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Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by kunleweb: 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude: Lol. Babe easy 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Jhamzy(m): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Lamanii22: I will advice you not to marry who you don't truly love and trust. Discuss issues like this extensively before getting into marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
martowskin1: Tell them ooo |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by m140(m): 10:20pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Lamanii22:But easy to trust women bah |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
kunleweb: Na true now. I read so many stories on Facebook about how a woman said she bought a land and built it in her Hubby's name so that her family can respect the man only for the man to later divorce her and asked her to leave with her children as he's bringing his new wife to the house. She now came to Facebook to ask what she should so to get her property back. Too late cos the C of O and other documents, she handed to the man when it still dey sweet....now she can't even sue the man because no evidence she's the owner of the property. And several other cases like that. Still they nor wan learn. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Alokk: 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
No she should keep it in PMB's Name. � |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Joystark(f): 10:30pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
I woulda dropped a comment, buh... I'm not married, I don't have a property. Let's leave this for those with experience ![]() |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Pussywar: 1. I don't use sentiment where common sense works just as well. So I wont view an issue from a sentimental angle if doing so would expose me to scammers and vultures who consider me their lawful prey due to a sentimental nature. 2. The topic has nothing to do with me, I simply gave my opinion. I'm not saying I'm right, you do what works for you, likewise everybody else. 3. In this day and age, leave for your kids treasures that wont make them vulnerable targets for unscrupulous people, or people who have a grudge against them for whatever reason, especially if you know you give them the leeway and they (your kids) might not be prepared for the unleashing of such bitterness they might have been unaware of. 4. If you want your kids to have your property, then make sure you do everything required by law to make them your heirs and do not leave any loopholes others can exploit. 5. As I've mentioned before, Nigerians by nature are anarchists and they also believe the property of other people belongs to them. If you carelessly do not do all the necessary things required to protect your investments, then it's assumed it doesn't matter to you who gets them. In which case, they're considered free for all. 6. If you're one of those "jolly good fellow" types to whom the happiness of other people is more important than your well being (we've all been there), then in my opinion, dont be talking about property, just enjoy your own self and leave tomorrow to sort itself out. ![]() My thoughts. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by joelsky: 10:41pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Lamanii22: you sound like a troublemaker anyway.... i hope your future husband sees this! |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by edoairways: 10:42pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Sanchez01:People change even if you knew them for long 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by kazyhm(m): 10:47pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
So the wife should not adopt her husband as well ? Very funny unsolicited advice |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by nlPoster: 11:00pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
From what I see these days, Nigerians are giving their parents property, not the other way round. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Advancedman(m): 11:08pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
AXYZ: Any woman you paid bride price for or the marriage is categories by families and not an act by two consenting adults the man own the wife so anything in her name is taboo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by petitejolie(f): 11:25pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Its not suppose to be this way but na condition make crayfish bend. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by plasgidy: 11:26pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Lamanii22: Then you have no business with a man and marriage, you should keep hold of your property and stay off marriage cos marriage has a rule and guide if you are not ready to abide by that rule then what on earth are you looking for a man in your life for? The bible says when husband and wife are joined together they becomes one not two, if you have properties before and after marriage is for both of you not yours alone now this is applicable to the man too. Any thing away from this will bring suspicion. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by uuzba(m): 11:26pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Lamanii22:So why would you marry a person you don't trust in the first place? |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by kunleweb: 11:40pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude: Jeez. No Conscience. Mehn I'm tired of the negative news everywhere. Its exhausting. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Priest69(m): 11:50pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
Of course it is right. Is she not a human being? |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Nov 04, 2019 |
AXYZ: Only an insecure man would question his wife's buying property with her money in her name. My wife bought land, I helped her register it solely in her name and am currently helping her to build a house on it; though the larger portion of the money is from her income. I see no issue with it at all. If I die, I would like to know that my wife and kids have a completely secure home that no one can contest with her. In the meantime, she can rent it out and increase her own income while living in my own house which it is my duty to provide. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Nobody: 12:11am On Nov 05, 2019 |
Yes of course |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by plasgidy: 12:20am On Nov 05, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: If you cry come here in future say they don Kick you out na aziza I go use sweep this your mumu head and leg out. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Nobody: 12:52am On Nov 05, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: Spot on!! |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by okusebi(m): 1:05am On Nov 05, 2019 |
I think, if the couples are legally married, except there is a prenup that says otherwise, all properties belong to both parties regardless of whose name is on the documents. if there is a divorce, the properties will be shared accordingly based on their resolution. most Nigerian women really don't know their marital rights. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by DaddyGngeess(m): 1:18am On Nov 05, 2019 |
If she likes keep it in her name or not, when papa and mana don transit, na children get the whole thing, so nothing there... |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Newboss(m): 1:32am On Nov 05, 2019 |
Everyone should buy whatever they by in their own individual name. Whether man or woman. Never lose yourself in all these romantic nonsense. Be logical |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Deepthoughts: 2:12am On Nov 05, 2019 |
AXYZ:My own principle be is simple,if a lady is more educated n exposed than me she is not for me,a lady richer than me is not for me,a lady too beautiful self is not for me, anybody can yab me ooh,but I have my reasons,if you doubt it ask eboue formerly of Arsenal. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by EgunMogaji2: 3:05am On Nov 05, 2019 |
AXYZ: It’s a very good idea, especially in backasswards Nigeria with extended family issues. Only a broke a$$ motherfryer would be intimidated by this. I’m pretty sure that Dangote, Ote$ola, etc are not sitting around worrying about their wives properties. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by DameB(f): 3:06am On Nov 05, 2019 |
What happens to Linda Ikeji's properties when she marries? |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by IMASTEX: 3:07am On Nov 05, 2019 |
Florblu:You have spoken wisely generally. To the quote, distrust is one of the reason. I've seen a practical case where the man was struggling to build for the family with hesitating support from the woman. While she was secretly building hers without the husband knowing, with the usual excuse of no one knows tomorrow. Another reason, is where one party is highly unproductive. I did a transaction, that i instructed my wife to supervised as I was away. Time for crediting, the client called me for bank details. I simply told them, credit the person attending to you. I could figuratively see the look on his face via the phone. Even though, they knew who she was. He quoted the figure involved & asked do you want me to credit her. After the deal, spoke another day. And comments like. I really admire. . .. Well, I might not also blame him totally, because I don't know why he couldn't be free with cash around his spouse, etc. |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by DozieInc(m): 3:08am On Nov 05, 2019 |
Sanchez01: |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Ipodisacriminal: 3:10am On Nov 05, 2019 |
If it’s right for a man to buy car in his name So it’s better the woman buys property in her name too No big deal |
Re: Is It Right For A Wife To Keep Properties In Her Name? by Ipodisacriminal: 3:12am On Nov 05, 2019 |
Deepthoughts: Don’t be inferior bro Even monkey aspire good for things 1 Like 1 Share |
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