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Re: Then It Dawned On Me, I Died In An Abusive Marriage by nuelyoyo(m): 4:48pm On Nov 03, 2019
bukatyne:


How did I know you would bring up this example? grin grin

First, no sane husband who loves you (it is your duty to choose him, you say yes) will jump on you while you are dry yada yada if these chores are a one time thing. E.g. You deep cleaning on Saturdays might make you tired. If you use the cop out of chores to absconf from your sexual duty daily, fa fa fa fowl!

For an average man to 'force' himself on the wife means she has been giving him this same tired story all the time and some would rather force their wives than commit adultery. Just how the wives spike their husbands' drinks and jump on him.

If a wife is constantly 'tired' as a result of chores, she needs to sit back to review her schedule. Am I focusing on too much necessary stuffs? Are there stuffs I can enlist my husband to be responsible for? Can I outsource these things? Or is it a time management thingy? Or is that I am no longer attracted to my husband because he has served his purpose of delivering me from spinsterhood and given me kids?

After honest accessment, the wife should engage her husband with her findings and they work towards a resolution that suits all the parties.

If it is a mindset thing, she renews her mind to love her husband and accept the gift of his sexuality. Sometimes, the woman is dry because she is not turned on by him or at all. She can tell him to massage her body or give her adequate pre-intimacy to set her in the mood and before she knows it, she is gyrating to his strokes.

Have you ever wondered why most mothers are never tired to attend to the needs and wants of their kids because they see them as priority?

Have you ever wondered why most girlfriends cook, clean and fvck their bfs because they are still looking for the ring?

Sex is God's gift to humanity in marriage. It restores, makes a woman glow, makes a man tender and loving, makes a woman submissive, binds them together, is a form of recreation and multiplication. It is also a major stress reliever (people tired can try it esp. when the partner is gentle), keeps up with unity in marriage, allows for the opening and joining on a physical and soul level.

One of the major ways a man expresses lo e to his wife is that he is always fascinated with her body and he wants to make love to her. One of the major ways a woman expresses love to her husband to receiving his sexual advances with joy and enthusiasm.


The Red Pillers and Pick Up Artists know this and advise husbands and men generally to cheat once in a while so they are not 'addicted' to their wives. Extreme feminists also know this and bring up martial rape and all sorts to tell a wife her body is hers to control in marriage.

And what does LordKO always support me even mean? undecided

P. S.: You don't need to thank me or acknowledge I am right. Just keep these things to heart and practice in your marriage and testify to others.

Remember that the Yam and the Knife are in your hands. You have the power of choice. Choose a sane man who loves you.
Your write up is loaded with wisdom, you should consider being a marriage/relationship counselor.
Re: Then It Dawned On Me, I Died In An Abusive Marriage by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:34pm On Nov 03, 2019
crackhaus:



Really? Using a baby meme is your comeback? Didn't expect anything worthwhile from you anyway.

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Re: Then It Dawned On Me, I Died In An Abusive Marriage by yazga: 12:05pm On Nov 04, 2019
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Fountainofyouth:



Really? Using a baby meme is your comeback? Didn't expect anything worthwhile from you anyway.
Re: Then It Dawned On Me, I Died In An Abusive Marriage by mysticgal(f): 9:12pm On Nov 04, 2019
doitforyou:


Yawn.

No one on this thread comprehends you, because you make no damn sense. You’re talking from all the orifices on your body. You’re backpedaling so fast that you don’t even make sense to yourself.

Lol @ bolded, see you bobbing and weaving with NL’s favorite buzz words so you can dodge defending your twisted logic, lol I don’t blame you if I had to defend a dangerous and incoherent ideology, I’ll probably also take the desperate option to save face.

“There is no rape in marriage” is a very sick, twisted and dangerous thing to say, so sick that even married men on NL shut you down very quickly. What does that say about you and your message?

I actually feel sorry for you, if you had strong independent married women as role models growing up you wouldn’t have turned out to be this weak, low self esteemed, brainwashed woman.
When I saw that thread, I felt sick. I couldn’t believe she was saying that and when I saw her words here........ you have captured my words. Kudos

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Re: Then It Dawned On Me, I Died In An Abusive Marriage by Hamachi(f): 9:52am On Nov 05, 2019
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mysticgal:

When I saw that thread, I felt sick. I couldn’t believe she was saying that and when I saw her words here........ you have captured my words. Kudos

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