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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AntiMCU: 6:15pm On Apr 26, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, don't get d fact that I make reference to that institution here twisted. My brain is functioning OK. Sincerely I don't even have anything causing depression in my life now.
Pipe down has a variety of meanings.
Thanks to not streamlining it.

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AntiMCU: 6:17pm On Apr 26, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, don't get d fact that I make reference to that institution here twisted. My brain is functioning OK. Thanks
Pipe down has a variety of meanings.
Thanks to not streamlining it.

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by ogashman(m): 7:08pm On Apr 26, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Abuja ain't easy but keep hope alive.


Thanks ma'am
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by kristen12(f): 8:02pm On Apr 26, 2019
AntiMCU:
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Thanks
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by OlawaleBammie: 9:08pm On Apr 26, 2019
Lukewarm:
I am at crossroads in my relationship life right now.

On one hand, I've got this great dude I've been with for some years. Everyone thinks he's perfect for me because he's ready to be responsible and settle down, then he also plans for the future.

But the problem?

We don't seem to have that connection or chemistry. I find it hard just telling him I love him. But everyone keeps ringing it into my ear that he's one of the good guys and there are quite a few out there. So I promised myself to respect him and hope that is enough to keep a marriage going.

Then on to the minor thing:
1. He's a traditional guy. He believes all a woman needs to do is cook, clean, and conceive. He believes a lot of things are frivolities and a wife has got little to no say in the house.

This really badgers me.

But hey! He's one of the few good ones available.....right?

Then I got a shocker.

I met someone 2 months ago and its been a totally crazy and new experience for me.

It's the first time I've seen someone share the same warped sense of humour I've got. First time I'd meet someone that shares a lot of common interest with me. First time someone will creep into my subconscious and make me smile or even lol at something goofy he did or said.

Now, it's got me thinking:

Is respect really enough?

But my family is having none of that second thoughts. It so happens they'd conveniently bring up the story of a really distant aunt that lost her opportunity to marry by saying No to someone and is still a spinster at 45.

And it really isn't helping matters that my new POI is from a different tribe and isn't set for settling now.

So conflicted.


:-


hmm, this is serious.... i cant say u should marry someone against ur wish and i cant say u should go for a person who is talented in Sweet talk, because men are cunning and deceitful, you wont knw wat he want until after a while..

if u knw how God speaks with u den u can table it before Him.
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by OlawaleBammie: 10:00am On Apr 27, 2019
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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Nobody: 7:03pm On Apr 27, 2019
truthsayer009:


Madame I have seen your post, Is there no child support law in Nigeria. Is it that there are no Lawyers to fight for you? When would your husband leave your kids and not provide monthly for them. Whether he likes the children or not, there should be a law guiding them.

I think you need to contact the proper authorities.

Thanks for your concern, he's providing for them. Pays school fees, hospital bills and he sends a monthly allowance too. Although he doesn't see them as often as he should...he used to visit once a month before but this year he has only seen them twice and we live in the same city. He thinks being a father is just about being responsible for their upkeep. My son barely knows him. It is well.
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Ijobagram: 12:16am On Jun 22, 2019
Help a brother I'm have this chronic mouth odour I'm battling with since two years now I have try all means still don't solve it sometimes I brush my teeth five times a day still it worst I have never been to a dentist because I don't have money ..i don't talk in public or keep friends because I hate reactions I received when I talk sometimes I thought of commit suicide.it has ruined my life I'm depressed I don't know what to do..help me before I kill myself
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Jagaban880: 12:59am On Jun 22, 2019
Ijobagram:
Help a brother I'm have this chronic mouth odour I'm battling with since two years now I have try all means still don't solve it sometimes I brush my teeth five times a day still it worst I have never been to a dentist because I don't have money ..i don't talk in public or keep friends because I hate reactions I received when I talk sometimes I thought of commit suicide.it has ruined my life I'm depressed I don't know what to do..help me before I kill myself

try to see a dentist avoid garlic and onions for now
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Ijobagram: 9:56pm On Jun 23, 2019
Jagaban880:


try to see a dentist avoid garlic and onions for now
the real issue is that I don't have money to do that and I'm scared their charges maybe expensive
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 7:02pm On Jul 16, 2019
smiley..
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by djoe21(m): 7:58pm On Jul 16, 2019
janefrancisca:
Pressure from family and friends to get married as if husbands are sold in shops.
Graduated years back and still no good job. The little one I am managing is not footing my bills and I don tire for daddy give me.
I am sha just managing myself, God know say I don tire cry

Kpele dear
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by djoe21(m): 8:00pm On Jul 16, 2019
graciamore:
hmmm my plenty problems... no love from HUBY and no job..just here thinking and depressed

Sorry to hear this cry
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by graciamore(f): 1:58am On Jul 17, 2019
djoe21:


Sorry to hear this cry
Thank you...
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by omotola90(m): 7:51pm On Oct 12, 2019
Lizzyangel:
my main cause of drepression is REGRETS.
Yorubas will say 'arokan nii fa ekun asun i dake'

my job
my marital life
everyhing's just screwed up.i believe that there is joy and laughter at the end of every storm, tunnel, obstacle. Believe me sis you shall overcome....




i just hope all will be well soon
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by MissOffpoint(f): 10:36pm On Oct 12, 2019
Mine is plenty...

Money for school...

Can't communicate well with people which is very depressing...

Family wahala...

Am just tired...

