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Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 24, 2019
As we live our daily lives, we encounter people, things, difficulties, ideas and sometimes we take actions with respect to them. Some of these actions we are proud of, others we are not. The good ones form part of beautiful memories and we use them to sell ourself good to others while the bad ones we lock away as bad memories and they inevitably form part of our secrets.

Secrets are like viruses we carry along as we live not wanting anyone to discover it. Good news is, everyone has it, bad news is, some are more deadlier or weightier than the other. At one point or the other in our lives, we have all done something we are not so proud of and depending on how we are living our lives now and our current status in life, we may never want any of our past to come out in the open, these forms a major part of our weakness.

Sometimes we get very close and comfortable with someone, so close that we sometimes begin to have the urge to share our secrets and weaknesses with them. This is a normal human thing and it is especially important if the person is someone we intend to spend the rest of our lives with. Sometimes we tell a very close friend or relative, just to get it of our chest or as part of a confidential, deep and mutual conversation.

What ever the person or reason behind the urge may be, please do make sure you can vouch for that person and you trust them with your life before you divulge that deep weakness of yours to them. This is especially important if you are a new person around, have worked and built a new image for yourself over time or you are occupying a very important and sensitive position in life or the society.

Be very selfish with your secrets no matter the urge or person involved, be careful of who you share them with some people may be pretending around you and waiting to use them against you. In the case of a relationship, it is tricky because they deserve to know especially an intending life partner but do not bare yourself too early, don’t be tempted to open up too quick, things may be going well at present, tomorrow it may turn bad. Wait till you are very sure things have taken an irreversible good shape.

Your weaknesses and secrets can make or mar you, depending on who wields them. Becareful how you let them out and who you tell, not everyone around you or in your life right now will be there tomorrow, take heed!

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/01/becareful-with-your-secrets/

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by greatmarshall(m): 9:05pm On Oct 24, 2019
Okay

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by RoyalBlu(f): 10:00pm On Oct 24, 2019
Raw truth.

Your secrets are best safe with your maker.

Sometimes tho, we get to learn from our mistakes to better understand this.

There's really no one to trust with your secrets. Too many holes in the wall.

It's well.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Abcruz(m): 10:06pm On Oct 24, 2019
Three friends can only keep a secret if two are dead.


Be careful with your secret.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by tillaman(m): 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2019
Spot on Op!! Those are words on marble, some secrets are meant to Be taken to the grave!!
The only one your secret is safe with is yourself

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by MrHistorian: 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2019
If you as a person is proud of all of your actions. Will there be a secret to be kept in the first place?

The only thing that should be kept a secret is a PATENTABLE IDEA. Any other thing kept as a secret exposes you to be a criminal and nothing more.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by PheelzAlmighty: 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2019
I keep secrets, it's the people I tell that don't

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Kendumazy(m): 10:48pm On Oct 24, 2019
Anything you tell somebody else is no longer a secret sef.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by faithfull18(f): 10:48pm On Oct 24, 2019
RoyalBlu:
Raw truth.

Your secrets are best safe with your maker.

Sometimes tho, we get to learn from our mistakes to better understand this.

There's really no one to trust with your secrets. Too many holes in the war.

It's well.
war or wall, which?

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Shakaranews2: 10:48pm On Oct 24, 2019
I d tell you.
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by 24kmagic: 10:49pm On Oct 24, 2019
Ok
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by PheelzAlmighty: 10:49pm On Oct 24, 2019
English teacher weldone sir grin
faithfull18:

war or wall, which?
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by thugmansion(m): 10:49pm On Oct 24, 2019
I don't trust no body

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Luckysbab: 10:50pm On Oct 24, 2019
Such educative post on FP! sad
Na BOT bring this thing come front page. Nairaland MODs no sabi pass the "usuals". lipsrsealed

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by realstars: 10:50pm On Oct 24, 2019
To every one, keep your secret and don't listen to others secret.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by faithfull18(f): 10:50pm On Oct 24, 2019
PheelzAlmighty:
English teacher weldone sir grin
Lol, not sure myself, was just asking to be sure. No man is an island.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by TwoBottles: 10:51pm On Oct 24, 2019
There is nothing secret in life anymore, everything is now in the open. If my neighbor's daughter could post her bikini body on social media for all to see, what else is she hiding from me?



Stupid girl..

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Titto93(m): 10:54pm On Oct 24, 2019
Sometimes, speaking up can open door for u...
Know who you talk to, is more advisable

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by LinkolnTech(m): 10:54pm On Oct 24, 2019
Good one
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by SeriouslySense(m): 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2019
Okay, hmm
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by tammie24: 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2019
Just shut up and you'll be fine

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2019
Keeping secrets ain't easy but it's very necessary.
While at it, one may sometimes need to give excuses just to cover those secrets which oftentimes lead to loss of great relationships and friendships.
It's sad but again necessary and for safety purposes.

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Kamcee(m): 10:56pm On Oct 24, 2019
Here is my big secret.
I hope you guys can keep it a secret.

shocked shocked shocked
shocked shocked shocked

I DON'T TELL PEOPLE MY SECRET.
I hope you can keep this little secret of mine

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by mujiboy(m): 10:56pm On Oct 24, 2019
But I do feel like I got no secret tho!

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Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by BitmapStudios: 10:57pm On Oct 24, 2019
Mysonne spent 7yrs in jail for not knowing this on time.
cool
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Biritiko: 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2019
Lol.
Who doesn’t know this?
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by Zombiekiller010: 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2019
cheesy
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by BarrElChapo(m): 11:03pm On Oct 24, 2019
sad
Re: Be Careful With Your Secrets! by TooMuchStuff: 11:03pm On Oct 24, 2019
Hahahahahah... !

But some of us have access to so many secrets of people around us by spiritual advantage...!

Too bad! It's not everyone that can lockup secrets from spiritually inclined fellas

Daniel and Joseph are two guys that got access to top notch secrets in the Bible. It's possible

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