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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Exponental(m): 11:35am On Nov 14, 2019 |
If you think you can manage it but, but, but.... My brother, it is not easy. The devil you know MAY NOT be better than the saint you don't know. Reason..... dEVIL will always be EVIL except he changes to a saint. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by NamelessOGBENI(m): 11:35am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Raddie:In the wisdom of Centino. Tell them to blow weed and see life from a different perspective |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by userplainly(m): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: My brother ignore all these people telling u to leave her.. u feel that way cos u knew her before yet still loved her.. many girls u don’t know have done worst! Runs girls get marrieg faster than decent girls these days hope u know .. n they make excellent wives... the celebrities ur guys in nairaland lust about have all done worst compare to ur girl... Bro whe. U meet the right one u forget all her past! They r her past! Just give her boundaries about how she relate with guys now .. Marry her n u won’t regret it |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Skyfornia: How far Chioma ex wey Davido dey die for? Dutchess Merkel's Former husband wey Prince don marry? Do you think their exes see those men as inferior? 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by dharamanil(m): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2019 |
The painful thing about this situation is, these sets of people if only then can change, they will make allotta sense One thing I came to understand about women is if she has made up her mind to stick with you she will make sure she cuts of her past but beware, she is gonna have one ex. It's even further worst if u feel any form pressure as regards to generally leveling up because if u feel this pressure ones u shake boom!!!!! She slides. My brother I fear for you but my hopes are high. Before u put up this topic here u must have been thinking and I swear I know the feelings. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by ernecy(m): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Skyfornia:kiss the truth op. Think with your head, not your heart. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by ofiko123(m): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: very true we all can't be reserved.. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Seventy7kings: 11:37am On Nov 14, 2019 |
izzou:you made it short but it real makes a lot sense. I recomend your advice for the OP. You deserve a chilled bottle of origin Thumb up |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 11:38am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Then y are looking 4 advice when u have already made up ur mind? When u are ready to take necessary action, nobody will tell u. Right now, ur eye never clear |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by enemachris(m): 11:38am On Nov 14, 2019 |
The problem with our generation os that, we still look for answers when our instinct has already given us an answer to our problems. Its a folly unto man to ask for that which he can achieve for himself. If you can't do this, don't come begging for us to advise you on how to go for your divorce. 3 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by anonimi: 11:38am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Do you like to remain disturbed all your married life, assuming you go ahead to marry her? How will you react if one of those guys taunt you about fcvking her? Are you mature enough to handle such, especially if inspired by alcohol? 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 11:39am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Can you send me your fiancee's telephone no. I want to share some private advice with her |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nackzy: 11:39am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Can i have her Number please cos she needs Counselling |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by emerged01(m): 11:39am On Nov 14, 2019 |
If your spirit don’t approval her,then you have to search for another lady. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:you spoke my mind, the guy is really suffering from low self esteem . |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Hadassah4chi(f): 11:41am On Nov 14, 2019 |
You said she's soft on guys meaning she doesn't know how to say no. You know married women still get toasters from landlords, neighbours, colleagues etc. You can go ahead and marry her just cultivate a forgiving heart and you're good to go. Meanwhile contact me for your customised handmade greeting cards for all occasions especially this yuletide season . Whatsapp 08163975264 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by iwaeda: 11:41am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: You have your own decision to make, but in your judgment remember she told you about her past. Her honesty should be a guide, I know and hear of married women who were virgins before they married, but sleeps around. Help her to overcome her past, pray, but if you still don't have peace let her be. After all Rahab was an oloso, but part of Jesus linage. If you love her to overlook her error, marry her; forget about respect of men! