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Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Micholawoye: 5:10pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
mindful01: Really? I know many married people who are struggling. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by sexymoma(f): 5:10pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by millionboi2: 5:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Richy4:or d wife came with some money 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by ngwababe(f): 5:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: You ain't Nigerian bro. Imagine you exempting in-laws and friends from bills? ![]() 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Grundig: 5:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis:I sincerely hope nobody takes this advice. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Sicilyjoe: 5:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Where is the money to get married in the first place ? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by mindful01: 5:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye: The struggling won't last long 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Gabson006: 5:12pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Two is better than one they say But have something to fall back on as a man |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by soleexx(m): 5:12pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
He who finds a wife finds a Good thing... Bible quote... But actually it's doesn't work for everyone... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by anigbajumo(m): 5:12pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
healthserve: No b only star,na moon.... 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Micholawoye: 5:13pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
jesmond3945: Thank you sir. Please can you explain further? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Antoeni(m): 5:13pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Because of the Notion that "when you Marry , the Doors of Blessings will be Opened* 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Beat123(f): 5:14pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
No sensible person would advice you to get married without handwork or a job 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by ecolime(m): 5:15pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis:Are you married? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by 1234IKECHhukwu: 5:15pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
U can't believe it,almost every pastor I know is guilty of this. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by millionboi2: 5:15pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:hmmm U hit it 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by West2019(m): 5:16pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
everything is determination befor u marry u have to start doing something cos marriages is not a of manner fall from heaven .if u married Hausa you go dey change dollars ,if you married Yoruba you ho dey do abgboru if u married Igbo business sure for u ,if u married Edo. Italy is sure for u if u married calabar Dog business is sure for u , if you married Benue farm.work is sure for u,try it and thank me later 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by ecolime(m): 5:16pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye:That's the reality bro |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Roland17(m): 5:16pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: Please tell me you are joking because your 1st paragraph and to some extent the entirety of your post is far from the truth and misleading. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Micholawoye: 5:17pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
[quote author=healthserve post=83826367]Op he's correct. If you've tried and nothing works, get married to a good woman even on credit. Your stars will combine and break the opening you need financially. It works. Or rather has been a principle from old.[/quot Can you explain further? How many examples do you know personally? Wouldn't that be a blind and silly risk(pardon me) to take? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Edyice: 5:17pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
For their suffering to continue Na .... ![]() And some losers will jump into it 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
hopefulLandlord:Wanna dust my cv naw ![]() |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Edyice:That's a lie. How many rich men married rich? |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by babyfaceafrica: 5:19pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
mindful01:because? |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by madridsta007(m): 5:19pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye: I think this is a terrible advise and, truly, some Pastors give this advice quite a lot. Normally, when you succumb to the "advise", they will quickly suggest one "Sister" to you to marry and, "boom!" the wedding is conducted. The courtship time is so short just in case you want to change your mind. Your eyes will open when you marry and are jobless ![]() Adam did not "marry" Eve when he was jobless. He had a job as a Gardner, Horticulturist, an Onomatologist and perhaps a Farmer. Perhaps, the reason why the snake did not find him idle (as he was working) and looked for the idle person to tempt= Eve. Young men please, please please, get a job first before you get a wife. Common sense. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:19pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Micholawoye:The thing tire me. These confused pastors have two mouths 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by healthserve(m): 5:20pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
[quote author=Micholawoye post=83826582][/quote] I know quite a few. The first time I heard it, it happened to my personal hommie who was just earning about 30k. Dude got a lady they both liked themselves pregnant. As I'm speaking to you, one contract came from no where. Bam 3-5million and he grew it. A second followed the same. This doesn't mean diligence and financial appropriatey should be exempted in such unions. There's an oil that magnifies little to become big. Work is crucial as well as planning and action 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Hoephase: 5:20pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Acidosis: I am not sure where you live or where you got your math lessons. In a sane clime, if on the average it takes you 5 liters of water to bath a day. When you the number of your house hold increases by 1 at least your water usage will double. For cooking if you alone consumes 3 cups of rice a week and say it cost you 100 naira. When you the size of your household increases by 1 at least your expensive on rice on the minimum will be 150 naira based on the assumption that your wife consumes half as much as you do. Well you may keep this roof but when your family size grows and the living space per individual decreases beyond the required minimum living space for an individual, stress sets in, diseases and other psychological issues creeps in. These alone reduces not only the quality of life the members of the household but it also depletes the family resources: low productivity from stress, use resources that would have been put aside for investment for treating communicable disease etc. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Sicilyjoe:Court. |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
ngwababe: The guy is living in wonderland ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe he will continue living in one room, using table fridge, camp gas, etc since its cheaper that way. Their children should go to the type of government school we see in katsina or zamfara states and if they are sick, prayer house straight ![]() 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
madridguy:faith is no longer single. She is married. If you marry with faith, you are on your own 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Pastors Advise Unemployed Men To Marry? by Starz825(m): 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
mindful01:So why is blessings not flowing in the lives of those who are married and still suffering 4 Likes |
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