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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by hresso: 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Get a gun, put it on her motherfucking head and blast it off Thank me later! 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Op my own piece. I won't tell you not to take or reject whatever advice people give you here. But I will only say mine. Love is beyond sex. Once you see sex as just a tool to have fun and bring new children into the world your life will get better. A lot of people are saying leave her. Let me ask you what do you think that happens to porn actors? They have boyfriend's most of them are married. Their husbands or boyfriend may have seen a lot of her videos, does that mean he will now leave her. Mind you their videos are all over the world yours is even a secret only you and few people know so?Love is love sex is sex. Look at Kim Kardashian a popular celebrity who her sex videos leaked and a lot of us downloaded. But she is married and living happy. Where is the video now? It all depends if your girlfriend will change and be faithful to you. If you see she is changing hold on to her. Love her ask her things about sex. If she loves sex a lot make sure to try out new things with her to make her always want to sleep with you. Try anal sex. Get her checked for any disease, eat her pussy if she is clean. Buy sex stuffs. Make her stay. And forget all this leave her it's not easy to start afresh besides you don't even know if the new person will be faithful too. People marry prostitutes. I hope I have helped. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Brightgem(f): 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
bukatyne:Everything that's been said and would be said. This covers it neatly, logically and sensically. Aluf all you have said. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by tunjilana: 12:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Some women are to be wifed while some are to be left as booty calls....when a man does not know when to draw the line, it is a problem....go and start dating another lady....gradually de prioritize her in your mind...keep searching...till you find a woman that gives you peace and whose history isnt so bad and not within your circle....build trust with that one and let go of this one cos even if she becomes an angel...your mind will still run riots on things she's done...When a woman respect and loves u...she cant be "soft" with guys...convert her to a booty call and always use protection.... 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by sliqboy: 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Aunty what happened na, Take it easy, Na you dem wan dump? Fountainofyouth: 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lilmax(m): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Vyolet:@op Discard this comment, its very useless 5 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Fashdeejay(m): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I would say this to you, it's not what you want to read, but the reason she is soft with guys is because ur girl has got low self esteem, so she feels she has to give it up free, don't be surprised if she is still giving it up because certain people take advantage of her weakness.... You need to help her... Stop seeing her as just ur girlfriend or fiancée, see her as ur friend, sit her down and talk to her, make her understand what u are both doing, how it benefits her to be firm and more decisive in her actions.... Ask her, she may have been raped as when she was younger... Be gentle with her but be firm.... She needs you to be her strength |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by NaijaOlosho(f): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: How can he date a girl without knowing anything about her?? I clearly see a case of may be guys who already bleeped the girl told him how cheap the girl is and he tried and he succeeded and later fell in deep love with her The pussy sweet ham and he can't leave her This is the real case with op |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl: If he didn't know, it will be easier. I honestly wouldn't want to know all the women my man has fcked or have them within my circle. The main problem is her inability to be hard on guys. People should forget telenovas and what guys say o. They will always complain of snobbish girls, but let their gfs be the opposite and you see them creating thread like OP: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: Have u had interactions with all d men from other countries in d world? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lilmax(m): 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Enemyofpeace: 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
queenitee:Just leave her alone, I no trust you |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:Most intelligent woman on nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by prosnadis(m): 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
If she have really changed,marry her....those people that ur looking are irrelevant....everybody has a past....just go to God in prayers for clearing directions.....her mistakes might turn to her strong points....am married for 8 yrs now and some tell u not to on this platform are still singles. Pafoma: |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 12:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal: People wey no well . Anyone they manage fck, they will be acting like it is a trophy. Sex matter is always so serious to them. That is why most of these laws is always from them and for them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 12:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal: Up till now, has ur question not been answered? Have u had interactions with all d men from other countries in d world? 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Munzy14(m): 12:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:Community fiancee /wife to be..... You better reverse before it's too late. Their is a deep end between a lady and a guy who have had sex in the past. This connection can be rekindled if they are in a certain enclosure. We don't want to hear your wife bleeped your friend in your absence. #my one kobo..... 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by AlexB300: 12:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Wife d B if she ain’t a hoe. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Emaprince: 12:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:LIES!!! No man would want to do that. Except those that's don't value their peace of mind 6 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 12:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fashdeejay: don't be surprised if she is still giving it up because certain people take advantage of her weakness.... You need to help her... Stop seeing her as just ur girlfriend or fiancée, see her as ur friend, sit her down and talk to her, make her understand what u are both doing, how it benefits her to be firm and more decisive in her actions. only a psychologist can help her,it is not OP job,and you think normal talk will fix this?..she needs serious therapy!!..there are professionals for that |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 12:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas:the insecurities that come with such knowledge alone is massive, for any gender. Girls can't even stand their man having platonic female friends, imagine you know a girl he dated and you see her on occasion, the torture! 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 12:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
lexy2014:Yes I have, so do you think they know what okafors law is? Or is there any name to it other than the former? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Shaprara: 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Don’t police her, don’t add extra tension or pressure on her or on yourself. Let her live her life and you’ll see through her and her actions if she’s committed and if she truly want to stay. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Forumobserver12(m): 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
My friend, never you make a mistake of marrying such a woman believing you can change her else be prepare to live the rest of your life in fear and regret. The truth is that you can never trust a woman who does not know how to say NO due to fear of offending others, the woman you want to marry is a very weak woman, she may pretend to be a changed person but the truth is that she will still go back to her old lifestyle. Also know that some of those your friends may still come back for Hot pot after getting married to her and she can't even say no. 3 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by GhostWisperer: 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:listen and listen good. Apart from her body count, I have observed that you're the sensitive type who needs his woman to be firm when dealing with guys. You need to let her go unless you want to die premature. Because you will keep worrying all your life. From experience, a lady with many past sexual relationship with different guys will always be loose around male friends. Not necessarily sleeping with them but has no healthy boundaries with them and it will always upset you, making you worry if they are just friends or doing it secretly. 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas:sex matter is serious matter |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by sparko1(m): 12:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
NaijaOlosho: I do get your point but this bolded is not the reason for his concern, yeah! its established every lady that is not a virgin has lots of body counts, but the fact that those body counts are people he knows, that is the problem, leaving where he lives is not even a solution, its not like he can keep moving around every time he comes in contact with any of those that slept with his already married wife, besides, if she wants to sleep with any of them, she will just travel to meet them and enjoy herself. The major concern is seeing one of you friends and you can't say for certain if she hasn't slept with him, or planning to, you can't even trust her around your friends anymore, and if by any chance you discover she's sleeping around after marriage you will blame yourself forever. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by omomummy13: 12:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: For wasting my time and mb, ori e ope. 1 Like
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by jieta: 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:Lol,that was how my Ex boyfriend always feel uncomfortable when ever he sees me always staring at me. Trust Me it will never get of your mind when you see those guys your mind will always skip. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 12:13pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:you are making sense!!!..everyone has a past,we know,but no one wants to know the people you have slept with...how many or what styles...? it is not good for the heart..I fear for the OP,if he married the lady,na HBP sure pass |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 12:14pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Hhmmmm, If this case is real, then it is deep. I have seen some couple of answers to your questions as intriguing honest. So, take heed of it. If I am in ur shoe, I wont continue with the relationship because many things would be involved: feelings, psychology and others. The truth is, you know what you want, go for it. So as long as it makes you happy. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 12:14pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
So crackhouse, u agree that men are insecure? Na u talk am with your mouth o The moment of truth Told u I will catch u one day 1 Like |
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