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Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by callthefred: 3:31pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
There is only one idiot in the whole story and that is you my friend. Let's agree your babe trusted her friend and decided to help. You even claimed to be a randy type in the past. The truth was you enjoyed the toto to even have it more than once. Just few days my babe asked me to wait in her room while she was on her way with her roommate. I declined and waited outside for 2 hours standing instead...you know why? The Bible says; flee from sin...never believe you can handle...God was clear enough; Flee...please carry you nonsense away. I advice you not to go acting like a Saint and confess o...That's bullshit. You'll love her... It's that simple. The good thing is you're sober and confess to your God. Shikena!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Ishilove: 3:34pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
kowema:Dont mind him. Very Eleribu somborri |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 3:35pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter: Wow, you are so intelligent. If you dnt mind us been friends. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by GuestLog: 3:36pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Guy man, forget that thing! You only feel bad because you don't know if her friend will blackmail you tomorrow and you feel unsafe. If the friend was some other random girl, you'd still be shacking that ponmo! Abeg leave matter jare! 4 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by KingEd: 3:40pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
God, pls help those of us that abi who are ready to stay faithful to our Ladies, no matter what. Oga, u have to tell her. U might lose her buh u have to tell her. 2 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by flamingREED(m): 3:42pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
AdeeT: Write a letter of the deepest regret. Tell her you're walking away in shame, that you're not worthy of her. Tell her the steps you're taking to release her to a more deserving hypothetical man. This is the only way to lose her with the minimum guilt. Make no excuses. She may think it hard and later grant you a second chance. She never may. But to keep it a secret is not a thing you can live with unless you become a reprobate. 3 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Tellemall: 3:42pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
borngeologist:Lol. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Damoche10: 3:42pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
See no evil, hear no evil ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Brightgem(f): 3:52pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
frozen70g:and you believe with all your heart, you have said the right thing? Especially those last lines, you'll just tell someone to leave their friends because they married you and they must obey, friends they might have even known before they met you? Why sounding like every thing is predictable. Friend might be plotting something, breaking trust two times by keeping quiet, when it backfires eh! 3 Likes |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Nwakannaya1: 3:53pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
I have read so many comments, but this is my ½cent. The same set of people that blame a man for raising his hand on a woman and not blaming the woman for creating such a situation or for not running away are still the same set of people that will blame a man for falling into seduction and as well not blame the woman for seducing the man. I have always maintained that it is a woman's world. There is nothing actually wrong with accommodating your fiancée's friend even if it is a self contained room, a bedroom flat is even big enough to contain both of you, those of you saying it was a bad idea for his fiancée to allow her friend come over are basically rotten-minded. It was not a bad idea OP but sometimes things happen unexpectedly like this one, you have to accept it and move on. The obvious thing here is that OP feels bad for sleeping with his fiancée's friend, if it was any other random girl, I know he wouldn't feel this bad, and I know OP is afraid that his fiancée would find out sooner or later. The point is this, try to talk to her not because you cheated but because you cheated with her close friend. There is also a chance that u were set up, this particular one is very dangerous, it could as well be that her friend wants to deal with her, the mind of a woman is a deep ocean. You can tell her this below... "I have been wanting to tell you something but I don't want the thing to affect your relationship with the person in question, if this be the only wish you can ever grant me, then let the person never know about this and let it not bring a rift between you two. (If she agrees to this condition, then go ahead, if not, abort it, I maintain, abort it, it is not like she must abide by this, but it is a card that you have on her) I messed up with (her name) but it was in no way her fault, I cant ask you to forgive me because I know it would be hard but at least do not have anything against her, I am to be blamed because I lost my control" (Never go into details, it is more than enough to tell her you slept with her, telling her events leading to the stuff will only exasperate her more, please avoid it, at least for now) OP tell her this, don't be afraid of losing her, you won't lose her, but if you later do because of this, at least you will have a clear mind and you will know that she was most likely looking for a means to go, don't forget, for some girls, they will be using this against for the rest of the relationship but let it not bother you, there is nothing like peace of mind. On the other hand, if you are someone like me, if we are not married, I owe the person no fidelity, I would act like nothing happened and any day she pops up the question, I will answer yes and act like it was no big deal and of course it isn't. Someone who would stay would always find reasons to stay, and the person who would go would always find reasons to go. Lastly, OP, you are not arrogant! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by mechanics(m): 3:53pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Just tell her before her friend will tell o, if not she will say you are hiding things from her and the trust won't be there. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Lexusgs430: 3:56pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Chriswazo: Oga, no be beta advice........ ![]() |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Brightgem(f): 3:57pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Donjazzy12:So ur cousin is now the standard for the world. That's some grave accusations against these names you've mentioned. Wetin Obi no go see for wharf! Your opinion is such a ridiculous brain twister. |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by MajesticD(m): 4:04pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
