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Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by tegafej(m): 10:56am On Nov 10, 2019 |
peepydelano: Ogbeni chill out. People make mistakes. He has accepted it and wants to right his wrong. Which one be make e give you her number? Means you wanna cheat too ni |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by isHArOn(f): 10:57am On Nov 10, 2019 |
That is what we do everyday and what about it, is that a big deal. make una leave person alone to enjoy life |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by efeski(m): 10:58am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT: I fell to some cheap plays, and she cornered me. I'm seriously regretting my actions.... Yen yen yen Dude stfu & be a man She seduced you my black behind You sound laughable It's your version we're hearing Heaven knows it may have been the other way round but alas we can't hear her side of the story. I suggest you make a conscious effort not to cheat on her again but don't tell you girl. For all we know her friend may claim you raped her when confronted with the truthamd your poor babe would feel betrayed ultimately. For all the prayer and good boy image you're painting you forgot the Potiphar wife story when u needed it most. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by VULCAN(m): 10:58am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Some of the girls here telling you to confess have never confessed themselves. We all know that 95% of babes above 26 have cheated at least once. The cheaters are amongst those condemning you like Judge Dredd 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by GOOOGLE504(m): 10:58am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Kevsmart88: @OP Gooogle apologizes for stepping in late. Anyways ignore all other comments and focus only on this one. Sit her down tell, treat r well n make r happy then remorsefully let d cat outta d bag. She will get angry for a while, you just consistently show remorse and she will be back. You will also b free from guilt and blackmail. BTW NEXT TIME B4 EATING WHAT D ELDERS EAT, YOU SHOULD FIRST V D BALLS AND SHOULDERS FOR RESPONSIBILITY The first to report wins d case o, If u kip it to urself, d friend will on ur wedding stand up and break d marriage. You better be d first to tell. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by enemachris(m): 10:59am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT:Don't try it bro, be a man and man up. What has happen has happened, telling her will cause more harm than good. The main thing here is that, you have acknowledged the fact that you made a mistake. Treat her well since you that she's a good woman and don't allow this repeat itself. Try as much as possible to keep that her friend at arms length. My lil advise sir. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Sunnymatey(m): 11:00am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Guy, forget it. Your babe knows every bit of what happened. Either she's fed up with the relationship or wanted to be sure you' ve turn around from your old ways. 4 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by cococandy(f): 11:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Plot twist. What if she’s cheating on you too 5 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Nobody: 11:02am On Nov 10, 2019 |
delerx:Yes he did. He even gave her goodbye kpenshing before she left, in fact I'm sure they visited different joints together and enjoyed themselves. His fiancee is even very daft. Na her type friends dey snatch their husband from under their noses. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by isHArOn(f): 11:02am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Sunnymatey:meaning |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Oreofepeters: 11:02am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Don't tell the truth otherwise you'll loose her. Women forgive but they never forget. Only tell her if you're asked to |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by ogbuefi677(m): 11:02am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:not a big deal. Have slept on the same bed on and off for months with a female colleague who actually is the girlfriend abi ex to my bestfriend(bobo was already married when all this was happening and I was still single) and nothing happened. It helped sha that she never made any move towards me cos I doubt if I could've resisted. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Tvegas(m): 11:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT: I have another angle to your story. What if this your holy and never do wrong girl also cheats on you and her friends are aware? That may give her friend the confidence to also cheat with you. Secondly i am surprised that a girl will ask her friend to chill in a 1 bedroom flat with a fine dude as you claim to be. Its either that girl of yours is naive or you are not telling the truth. Maybe you were the one that invited the girl over. My advice to you: If you are this disturbed quit that relationship and let your girlfriend find another mate. This episode may haunt your marriage in the future if she is the type that cant let go. Most girls can tolerate cheating but you are on a suicide mission when you sleep with their friend or family. A matured boy should know that but you were apparently thinking with your dick. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Awoleesu(m): 11:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
