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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by fowlyansh181(m): 9:55am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Look past it and move on , don't let it cloud your thoughts and judgement, I know that feeling, imagining another guy banging your girl and getting her pregnant, just tell her exactly how you feel and tell her you will try to forgive her but she should please try to hide other details like that in the past from you, shrug it off and look past it. I'm speaking from experience, my lady had an abortion for an ex in the past and told me crying, it wasn't easy but now I just look at it as one of those mistakes we make in the past due to being naive and move on.. trust me it will help you to look pass it bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Lamanii22(f): 9:55am On Oct 29, 2019 |
oluwatobi75: When a woman loves a man... She gives him all of her comfort and more.... |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:56am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Ohh because she told you about her past ? All of a sudden, you are now in dilemma?? Ara na agba gi!!! Mtcheww! You want to tell me that you don't have horrible past as well? I Kno say you wan dump her..stop looking for excuse biko!! Mr dilemma ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by MuviewNigeria(m): 9:56am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Nowadays almost every girl has had one abortion or more and you'll never know unless they tell you. Girls will waste there youthful age fucking, getting pregnant and aborting the babies. At that point their motto is "only God can judge me, mind your business".... until they have countless body count and several abortions for guys uninterested in them, that's when they'll start pretending to be saints...join a church choir and start forming "no sex till marriage" on top pussy that has been destroyed already. I pity the guys who go to church looking for decent girls. 8 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by sparko1(m): 9:56am On Oct 29, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Let me paint this scenario for you, you have a girlfriend but she just act normal, no guy issue, no funny message on her phone, she doesn't even have a lock on her phone! what will you think? oh! let me guess, you will think she's an angel! Do you know that she might have had lot of abortion, slept with numerous guys, even did prostitution for years in like the east or south south and when she was ready to marry came to Lagos and started living like a virgin. You met her in church, she's very prayerful, hardworking the kind of woman you will think have never met a man or slept with one. 5 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by cobby14(m): 9:56am On Oct 29, 2019 |
it`s 2019 so get used to it |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Dololo: 9:57am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Follow your heart. If you truly love her, go on with her. Everyone has got a past as no one holy pass. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Angelfrost(m): 9:57am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Immaturity truly reigns supreme here... See people casting aspersions like they are saints... Mr. Op, let me tell you this for free... Only 1 in a million ladies open up about their checkered past to someone they truly love, cherish, and want to settle down with. The real question here is: Do you truly cherish her or feel the same way as she does??!.. If the answer is No, then break up with her and move on... If Yes, then keep that girl closer to your heart than your shadow; she is a keeper!!! Most ladies would keep such to themselves for as long as they live... Just imagine if you had to find out these things from outside much later in marriage or committed relationship... Ladies who hide so much can do far worse, even kill. 6 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Jabioro: 9:57am On Oct 29, 2019 |
That is one thing about the world,tell the truth and they used to hang you..keep the secret you will be holier than Jesus..You see she is the most sincere fellow with you,bold and confidence of herself..you are the jiltery type.You lives in fear of yesterday therefore destroyed tomorrow bravery.So you are expected a complete plain virgin girl on your bed.Your ex is a brand new at someone doormouth and your new girl was an old rag at someone kitchen.. Stop complaining..we all got into past 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Kai.. ...so she had all those before 20, wow......what an amazing world |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by danhans(m): 9:59am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Nobody holy pass,if she is willing to change for the better then, no issue there take your time and know what to do,ask your self if really love her that should be what you should be asking your self |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DenreleDave(m): 10:00am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Zita55: So he shud not be in dilemma now Abi until he marries her and she can't bear children again, or she keep fucking other men to provide for him again Abi.. That is when he shud be in dilemma Abi.. U r a lady and u always try to support ursef Op shud be jumping that his GF commited 2 murders and Bleep many men for money abi 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by All4real2: 10:00am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95:why would you break up with a girl because she is bold enough to tell you the truth about her past you should be proud of her those who said you should break up with her ask them to tell you the past stories of their wives or girl friends many of them were prostitute they still kept the secret for themselves without disclosing it to any body not even their so called boyfriend yet they are celebrated. that your girl is one in a million |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by BarrElChapo(m): 10:01am On Oct 29, 2019 |
chuksjuve: Oga abeg are you God ? with all these big English we still have a very forgiving God. Quit with these tantrums |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Nobody: 10:01am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Logan95: Trust me, you are meant for each other, the perfect couple, you all into same shyt 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Chiefochiefo(m): 10:01am On Oct 29, 2019 |
She's more sensible than you bro! Just that? And you're shivering? You're not man enough bro. Just go and find ur level. She just tasted you and you failed. What if it's an interview? |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Lamanii22(f): 10:02am On Oct 29, 2019 |