donbachi: Is there a different meaning to "arrogant" that I don't know of? |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by cho25bc(f): 4:06pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
True. It was a test dis dude failed woefully. midnighter: 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Legendguru: 4:08pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Oh why |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by midnighter(f): 4:09pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Hmm! And after all that wahala she still went ahead and rode him like a bike (If we believe the story as OP has told it) It is well oh |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by ChinagoChiBoy: 4:19pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
I can't just resist the urge to accuse, abuse and blame you, Lemme apply restraint! Buh Guy no matter how anybody would wants to see it THE confession thing is the only sure way to free your already entangled soul, and to make the girl trust a again tell her urself one on one bcoz it's only a truely repentant soul that confesses his wrong doings. But don't be a coward by telling her it's her friend that seduced you ooo, Just man up and take the blame for not controlling your urge. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by mirexxx(f): 4:20pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Cutehector:how have u been? |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
torqque7: Please Marry her. Send me an invitation and I'll sponsor with something substantial. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Cutehector(m): 4:22pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
mirexxx:i've been doing well, how about you? Where do you base now |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by baby124: 4:25pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
You are only sorry because you gave your cheating secret out to someone that knows your fiancée. Just 2days after the friends visit you already cheated. That shows that you are doing a lot of cheating behind her back in Abuja. This particular one hook you for throat because, you know that it can easily come out. You can also be easily blackmailed by this other woman at any point during preparations for the wedding or during the marriage. Anyway, goodluck to you! I hope she understands. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by midnighter(f): 4:29pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
seuncyrus: Well, the world isn't as nice as all that. She has to open her eyes because not everybody is as lovely as she is 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Chinny024(f): 4:32pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Tell her before she finds out which would be more disastrous...Make sure you have made her happy in all ramifications that same day.Provide whatever she likes..Then knee down and confess.....Go for a thorough medical check up also whether you did it with or without protection before the confession... Proceed with the marriage rites immediately... She should distance herself with 1000km spoon from that LUCIFER friend...She can kill..Is as bad as that... 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by midnighter(f): 4:42pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Lionpikin: Lol you were being realistic while OP was trying to be a nice guy but ended up burning himself 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Shugargal(f): 4:47pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Sanchezmillz:Plz his gal friend doesn't need to be spanked, what she's done is what I can actually do but the problem,personal me I just have and believe that guys must always make a move so to avoid it I left my 1bedroom flat for him,because I love my bestie and wouldn't want anything to hurt her.the gal friend did that base on trust,i just wanna believe that. 1 Like |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Donjazzy12(m): 4:54pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Brightgem:Be quiet! You know it is the truth! Lesbians a very where! |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by Donjazzy12(m): 4:56pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Chinny024:Op do no such thing! She doesn't need to know! Most girls are lesbians and yet they hide it from their boyfriends. Be smart like women. Smoke at her but never ever make the mistake of telling her. Nobody is as dubious as women. Learn to be smart! |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by canalily(m): 4:56pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:point!!!..aki.u.are.right |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by hardon1(m): 5:02pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
no remorse or regret here, the poster did this post just to let people think of him as a sharp guy. given the chance with another girl, he would do it over and over again |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by srclark: 5:14pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
op somethings are better left unsaid .when it comes to sex trust nobody the earlier you accept this bitter truth the better for you .Even your fiancée if they play her cassette for you you go tire |
Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by ibawon(m): 5:15pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
@AdeeT The question you should ask your self is that will you still have sex with her when you are in that same situation then your conscience will tell you the truth and set you free |
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