CaptainMitch:
She dey very erratic, I dey always try to provoke girls and see their reaction, that way you go know who dey homely among them, she's very young and pretty so e dey enter her head I want her to like me then I go run away

Acidosis:


but marriage does not increase one's responsibility to family and friends nah.

lefulefu:
yea as she young so she go get huge numbers of men wey go dey chase and toast her .wait till she get a little older when the number don reduce small then try ur luck again..she go give u face i assure u

Acidosis:


No, I'm not.

Acidosis:


but marriage does not increase one's responsibility to family and friends nah.

Micholawoye:
Good morning Nairaland family. I have noticed that some pastors will tell unemployed single men to marry and that when they get married and start having kids, that things will begin to get easier for them in life.

Sometimes they say things Luke when you get married, the star of the woman and yours work together to make things easier and give you better things in life.

I used to laugh at this until about a month ago and a pastor I know told me the same thing.
Please how true is this? I need advice from people with such experiences. Pardon my English please.

Thank you and God bless.

Acidosis:


Two single people (man and woman) and two married people (man and woman) consume the same amount of water and food.

Two single people under a different roof (roof A & roof B) consume higher electricity than two married people under same roof (roof C).


What's strange about that? How can 1 be greater than 2?

DanXplore:


I think what the dude implied was that their combined cost of living reduces in relative proportion due to economies of scale.

Micholawoye:
Good morning Nairaland family. I have noticed that some pastors will tell unemployed single men to marry and that when they get married and start having kids, that things will begin to get easier for them in life.

Sometimes they say things Luke when you get married, the star of the woman and yours work together to make things easier and give you better things in life.

I used to laugh at this until about a month ago and a pastor I know told me the same thing.
Please how true is this? I need advice from people with such experiences. Pardon my English please.

Thank you and God bless.

fairfora:
Faith without work, is useless my brother. If you get married without anything to fall back on, you're on your own. Same pastor would tell you to keep trusting when you meet him for counselling or money to feed your family. Rather, pray to God to provide you a job and other things would fall in line.

After graduating and serving my fatherland and my gf was always pressuring me that we should get married when I didn't have a job, my pastor said marriage wasn't what I needed at this stage but job. Unfortunately, she couldn't wait as all her friends were busy getting married and she too felt like copying them. I stood my ground because if push comes to shove, na me go suffer am. She went and married another guy whom she met in less than 6 months and they settled down . The guy too no get job.

Almost a year later, I got a job with one of the blue chip companies, found a woman I could marry and 2 years later I got married. This lady who refused to wait didn't have an issue until 4 years after marriage. Now, she always calls for help which I didn't turn down.

imitateMe:

What sort of help?

seunmohmoh:
Can anyone update me on the accident that happened at ikire?

wonder233:
Nigeria is a marriage-obssessed society. In Nigeria, nobody cares whether you are financially able or whether you have found love.
You see a senior person harassing a young person into marriage, but they will never help the young person get a job or start a business.
Most people who aren't financially capable who allowed themselves harassed or brainwashed into marriage with the "Marriage-brings-blessings" sermon are finding themselves in serious troubles...and guess what, they are abandoned by the same people who goaded them into it.

johnkey:
Seun i don send you email taya, are you also from ikire?

seunmohmoh:
My sister was in the bus that had accident there.

johnkey:
OMG I hope she's okay. You're in my prayers.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Ogini mere Bros? I remember you said you found she? What's d challenge

seunmohmoh:
She's fine

Acidosis:


Has DSTV increased your bill because you wear a wedding band? Did any Doctor confirmed an increment in the size of your stomach since you got married?

barinedan:
And why do unemployed men keep girlfriends if they don't have money to cater for the needs of the girls. If you can take care of a girlfriend then taking care of wife should equally not be a problem

Roland17:


If it takes one person 1 gallon/ bucket of water to take a bath a day, how many gallons/ bucket will it take 2 people to take a shower in 1 day? This considering person A pays 100 Naira a month for water when he resided by himself. Based on the above would the water bill remain constant or increase?

I will be waiting for your answer and it will determine if I should engage you any further.

Acidosis:


So when person A pays N100, a special marital law forbids person B from paying another N100? Person B never baths with water before meeting person A? You've being bathing before marriage na, then continue to bath na.

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.

Naanlong01:
I don't believe this. Don't go and be like one guy in my compound o. He is only a phone charger and married (no wedding o) e just impregnated the poor girl and now they have a daughter that is of school age but not yet in school, the only food i see them cook every night when they return from the charging center is indomie, imagine indomie without egg for the 3of them every night.

Acidosis:


LOL. No challenge. I'm not married ehn, that's the important fact right now.

fairfora:
Faith without work, is useless my brother. If you get married without anything to fall back on, you're on your own. Same pastor would tell you to keep trusting when you meet him for counselling or money to feed your family. Rather, pray to God to provide you a job and other things would fall in line.

After graduating and serving my fatherland and my gf was always pressuring me that we should get married when I didn't have a job, my pastor said marriage wasn't what I needed at this stage but job. Unfortunately, she couldn't wait as all her friends were busy getting married and she too felt like copying them. I stood my ground because if push comes to shove, na me go suffer am. She went and married another guy whom she met in less than 6 months and they settled down . The guy too no get job.

Almost a year later, I got a job with one of the blue chip companies, found a woman I could marry and 2 years later I got married. This lady who refused to wait didn't have an issue until 4 years after marriage. Now, she always calls for help which I didn't turn down.

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.