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Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Fearcom(m): 6:19pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
If the Op is reading this , know that your wife isn't being completely truthful with you. How? She wants to get it off her chest by saying she cheated but you will NEVER know the degree or frequency or intent of what she did. That's how all female cheaters behave. She waited for a year. She must have known that you were cheating so she confessed using the LESSER CHARGE trick She told you she did it ONE time ( come on!) If she enjoyed it she will NEVER tell you as if will hurt your ego. She might have been blackmailed or overwhelmed so she decided to come clean and tell you before someone else did 5 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by topsam1(m): 6:21pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:got DICKED.... This word got me rotfl.. 1 Like |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by UjuJoan2: 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko: But you felt she would never cheat, not because you trust and love her, but because you felt she was 'too old' and won't be able to attract admirers. That's very low of you. So she went and proved you wrong. 15 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by imitateMe(m): 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
olabrinks:But why? Is that women's greatest asset? |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by olabrinks(f): 6:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
How lol? mysticwarrior: |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by digitaltrades: 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko: Hmmm....The church kinda wifey. How deceptive humans can be! |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by twosquare(m): 6:32pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
dominique:Same here. 1 Like |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 6:33pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Help me ask them o ![]() Even the ones that have been faithful husbands are also living in denial if they 100% believe their wives can't cheat on them. 5 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by falebe: 6:35pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Amarisa(f): 6:36pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko: A woman does not hear words,she EXPERIENCE words.. You have forgiven each other,so Move On and sin no more..Enjoy your marriage! 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Trutherme: 6:39pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:Both of you are not honest with yourselves as a couple but my biggest surprise is that she told you she slept with the lecturer just once and you believed her. Unless you tell us how many of your stuffs she damaged or how devastated she looked when you told her you have been having illicit affairs with countless women for over 6 months, I can tell you that you are living with a woman who has been sharing you with another man for 6 months or even more. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Ndì married people with their everyday wahala ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Biggty:And he won't ![]() Things too dey pain men sha 1st to do no dey pain remember? 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by UjuJoan2: 6:46pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
crackhaus: There's a difference between what someone 'can' do and what they 'will' do. There's nothing wrong in a man hoping his wife will be true to him and remain faithful. Some women will NEVER cheat on their husbands. But he also needs to reciprocate by staying faithful to her. What's outrageous is people like this poster who is out gallivanting, and yet think his wife 'cannot' do the same. And even goes as far as taunting her. What a nerve! 8 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by SURElee(f): 6:47pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:r Don't almost faint yet. This goes to show you that when a women wants to do. They will do it well without husband knowing and probably bring another man's baby inside for you to train. Not that I support a married woman dickingg outside her marriage, you sef sebi you were sambaing outside too and as you keep telling her she is getting old, continue emphasizing her aging as you are younging daily. 4 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by simplesearch: 6:48pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this [b]church [/b]kinda wifey. When Adam was a-way from Eve devil sneaked into the garden and the rest is history. Your home is so wide open for spiritual intruders because you think it's okay for your wife to be churchy, while you go frolicking around. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY, cos you are the gate-man in your home, the symbol of God's authority on earth. Once you leave your duty post the enemy comes in gradually to deal you a great blow. Your wife like eve was a sell-out but here you both betrayed each others trust. Adam's case was even better than yours yet he still forgave her, and moved on well thereafter. Since she's confessed to you, you both should go to God for forgiveness and healing, thereafter ask God for grace to be a true standard of morality and godliness in your home. Your wife seems disgusted with what she did as per her status and not likely to repeat such, if she didn't regret her actions she wouldn't have opened up to you yet, but her confession meant she'd a sense of guilt all along. So forgive her and move on like Adam, she will respect you the more and'll ever be faithful! 