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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 12:42pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
lexy2014: Uhm, I am really hungry here so basically I would say that, what you are saying is what I’m saying....there is no such thing as okafors law. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 12:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
GhostWisperer:Sorry, how may I help you nikka |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by RexTramadol1: 12:45pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
You never ready |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by tunjilee003: 12:46pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by jaxxy(m): 12:47pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Tell me what exactly u like I’m this gal that makes u want to keep up with her despite her bad and reckless behavior? Pls note this while Ure tryin to be optimistic a leopard doesn’t change its spots and if it must change it must be for its own will not just because of u. Why do u like this gal pls? Tell me because it’s obvious sense isn’t one of her qualities so why? My advice, don’t! Never! Take that gal seriously. It’s enough embarrassment she’s slept with ur frnds and Ure still dating her. Don’t even think of marrying her. U will be sorry. And let me remind u dat even a prostitute is also trying to stop her prostitution bt yet she will sleep with the next customer for money so trying is not enough for certain habits and behavior. I’m still waiting for what u like about her. Tell me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Angelfrost(m): 12:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus: Leave that nigga... He doesn't value his mental health. Someone needs to explain clearly to him that "You don't eat where you sh*t, and vice versa"!!! 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 12:50pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal: We aren't saying d same thing cos I didn't say anything. U are d one saying stuff. I only asked questions based on what u said. So far, it seems u don't even no what u are saying |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by sowilli: 12:50pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I have been in your shoes bro... what the eye donesn’t see or the ear heats doesn’t spoil the mind. Now you have seen and you heard... you are having doubts. Who is he without sin? Who is the perfect person? If God can forgive us daily even when we prostitute with other gods, who are we not to forgive. Sex is a very small part in a relationship. Are you dating your girl because of the value you will add to her life and she will add to you or because of her body? When you answer this question you will know if you are able to continue. I have been in relationships where what I wanted was sex, for this reason, I am not sure I could keep with knowing who and who has slept with her. What are you looking for in your relationship? Are you ready to love this woman and help her grow? See tomorrow, you might be the one who will cheat on her and have you bothered to think what her actions will be. The key thing is she is remorseful and has realized her mistakes and who loves her. This is the key thing. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by CashVessel(m): 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
My candid advice is ; when you are not certain Do NOT continue, when it comes to marriage. She/He go change na gist from the pit of hell. Or like some ladies say; 'I will change him'. Pafoma: |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 12:52pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Angelfrost: Give d guy a library of advice& explanation, he still wouldn't take it. Am surprised people are wasting their time "advising" him when its obvious that he doesn't need their advice & explanation. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Iziquiel(m): 12:55pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
My gross with your girlfriend is not because she has had intimacy with seven guys you know but her emotional vulnerability,which I think is where the real problem lies. Some people have been programmed to be emotionally vulnerable and there's nothing we can do to change such people. You could decide to forget about her past(which you are finding very difficult to do), move to another city and live your lives but it still won't change a thing about how her personality. For me, I would prefer to get married to a girl who has fu.ked for money than marrying a girl who's emotionally vulnerable as it easier to cope with the former than the later. I no fit marry woman wey no fit hold her grand wen men start to dey flock around her. Op, if your peace of mind means anything to you, then should break up with her. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by LZAA: 12:58pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
All these simps sef U see keziah u stee dy call am wife Sha no come hia come dy regret later Her fellow slayqueens wee still come hia and tell u ppl change but mke i no whine u Olo.sho can never change 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Iyango: 12:59pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Haba take am easy nahh. Looks like you are pained already. You have made so many assumptions and are cursing the OP already. That is not fair nahhh |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by 8k2nuts: 12:59pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I know a guy who married a girl that 3 other guys have confirmed before. They have 3 kids now and going on strong. Two of the guys who nacked are still nacking girls up and down. She married with kids now. Last last na your hand e dey. If you dont give a Bleep then marry her if you are someone who's easily swayed by public opinion or perception free her. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Emaprince: 1:01pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:You get sense too much |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 1:02pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
lexy2014: Last I checked, this was what you wrote.. What is okafors law? Is it a universal law? Have u had interactions with all d men from other countries in d world? And if I am being reasonable here, in your previous quote, I said it is not because not only have I interacted with people outside, It also doesn’t exist. It’s just a label that people using in justifying their means. So to answer your questions.... no it isn’t? And this quote boldness, sincerely, that is you saying it doesn’t exist or I might be wrong.....still Leave my mentions and do something profitable, thank you |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Donjazzy12(m): 1:02pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:I have few words for you. If you ever go aged with marrying the hoe, you will live in regret for the rest of your lives. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 1:03pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
iwaeda:lolz |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
sowilli:Sex is a very small part in a relationship. This is not true..sex and money are pivotal to any relationship..they Are not small!! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by ise82(m): 1:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
And u still want to marry her? Are u ok? If yes why are u telling us. Nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Pafoma: 1:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Tomiwah: You are totally spot on about my fears! Good instincts and your contribution is well noted. Thank you |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Jola58: 1:14pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Rule 1. Don't do anything just to please anyone, or simply because of their feedback. Rule 2. Be with someone that you know will give you peace of mind. Rule 3. What do you truly want in the lady (i.e infatuation, lust or genuine love) Rule 4. Can you tolerate her weakness. Rule 5. Ask God for guidance 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Fashdeejay(m): 1:17pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:When I say help, u can help build her self confidence, help her see how beautiful she really is in and out... Always be willing to listen even when she has messed up... Build her confidence and watch her bouce out of that LOW self esteem |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Pafoma: 1:19pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
PrecisionFx: No, i did not know. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by lexy2014: 1:19pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal: Don't u d difference between a question and an assertion? U made assertions. I asked u questions based on d assertions u made. How's that saying d same thing? If I don't leave ur mentions what will happen? Are u saying that interacting with u is an unprofitable venture? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mrgreen4real(m): 1:19pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:at Marry her at your own peril and you'll hear those in that circle of yours singing... [Verse 1: 2Pac] » First off, Bleep yo' bitch and the clique you claim » Westside when we ride, come equipped with game » You claim to be a player, but I F***ED YOUR WIFE » 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 1:20pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
lexy2014:K |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by samology2000: 1:20pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Bro plz let her go. It will be very difficult for her to change. What will happen if you travel on official assignment for weeks or months. Don't come and start disturbing us after ur marriage that ur wife is this or that. A word is a enough for the wise. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by babyfaceafrica: 1:20pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Fashdeejay:if that is so,he should help her before marriage,marriage is not for helping people 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Jemc(m): 1:23pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Pafoma: 1:25pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
jaxxy: Her behaviour & ways was before we met and the beginning of our relationship.. we have had discussions and she even confessed to me all the ones i did not know |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by maimalari: 1:27pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Never make a LovePeddler a housewife. In tupac’s voice. Rip in advance |
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