emmysolo2001:
speaking on facial beauty what if she is ugly and has the other qualities

Unless we started as acquaintances either from work or worship place or a mutual friend to a friend, there is no way I can know if she has good qualities as nothing will make me get close to her, I mean, she is ugly, I am not saying that ugly people aint human, they are. But na the facial or outward beauty go make me attracted, then when I get closer, I will now know of other qualities as they are not written on her forehead.

Like, nothing is gonna make me walk up to an ugly girl at first sight. I mean, who does that?

Pettyprincess:

Lol, some things are better left unsaid
Moreover why do Nigerian guys sound pained about girls demanding money? So you will be dating a girl nd wnt be ashamed of yourself not even spending a dime on her? If you dnt do that another guy will gladly do it!! Even rich girls love guys spoiling them with money nd gifts!!!

there are girls who give money to guys. go for what suit you

chigoizie7:


Unless we started as acquaintances either from work or worship place or a mutual friend to a friend, there is no way I can know if she has good qualities as nothing will make me get close to her, I mean, she is ugly, I am not saying that ugly people aint human, they are. But na the facial or outward beauty go make me attracted, then when I get closer, I will now know of other qualities as they are not written on her forehead.

Like, nothing is gonna make me walk up to an ugly girl at first sight. I mean, who does that?

nobody I guess would see an ugly girl and have fantasies.but what if you coincidentally meet a girl who is facially not attractive let's say you've met her two or three times but there has been no form of communication and one day you saw a girl facing you backwards and this girl was helping your mom or aunt or someone you really care about after a minor accident they probably had AND when she turned around you saw the ugly girl you've met before but never spoken to what will u do?

intelligence is priority.... can't keep up with a dull girl or slay queen beauty simplicity God fearing

emmysolo2001:
nobody I guess would see an ugly girl and have fantasies.but what if you coincidentally meet a girl who is facially not attractive let's say you've met her two or three times but there has been no form of communication and one day you saw a girl facing you backwards and this girl was helping your mom or aunt or someone you really care about after a minor accident they probably had AND when she turned around you saw the ugly girl you've met before but never spoken to what will u do?

Well, the fact that I have seen her with someone close to me. Changes everything, she has become an acquaintance. I have been seeing her, but had never interacted with until I got acquainted with her by virtue of helping my aunt or something like that as you said, that platform has only become a means to try to know her. So it is still the same me knowing her either from church, school, work or through a friend, the only difference now is that I got to know her through a family member.

I hope you understand.


My take is, I cannot see an ugly girl and start approaching her, for what nah?

chigoizie7:



Well, the fact that I have seen her with someone close to me. Changes everything, she has become an acquaintance. I have been seeing her, but had never interacted with until I got acquainted with her by virtue of helping my aunt or something like that as you said, that platform has only become a means to try to know her. So it is still the same me knowing her either from church, school, work or through a friend, the only difference now is that I got to know her through a family member.

I hope you understand.


My take is, I cannot see an ugly girl and start approaching her, for what nah?

i have not only understand I have understood

Pettyprincess:
I just dnt understand how you will be in relationship with a girl nd expect her not to ask you for money, some guys will say "his he her father?" Bt actually this life is not hard as y'all make it seem, if you dnt wanna spend on any girl then its better you remain single!!! Because a far as i know girls will always demand money in relationship,take it or leave it!!!

Yes, he is not her father.

Women view relationships as a business deal.
Which is not supposed to be.


Naturally, 80% of the money a guy makes is for the woman. But not just any woman. But the right woman for him. I mean naija guys.


A sensible woman should never be asking a guy for money for whatever reason. Unless she is a parasite.

You should always attract what you are, whatever you expect from any relationship, make sure you are also giving out that same thing. Relationship needs 100% efforts from both sides. If you do not have love to give , do not expect love in return.

If you do not have pussi to give, do not expect a di ck in return.

If you do not have peace of mind to give, do not expect peace of mind in return.


If you do not have money to also give, do not expect money in return.



However, if your partner or the opposite sex gives you any of these when you can’t offer such, accept it but only see it as a privilege and not your right.