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by sisisioge: 6:14am On Oct 13, 2019
Ijobagram:
Help a brother I'm have this chronic mouth odour I'm battling with since two years now I have try all means still don't solve it sometimes I brush my teeth five times a day still it worst I have never been to a dentist because I don't have money ..i don't talk in public or keep friends because I hate reactions I received when I talk sometimes I thought of commit suicide.it has ruined my life I'm depressed I don't know what to do..help me before I kill myself

Hello, let's try this simple test. It will cost you time and less than N500. Items, toothpick (the one with those floss), soft brush and hydrogen peroxide.

I. Ensure food does not hide inside your teeth. Pick and floss well. Avoid food that stick in your teeth.

2. Drink a lot of water.

3. Brush with a soft brush morning an night. Just twice in a day.

4. Mix equal amount of water and hydrogen peroxide to rinse your teeth every morning for a week. After which you do only 3 times in a week for another week. Then reduce to 2 times in a week.

5. Maintain general hygiene. Ensure you do not store food in holes in your teeth. Good luck.

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by laurenwhite(f): 2:34pm On Oct 13, 2019
My kids... lack of capital to start a business (provision store)
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Oct 13, 2019
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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by laurenwhite(f): 7:27pm On Oct 13, 2019
Not the kids - no, they are a blessing - but my inability to meet their needs cause i want to get it right and not fail - its a paper one gets to write only once in the life of a child - but stil cant find the way 2 do that but searching...
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by abimbola74(m): 3:52pm On Oct 14, 2019
abimbola74:
Seems most of us are just lonely,putting on a fake smile to hide our pains. So sad �.Thought of this world to come to an end so fast keeps creeping in, Where have we gone wrong? All plans seems shattered ,hopes seems to fade away everyday. One thing is certain, what will be will surely be, we don't just know what life has gotten for us which makes us worry everyday. Life is just full of uncertainties,some are lucky enough to live life has they've planned it, while others keeps living on hope . Life itslf doesn't seems to be fair to some people. I believe this phase will surely pass.
Hmmm,getting a job is hard cos u have to know somebody.
Being self-employed is still frustrating as @tyms it's like u r being lazy about the whole thing despite putting in all u'v got.
We go laugh las las looking back @ dis day
Hmmm.Inside Life
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Shila16: 7:31pm On Oct 14, 2019
abimbola74:

Hmmm.Inside Life
I guess you’ve had a cause to laugh now
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by abimbola74(m): 8:57pm On Oct 14, 2019
Shila16:
I guess you’ve had a cause to laugh now
Bro,Thank God for the gift of life .
Based on believe , it's just a matter of time.
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Onyeibgo(m): 9:21pm On Oct 14, 2019
Me, I've gone through a lot of depressions right from childhood..I now almost live for the sake of life.. Don't even ask about my spiritual life.
. meanwhile I have a current need for 31thousand naira, at least from calculations that's the remaining sum..if am not able to make it, well another dead person and life goes on.... Time has always been my healer.. sometimes ppl try to tell me why it's God but I see it as time..
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Emioga: 9:23pm On Oct 14, 2019
My husband is my challenge, my cause of depression. He is a narcissist. I'm always in constant fear has to not step on his toes.No courage or money to leave him

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by BIXYBABE: 8:49pm On Oct 15, 2019
Na job and accommodation be my problem.....even if its 20k payment or less. I will do, u stay with my parents and d frustration is making me feel depress. I love to relocate to Ibadan if someone can help me with a job....I will be glad
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by nigeriagospel(m): 3:23pm On Oct 16, 2019
janefrancisca:
Pressure from family and friends to get married as if husbands are sold in shops.
Graduated years back and still no good job. The little one I am managing is not footing my bills and I don tire for daddy give me.
I am sha just managing myself, God know say I don tire cry
what if we both determine to get married? Yes you read it right. Check my signature
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by shininglite(m): 10:11pm On Oct 20, 2019
MissOffpoint:
Mine is plenty...
Money for school...
Can't communicate well with people which is very depressing...
Family wahala...
Am just tired...
Hi can we talk?
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by LadyHeaven(f): 2:58pm On Oct 21, 2019
Triniti:
I’m very bad with money, I’ll save tons of millions for business, before you know I have blown it all away to frivolities. I’ll then start afresh with a promise to myself to be prudent with my funds, the cycle will repeat itself again. I think they are doing me from village......I’m supposed to get married next year, how can I cope with poor money management when I have not learn how to be resourceful money?


I used to be like this, spending without purpose but I hated it because at the end of the day I felt unfulfilled so I got close to God, prayed very very hard and got a personal planner (my mumsy) told her of my challenges and she prayed with me and I ran almost all purchases or potential investment by her and it has been amazing, as you are getting married instead of mum, make your wife to be in the know of your weakness, pray together and plan all together you would be fine.

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by mikeayus(m): 6:21am On Oct 24, 2019
BIXYBABE:
Na job and accommodation be my problem.....even if its 20k payment or less. I will do, u stay with my parents and d frustration is making me feel depress. I love to relocate to Ibadan if someone can help me with a job....I will be glad


Where are you based atm and what's ur educational qualifications?
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by bankole200(m): 6:51am On Oct 24, 2019
I am self employed but seems I don't like what I am doing again.I have experienced over six failed engagements. I am 40 years old. Living now becomes a nightmare. I am lonely most times, depressed.

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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by BIXYBABE: 8:36am On Oct 24, 2019
mikeayus:



Where are you based atm and what's ur educational qualifications?
I'm in Abeokuta but I can relocate.......s.s.c.e

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