come back. Mumu!

I'm not the cause of your problems ok?

0KNM:
hahahahaha This is so funny

Is her name kia or khia? She a gold digger

you like this khia of a person that is why you mentioned her to gain her attention

You don’t have money And you are promising a woman. Bro u better receiver sense����

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

WOW

CsRockefeller:


I'm not the cause of your problems ok?

Who get problem between me and you now?

Ariza:
Go do Lapo or Groomy or Seap. idiot! you never build your career finish, nah girl's own you wan die on top.! 27? Guy at 27 you suppose get brain o. You want to run away? Anyway you run to sha no come back. Mumu!

Did you even read what the guy wrote before making this meaningless comment thereby insulting the lad.



@OP. Kindly tell the babe the you can't come up with it. There's no need to run. You could at least give her part of it.

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

Werey. You bill yourself based on say you be Zombie. When toasting a girl, nor spend one naira. Spend your money take buy correct cloths for body

Ariza:
Go do Lapo or Groomy or Seap. idiot! you never build your career finish, nah girl's own you wan die on top.! 27? Guy at 27 you suppose get brain o. You want to run away? Anyway you run to sha no come back. Mumu!

@ CsRockefeller ,This guy here is d kind of friend u need in life aswear no jokes...with a friend like this, you'll wake up, his words might be harsh but he said it well, any1 trying to be nicer is just being diplomatic .....I don't even know how to answer your question, as in what the hell?

mikezuruki:


Did you even read what the guy wrote before making this meaningless comment thereby insulting the lad.



@OP. Kindly tell the babe the you can't come up with it. There's no need to run. You could at least give her part of it.

Thank you Sir for the advice.

You want add broke geh untop your matters abi?
You dey f-up sha.
No give am one naira,make she go ask her PAPA for money.
Your own paleh weh dey tell you to go marry no be better person o lol.
E think say n.a. 1950 be this?

At 27 you should be able to tell your left from your right... I will tell you what a wise man once told me...

If you give her the money you will either become wiser, or become a love advocate, either way it is a win for you

Tomide007:

@ CsRockefeller ,This guy here is d kind of friend u need in life aswear no jokes...with a friend like this, you'll wake up, his words might be harsh but he said it well, any1 trying to be nicer is just being diplomatic .....I don't even know how to answer your question, as in what the hell?

When she told me of her plan, it took me by surprise because for over a month we have been talking she's never never expressly or impliedly asked me for anything. So, my first reaction was just to make a promise, so that I could quickly get out of that suitation then deal with the resultant effect later.

I wasn't even gonna ask my Dad for the money because he is yet to even see her and we haven't even started dating.

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

with all due respect to your father, I feel he is trying to LIVE HIS OWN LIFE THROUGH YOU.

my own question is WHY ARE YOU STILL IN YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE?

See bro, they will control you to death... better flee.

at 27 abroad you should have all your kids... but in Naija, you may even still be in final year....

THINK ABOUT YOUR LIFE... do you want to end up like your father? IF YOUR FATHER LIVED WELL ENOUGH, WOULD YOU NOT BE INHERITING HIS COMPANY OR CHAIN OF BUSINESSES BY NOW?

See, verily verily I say unto you... LET NO ONE RUSH YOU... if you want to test your father's hypocrisy... DOUBLE the MONEY the Lady has asked for and inform him... YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED... HIS MOUTH MAY CHANGE.

If you give the lady the money, SHE WILL KEEP ASKING YOU even for her family... A BROKE DUDE and A BROKE GIRL can HARD EVERY MAKE A FINANCIALLY STABLE HOME.... so shine your eyes.

LEAVE YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE AND BE A MAN.... hustle...hustle hard then meet a lady who is ready to love you for who you are, someone whose character you have tested and know her to her family and friends... BEFORE YOU SAY YOU WANT TO MARRY.

MOST LADIES BEGIN TO FORM AND HIDE AND PACKAGE once you come out early with your intentions.

BE PRAYERFUL AND PAPA GOD WILL HEAR YOU ONE DAY.

Don't kill yourself over any promise.
You'd have give her if you have the money but you do not, there are many who have n won't help a soul.

Just carry on you dealing with the lady anytime she ask you about the promise just let her know you dont have the power to help right now that you promise to keep to your promise though. She might chose to distance herself from you giving the opportunity to renegade on your promise. Shift make I shift na this world.