May the Lord have mercy! You must have taken too many things for granted son! I do not mean to condemn you... Anyway, the deed has been done. Now, what's the way out? 1. I strongly advise you genuinely repent! Your true penitence is what will eventually heal you. 2. Upon repentance, you have need to set yourself free! Don't cover your sins. Tell your fianceé, if she's the true type you defined in your post, I'm positive she'll forgive you! Trust me, that's the surest way of not losing her sorely. 3. And if she doesn't forgive you, please take it as the price for your weakness. Let her go... At least, you may have learnt 1 or 2 lessons. That's enough prize on its own. 4. Learn never to underrate the toxic power of sexual urge! Wetin you no wan chop, no try smell am... Good luck son! It's part of the experiences that build us up as men. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by sonature1: 11:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT: I'm sorry but you are very daft. If you must cheat, why her friend? Mtchewwww |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by fowlyansh181(m): 11:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Leave it unsaid.. don’t go telling her, and stylishly cut ties with her friend .. tell your girl later in the future, like let’s say 4 to 5 months from now and be a man then, she won’t leave.. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by sparta(f): 11:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Chai, Nairalanders are harsh and unforgiving. The dude is obviously dying of guilt which means he has a conscience and no one can sense his remorse. Just hang him if you've never made a mistake in your life. Mr. Please don't let anyone down play your remorse instead work with it. Ask God for forgiveness and have a heart to heart talk with her. Plead with her with all sincerity of heart. Both of you were careless for putting petrol and fire together and not expect an inferno. That said it has happened, you can both use this as a stepping stone to build a stronger relationship and you can allow it destroy what you built. Note: Please expect some form of outburst from her. It will hurt her to a great extent. Give her time to process it and heal and whatever decision she takes, please respect it. May God help both of you at this time. Never forget..sin stings. 2 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Femeto: 11:05am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT:Fake. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Mywd: 11:05am On Nov 10, 2019 |
But guy when you are confessing face to face male sure harmful objects are not close o... She can lose control and grab whatever dangerous object she sees on hearing your confessions... Wish u the best bro.. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by mrphysics(m): 11:05am On Nov 10, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Why are you ranting like you were the one he fvcked? |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Nobody: 11:06am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:It is called TRUST. She trusted both of them and that isn't a weakness. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by isHArOn(f): 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
cococandy:is not a big deal that is what we do |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Nobody: 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
tegafej:lol,just joking with the last statement na,The guy will still cheat with that his fiancée best friend again and again,it has just began I can bet with anything 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by lonelydora: 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT: Rule 1: Except you are caught red-handed, Don't confess, no matter what Rule 2: Don't forget Rule 1 |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Kingsteve(m): 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
If you don't want to stand any chance of losing your gf, do not tell her...yet! I repeat... DO NOT TELL HER YET! Even if you have to tell her (although you're not obliged to) do it when you guys are married. If you doubt me...go ahead and tell her, and watch your relationship hit rock-bottom. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Sunnymatey(m): 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Isharon:He messed up big time. He's the type that sleep with sister in- law when madam is not around. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by bynomzy(f): 11:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
My friend with my boyfriend... Lol Tell her and expect anything, but don't let her find out herself. Sending her friend to you was one hell of a big mistake except something else is in play. Doh, you allowed your dude control you. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by isHArOn(f): 11:08am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Sunnymatey:if you think so |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by denero1(m): 11:08am On Nov 10, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:You must be a very angry being, cut the guy some slack. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by johnnobles: 11:08am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Guy I like your person. OK the guilt will remain as long as you keep it to yourself since as I can see you are a conscientious person. I will advise you go out of your way to shower her with gifts first, then tell her you have offended her and that you need her to forgive you, since you love her you can actually kneel down and burst the bubble, if you be actor you fit even form cry. Ah ah... She no get stone heart now... But pls try to have self control going forward. Peace bro |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Ajixegun: 11:09am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Guy wasn't that you fell for her seduction, you actually wanted to chop you girlfriend's friend pineapple. But if you wanted to tell your babe about it, 'teller' discretion is advised. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Princedapace(m): 11:09am On Nov 10, 2019 |
kowema:\ It is easier to for a woman to seduce a man sexually, and it is easier for a man to seduce a woman with money. These are two natural facts u cant change. Yes, the difference among humans remains their limit. While some men easily fall for sexual seduction from women after a single trial by the lady, some men take longer time. Same applies to ladies: while some ladies dont easily fall for money, others easily do. The difference lies on individual limits. Women know their power lies in their sexual seduction and men know that their power lies in their wealth and influence they control.. For instance, it is easier for Davido to get any lady he wants because he has the money and influence. No matter how we run away from the truth, it runs with us. |
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