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Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Snow87(m): 7:37pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
If we Nigerians can endure economic hardship for almost 4 year now, I don't see the reason why ur mom and fiancee will not tolerate a little time shift as little as two months unless there is underlying issue we don't know. Bro this is the time for u to prove to be the man in the center of all the matter make use of veto power abi executive 6. I wish u all the best. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by 2buffagain(m): 7:45pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Extremism: Lol lemme guess...she wanted it in her village and you didn't? |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
koyyes: u pple will just be giving funny advice that u can't follow if u r in the same shoes.do u have a son or daughter..?? It's only desperation that will make one marry a person he has never seen or know from Adam in less than 6months please...if ur son comes home with a potential in this terrible day and age..and tells u he wants to marry with 4-6months....u won't ask him any question ?? when it's not like he's 45 or 50 years old |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by DECENCY3: 8:12pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
This is clear sign that the marriage will be a shaking type. Talking from experience. Someone else must have asked for your girls hand in marriage and she refused believing you are there for her. She is afraid of loosing you since she has rejected others. Hence her anger for the change of date. How can your mom and mother inlaw intrude so serious. I bet you this is how they will still dictate for you after the marriage. How can your mom threaten to curse. Are you sure she has accepted that girl? If I am that girl I will run 4:40 ASAP . I SEE A MARRIAGE WITHOUT PEACE. Thread cautiously please. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
1StopRudeness: Do you start dating someone the first day you meet the person? Or you are those type that are accustomed to one night stands, so you don't mind seeing a stranger for the first time and asking the person out without getting to be friends with the person first. See, my advice is for smart and responsible people. You can be friends(I mean real friends)with someone for less than 1, 2 or even 10 years before you officially start dating the person. After few months of dating, you should already know he/she is the one if you are a smart person. Only foolish people will date without purpose or date when they are not ready for what's coming next. It is these kinds of people that cause numerous problems for others with their numerous excuses of why they can't marry the other person. Then why tag the person along because he is not 45 or 50 ![]() You think at 30+, the op is still a kid ![]() Do you think all men have the biological luxury of fathering a child when they are past 35 years? I don't expect you to understand my points. You will learn the hard way. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
koyyes: Sincerely u are speaking as if life is a textbook.... After few months u should already know if the person is the one?? Every relationship don't start with with friendship, people meet in different ways. On Facebook on twitter, on the street, some are lucky they marry their friends from primary school or college.. inshort.... There's no point conversing with you, you have a sterotype view about relationship... |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by OLAJADON: 1:47am On Dec 22, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO:better 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Ayobami7(m): 2:57am On Dec 22, 2018 |
na wa o |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by faithugo64(f): 8:07am On Dec 22, 2018 |
Op 1. Your mum does not like the girl, mother in-law/daughter in-law brouhaha loading - RED FLAG 2. Your mum does not have a good relationship with the girl's family, that explains why she has been reluctant to meet with them concerning the date - RED FLAG 3. Her old self keeps coming back, believe it or not, that is who she really is. She is just trying to keep the relationship going. Marriage will open the parcel well - RED FLAG 4. If something like wedding date can make her threaten to call the marriage off, biko what would happen when bigger Storms in marriage appear? - RED FLAG 5. You are not in charge here, your fiancee, mother and in-laws are the ones behind the wheels, you are just their passenger - RED FLAG Because you are going to live with your fiancee not your mum or in-laws, you have to consider this Can you in the long run accommodate and tolerate that attitude of hers in marriage? Believe me, if you settle every other thing without this one, your marriage may not be successful. My 2 cents 4 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by sunnyt1(m): 8:34am On Dec 22, 2018 |
Please about this relationship seriously, there are too many red flags |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by jefdr001: 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
[quote author=thelish post=74036606][/quote]. Haba mama na. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Cindy95(f): 9:04pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
Donlexino:yea... I sniffed cocaine too... I can give u some if u re interested... |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by excessmon(m): 10:09am On Dec 23, 2018 |
I understand you so well but the way you pushed ur point is too aggressive.... 6 months is the starting stage for friendship to grow.........I vote for 2 - 3 years of relationship 1StopRudeness: |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by amanikondo: 8:07pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
prettyesther20:Another one spotted. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by monalicious(f): 8:57am On Dec 24, 2018 |
Dogalmighty17: What an elder sees while seating, a child wouldn't even if he climbs the highest mountain. There's more to this than meets the eye |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by monalicious(f): 9:00am On Dec 24, 2018 |
MichaelBukamzy: The guy strikes me as one who doesn't care much about his family's opinion. He seems to be doing much to talk down his mom and painting his in-laws as saints. The same mother in law who said he should break up the relationship if he feels her daughter is disrespectful. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by MichaelBukamzy(m): 9:58am On Dec 24, 2018 |
monalicious:Exactly dear. his dad is late.his mum ought to be listened to.family first, unless he has plans of going to marry her alone. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by MzErica(f): 7:21pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Cindy95:Too many 'gbagauns' in your write-up. Are you literate at all? |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Cindy95(f): 4:46pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
MzErica:ask your father that question... English us not my mother tongue. fake asses killing themselves for another man's language. English professor wehdoneooooo. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by XhosaNostra(f): 4:52pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
"Threatening to curse me with her breasts"
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Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Jaqenhghar: 5:09pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:LMAO 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by XhosaNostra(f): 5:23pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar: What does that mean lol |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Jaqenhghar: 6:23pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Laughing my ass off |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by XhosaNostra(f): 6:39pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar: No, not that. I meant cursing with breasts. It's such a funny phrase. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Jaqenhghar: 12:15am On Jan 13, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Hehehhee. Id like to know how that os done. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by excessmon(m): 10:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Is it possible to have a better platform even on nairaland where boys and girls won't be allowed to post on issues that's just for older adults.... A 20 -27 year old guy has nothing to tell u about a good relationship..... To the op I believe u haven't grown up coa in your 30s u still can't decide for you and your wife to be....u look like someone that will run back to the mum over every little issues you have with wifey in marriage..... Pls before you marry learn to go for seminars, conference and talkshows about relationship Lastly I advice you to read a book titled men are from mars ,women are from Venus.it will help you to relate better with ur mum and ur wife in future Take this piece u need peace of mind from them both for you to live longer.... My piece though |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Bahddo(m): 9:15am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Op how did this story end? Did you get married? Was it in February or April? |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Skmoda360(m): 10:23am On Oct 19, 2019 |
IamD18:Inside life......well said bro....you nailed it. |
Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by Jaybnjamin(m): 1:01pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
OilsPartsCars: Don't no why people are dissipating energy advicing who has already made up his mind. Love dey shark yoy now. Funny enough sef, na even evening newspaper they torment this wimp. Chai
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Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by djoe21(m): 2:24pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Dogalmighty17: What I noticed about the op after reading. *desperation *immaturity *unassertive *lilly livered. Please don't take any of the above listed as insult. Just work on yourself to eradicate them before you even think of getting married. February, April, 2years time, however long it takes, work on getting those vices out first. |
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Re: My Relationship Of 3 Years May End Because Of Wedding Date. by DenreleDave(m): 5:22pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Cindy95: So u r so blind to see the bad behaviors she is exhibiting Abi... U women are too biased honestly.. Too biased |
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