Ask Wasiu Ayinde Barrister.

CsRockefeller:

lilwetdick:


[s]you like this khia of a person that is why you mentioned her to gain her attention[/s]

That’s why you reason with you little deek? ShAme!

son, flee!

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

I understand bro...No dey promise woman money wey u no get. Unnecessary pressure. Clear her you cant get the money and watch out for her reaction. No time to waste my bredda

If youre not ready to get a wife, then youre not ready. Why would your dad who raised you want to land you with problems?

Meet the lady and tell her the truth.. if she doesnt like it then thats her problem

CsRockefeller:
Guys, of late, my Dad has been talking to me to get a wife, he's so serious with it that anytime we speak on the phone he reminds me of it.

I'm the first guy and just 27.

I met this lady here on Nairaland, she's nice, I went straight to the point. For now, we are friends. She isn't working and I'm not earning high.

We haven't started dating though. This night, she kinda told me she wants to start a biz, didn't know what to say so I promised to help her with 50k that I don't have o. I told her that I may talk to my Dad for the balance since he is the one that sent on me on this journey.

We planned to meet this weekend but I'm no longer interested, I just want to run away right now.

She didn't pressure me for the money o, but telling me of her plans was an indirect way of asking.

Should I carry everything to my Dad or let her go even without giving it a shot.

My brother is it that the girl has some money so you will only add 50k to ot to make it a whole. Or She want to do biz with the 50kuou promised her.
My bro how old is the girl
Is she an orphan
Have you meet her in person
What abt za oza room

Let sense lead you

U no get money, and ur daddy de pressurized u 4 marriage.
D mata de even disturb you join put... Lol. Abi na ur dad wọn help u take of ur wife?
Guy.... Relax. Calm down

CsRockefeller:


I'm not the cause of your problems ok?

Didn't John D. Rockerfeller leave any money for you when he died? The RF family dont have money problems, their only concern is how to control the worlds economy.

CsRockefeller:


I'm not the cause of your problems ok?

bro I don't believe we are here for this kind of advice. But it's good you opened up.
You can't give what you don't have Simply tell her you couldn't get what you promised her! There ain't no shame in that.
Haba brother man! You even stated it categorically that you don't earn that high....
Don't get too worked up bro, don't push your self to regrets... Money wey be say she no go refund

Lol one guy said problem with Nigeria no be money or corruption na just say sense no de. Op if u start running where u de run go.

SenecaTheYonger:


Didn't John D. Rockerfeller leave any money for you when he died? The RF family dont have money problems, their only concern is how to control the worlds economy.

Nice one there.

mikezuruki:


Did you even read what the guy wrote before making this meaningless comment thereby insulting the lad.

@OP. Kindly tell the babe the you can't come up with it. There's no need to run. You could at least give her part of it.

It was not meaningless though he could have been a bit more polite about it. Some people harsh sha

CsRockefeller:


Nice one there.

Did she ask you for money to start the business? So it now wrong to tell someone you call a friend your plans? Did she make it seem like she needed funds from you? What stopped u from telling her "All d best"? Now u wanna runaway like a coward just cos the poor girl told u her plans. Fake friendship, fake relationships everywhere

AwkaetitiBabe:
Did she ask you for money to start the business? So it now wrong to tell someone you call a friend your plans? Did she make it seem like she needed funds from you? What stopped u from telling her "All d best"? Now u wanna runaway like a coward just cos the poor girl told u her plans. Fake friendship, fake relationships everywhere

Come on, she told me because she needs an assistance from me, even when I told her to shelve it till January next year, she insisted it must be this November.

She ended the conversation saying that she is just contacting friends to see how they can help, that's how I knew she called me for help but didn't want to state it expressly.

I'm already exhausted from helping people. I have been helping a lot since this year and I just started work in July. I wish I can help her and even forget about dating her. Maybe I will just find 10k give her and go my way.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Did she ask you for money to start the business? So it now wrong to tell someone you call a friend your plans? Did she make it seem like she needed funds from you? What stopped u from telling her "All d best"? Now u wanna runaway like a coward just cos the poor girl told u her plans. Fake friendship, fake relationships everywhere

Akwaetiti. Always standing up for your sisters


Well done o. E nu gwo. I dey greet you

healthserve:



Akwaetiti. Always standing up for your sisters


Well done o. E nu gwo. I dey greet you

Why u wanna deactivate?