chuksjuve: Then she might have gotten no other choice.... She might not have the resources to take care of the baby... She could be 16 or 17 when she had the abortion(s) ... She was naive.... |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Peng12345: 10:03am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Abeg rush and marry her, only 3 abortions you are complaining, some girls can't recall the number of abortions, they are totally used up, instamessage Queen and all |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Woods4666: 10:03am On Oct 29, 2019 |
We all have our shameful past, nobody is saint.... bro if u love her don’t look at her past forget about that. The present is what matter |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by chapmanapr: 10:03am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Some secrets are meant to be untold but since she decided to tell you, bro your head is strong! If it's me I would run for my dear life! She's a stupid girl. Who has sex with other men to take care of her man. You don't need a stupid ass girlfriend. she's lying, she's a former prostitute. It's like dating a serial killer who has turned over a new leaf, but might someday kill again. Get a grip! 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by rafkollinz: 10:04am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Good blooda as she willingly told n confessed to u. If u no dt her past will not hurt u in future, it's very best well to consider n let her realise if she still can eat her vomit, if she nods out ie layilahi. Let her used Bible to swear if she ready to b wit u. My blooda, its very rare n scarce to mit a lady Wu can boldly step 4ward n told u her past within short period u not her.. The ball is in ur court, may Almighty Allah gif u wisdom to make right n suitable decision 4 yasef |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 10:04am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Korllami007: My point is guys on this forum always say all Nigerian girls say is "give me phone, money" But there are a thousand and one girls feeding their boyfriends even from runs money. So, I'm glad you have said you know girls feeding their men even through runs so who are these girls dating if not the Nigerian men always screaming that all Naija girls do is demand. You people like to put yourself on pedestals. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Israelmoney(m): 10:04am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Hold on to her.the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by rafkollinz: 10:04am On Oct 29, 2019 |
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Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by openmine(m): 10:06am On Oct 29, 2019 |
For her to confess her past to you without you asking for it shows how much she loves you and would never want the past to destroy the love both of you have been building! I wish I could say the same for others who feel Its best to keep the past as it is until that same past ultimately affects their future and leaves a lasting scar on a relationship they were trying to protect! Op hold her tight ohh! Not everyone esp a lady will reveal such past to the that they are having a relationship with! 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by haywhy66: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Prince4945: This may or may not be true. Truth is 80 to 90% of the time a situation like this happens, it has a pinch of manipulation in it, however there are few times when it would be indeed meant from the heart. My wife had a not so different story from your girl and today I can boldly and proudly say marrying her remains the best decision I've ever made and believe me I have alot going well for me in other areas of my life (with all humility). There're two facts you can draw from this situation regardless of the possibility of any kinda manipulation involved. First is that she likes you and considers you a keeper, atleast at the moment. Second is that she has alot of courage. In the end, you're gonna be the one to decide buh always remember that we have all done things we are not so proud of at given periods of our lives and the past does not matter as long as you're sure such behaviours are truly in the past and hasn't left a life-long scar that might be too hard to bear for you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DexterousOne(m): 10:07am On Oct 29, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Hahaha |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Liquid2Metal: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2019 |
You should be happy your woman confessed those things to you. No body is perfect bro not even you. Just take it as one of those things. If you love her, judge her by her present behaviour and not the past because so many regret their past actions. |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by MoIbrahim: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2019 |
If so, na for two of them to just go screen together. Though, God forbid bad thing, it would be hard to say which came first between the chicken and the egg. Emily22: 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by Khold01: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2019 |
[q���uote author=HarunaWest post=83546773] Why is she even apologizing for telling the truth sef...is it cos she told yah,u sef come dey form saint no. If she kept shut,heaven won't fall @ all....The fact that she confessed,you should respect her the more....The last time I remembered my body count was year 2016...And it was exactly 52...between then and now,I can't count.[/quote] |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by generationz(f): 10:08am On Oct 29, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Jesus you men are something else. Must you always blame women. A girl just confessed one of the dirtiest parts of her life and you are saying she is trying to form good girl. Are you okay? If she was trying to act like a good girl she would have lied that she did part time ushering jobs or served food, sold clothes, shoes and bags to feed the guy. But she said she did runs. Despite the fact that most of you here are being fed by your girlfriends, you still come here to join the bandwagon to scream that naija girls are greedy and demanding. I don't blame you all sha, I blame the fools who think they have men. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma: My Girlfriend's Confessions. by DexterousOne(m): 10:08am On Oct 29, 2019 |
haywhy66: That's good to know |
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