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Zimzy(m): 6:48pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Your marriage can only be saved by God. I see you guys having serious trust issues soon 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by simplesearch: 6:50pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey. When Adam was a-way from Eve devil sneaked into the garden and the rest is history. Your home is so wide open for spiritual intruders because you think it's okay for your wife to be churchy, while you go frolicking around. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY, cos you are the gate-man in your home, the symbol of God's authority on earth. Once you leave your duty post the enemy comes in gradually to deal you a great blow. Your wife like eve was a sell-out but here you both betrayed each others trust. Adam's case was even better than yours yet he still forgave her, and moved on well thereafter. Since she's confessed to you, you both should go to God for forgiveness and healing, thereafter ask God for grace to be a true standard of morality and godliness in your home. Your wife seems disgusted with what she did as per her status and not likely to repeat such, if she didn't regret her actions she wouldn't have opened up to you yet, but her confession meant she'd a sense of guilt all along. So forgive her and move on like Adam, she will respect you the more and'll ever be faithful! |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Ganjafama: Who wired them like that ![]() Were they also wired to cheat ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 6:59pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:There's a difference between 'hoping' that someone will be true/remain faithful and 'believing' they actually will. As for those women who will NEVER cheat on their husbands, may everything always be good and well in their marriages for their sakes. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Saintmary(f): 7:01pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:When you are thinking about how she was stripped, remember how she will be thinking of your own escapades too. 3 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Neurotika: 7:04pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
1. The true picture of what really went down can only be depicted well by the man she fvcked. She certainly has edited the story....trust me the devil is in the details. 2. Her reason for cheating isn't the whole story...ultimately, she had it in her core nature and some things just triggered the monster in there. 3. She might still cheat and she might not. But one thing is certain, she will go on a long break first before doing such and it most likely will be emotional cheating not physical. 4. If you're really ready to stop cheating too, entrench a sacred law - No secrets. And find sophisticated ways to secretly track her in the future to see if she will break the rule. If she breaks it thrice in your marriage lifetime. Get a divorce. The psychological trauma an adulterous woman brings can shorten your lifespan. |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:imagine her sucking her ex dick then come home to kiss you with the same mouth |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Equity15(m): 7:12pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
makinson2865:translation please |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Yoighaman(m): 7:14pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
If I cheated 500 times and you do just once, whether I get to know or you confess, forget it, it's all over. People can air their opinions, it's theirs for keeps, that's why our finger prints are different. What others can live with, I simply can't....call me self-righteous or a hypocrite, again that's your opinion, keep it safe. 5 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by UjuJoan2: 7:19pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
crackhaus: Why are you so cynical and persimmistic ![]() ![]() Anyway, amen to your prayers ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by smat101(m): 7:27pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko: ![]() ![]() ![]() I remember my GF back in Uni. She was this beautiful fair churchy girl...It took me some time to become intimate with her, after then we kept on doing it (she was wonderful in that area I've to admit)...well long story cut short, we broke up cos she said she can't be fornicating and preaching against it to other people,which I respected and let her be...We kept on talking as friends and then I told her about a girl that was madly in love with me that came to my house and refuse to go...I also told her we did it..I could feel the jealousy in her voice(it was over the phone)...She later asked to come visit me which I refuse...I asked her if she has been with anyone since me...Her answer broke my heart, [b]she told me she slept with someone in Church Camp... Imagine...we broke up cos we were fornicating and then you went to the house of God to commit the same crime... 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Mood11: Harrikoko, this is your best advice. You are the black sheep in your marriage. Learn how to concentrate on POSITIVES. 5 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by richardjemedafe1(m): 7:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
olabrinks:i fear u.... but u are kind of right though 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 7:29pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Lol, no one did me anything. But with the number of married women I know personally who once said they would NEVER cheat on their husbands, but ended up doing same...you can imagine my cynicism. |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by paparazi1(m): 7:30pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
harrikoko:You are acting more like a fool, marriage is not for boys okay or is all this a joke? 2 Likes |
Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by UjuJoan2: 7:31pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
crackhaus: Well, I guess you never say NEVER! |
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