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by sonature1: 11:41am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Uncle, leave that girl. People must be made to understand that their actions have consequences. I can imagine her making a mockery of girls who are working hard to be decent, saying that pretenders do the worst. Now, the chicken has come to roost. However, if you must continue with her, you should change your circle of friends and relocate. If she's truly worth all the headache, please do it. If not, walk away. But, if you don't make either of the moves, you will live with pangs of regret for the rest of your life. It's your call 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by cherriex(f): 11:41am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: If you truly love her,have a talk with her especially on the issue of faithfulness and your stand on infedility, for the circle thing ennnh,no one can make you feel inferior without your consent and no one can disrespect you if you dont let them,especially when they know your stands concerning your family,its unfortunate she was naive,alot of ladies have been used because love naivity(most will never tell you)esp the soft,good hearted ones looking for love,am sure she has learnt her lesson. If you love her,if you understand her,if she makes you happy nd vice versa,if you are compatible, marry her. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Seventy7kings: 11:42am On Nov 14, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe, I could see that you were viewing this topic. Where the fvck have you been all this while for fvck's sake 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by iwaeda: 11:42am On Nov 14, 2019 |
dharamanil: Very true! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by sparko1(m): 11:42am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Wow! don't take it personal, he might not have thought about getting married to her when the relationship started, now that the thought crossed his mind, he has to check everything and clear his thought, besides, who knows if she really wants to marry him, she might just say no and move on herself. 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by bigpicture001: 11:44am On Nov 14, 2019 |
J bukatyne: Jeeeez!.....been ages av seen, heard a lady speak so candid nd straight without emotions.... Honestly am moved...I want to know u plz 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 11:45am On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal: The most retardèd law on the face of the earth. Nigerian exes that act like enemies are th same ones that have sex with each other. Enough to form one dumb law. Only two people who haven't truly moved on would do that shii. Naija guys think too highly of themselves and their sexual skills... but na them swallow tramadol and monkey tail pass 3 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 11:45am On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:from his narrative, she gives anyone who whistles at her a chance, so, this was never an option for her @OP, if you are not at peace with marrying her, abeg leave her to find someone that is not within a circle she has been passdd around. Forget all this childish talk about who has changed, you can never tell if someone has truly changed or not, until they are faced with the same situation that constantly led them to falter. Marriage is not a joke, it is not a chamber of torture that you should subject yourself to. The day you travel and she tells you one of your friends came to check on her, how will you feel? Where will your mind go? Trust is more important than love in any union. Don't deceive yourself. You don't know if you will still find someone better after, but by that time, you will be stuck in a marriage with a woman that you can't trust 5 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Akhazeme: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Dear Sir, I think I was in a similar situation when I wanted to marry my wife but mine is that she has dated my friend before and was even the person that deflowered her. Try to talk to her about it and let her know you ain't comfortable with the whole thing and let her give you her word of total change. If you love her please you guys should talk and make it work... |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Broken courtship better pass broken marriage o. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Marry her. Just check her reproductive health. Then marry her that's all. Love conquers all. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 11:47am On Nov 14, 2019 |
sonature1:people should not be punished for their past mistakes. She's obviously someone who was desperate for love, hence, her involvement with so many deceitful men that only wanted to hit and run. You can question her judgment, but she shouldn't be punished for falling for idiots. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by daddio(m): 11:47am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: I don't think detaching yourself from the circle will do much brother, their respect will somehow do few if not much. (though IPAKO KO GBO SUTI, ORI ELEGAN LO YI and IMI TINTINNI LETI AWO GBEGIRI, B'OJU BA KURO NI IBE, OKAN NKO?) I WOULD RATHER SAY YOU LOOK AND EVEN CROSS CHECK BEFORE YOU LEAP, ANY MISTAKE IN MARRIAGE IS A FOREVER THING. LET'S ASSUME AFTER FEW YEARS OF MARRIAGE, YOU MEET HER CHATTING OR EVEN LAUGHING WITH ONE OF THOSE WHO'D TASTED HER PUDDINGS? YOU WILL GRADUALLY START DOUBTING HER AND STARTED HAVING BAD THOUGHTS. JUST DON'T DO STUPID OR SILLY THING IN TNE NAME OF LOVE. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by HitSong: 11:47am On Nov 14, 2019 |
[s] Pafoma:[/s] RULE ! Most ladies are wh0res but NEVER marry a KNOWN wh0re 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Beezy94(m): 11:48am On Nov 14, 2019 |
My only questions is that, are you sure if this feelings u are having towards her can stay in a life time and is that same feeling being reciprocated by her on the same degree? If yes then i think u should try and help her develop a stronger personality before y'all dive into the ocean of marriage that means u should court each other a little more so u guyz could appreciate each other flaws and strength. Buh if the answer is vice versa i think y'all should just stay as friends. Because marriage comes with a boat load of trials, temptations and trouble. 1 Like |
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