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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Davesaves:Send the Pdf version to her email.. So that she can read it |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by wiloy2k8(m): 3:22pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Brother I dey ur shoe like this |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Legendguru: 3:25pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Really |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 3:26pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ikennaf1:safarigirl is in great mood today.. That is why she is on point 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:33pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
generationz:Same here. The height of this is when two or more of these exes are friends of the groom. Earthquake |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 3:35pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
izzou: I agree everyone has a past, but there are pasts and there are pasts. Soft people are always easier to bend. The kinda soft OP highlighted isn't a good one. I wouldn't marry one like that and I am not even a judgmental person. It is one thing if I don't know, if I do- na FZ straight. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by javispj(m): 3:35pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
If only people known how many men down their beautiful innocent lookin girlfriends n wife's, we will all know why they call men dogs.. Men forget about how many bodies she's bag. If she good for u, she good for u.. Toto no dey spoil,, even when children pass Tru n I don't think any man is that big |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by izzou(m): 3:39pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: Is it easy to FZ him when you've fallen in love? The op is not meeting her for the first time. He already loves her. He's not even bothered with her soft personality. It's her past with his circle that he's concerned Anyways, na him sabi sha |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 3:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
generationz:Don't use actors to draw any conclusions o, whether Hollywood or Nollywood. Most of the things they do is for publicity and staying relevant. If the explanation for it had anything to do with wealth, then millionaires and billionaires outside the movie/music industry would be doing the same thing, but guess what, they don't. 3 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Meti99(m): 3:47pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
You just mentioned she is soft with guys... My brother, that is highway to the grave. Just leave her, you can overcome that feelings of attachment you are talking about. . Moreover, you'll get someone who will love and respect you. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Vic74real: 3:54pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
You are already looking for reasons to keep her.it could mean you love her.i personally don't think you would find a perfect person anywhere.she probably found in u the right fit to change her life.she shd not be continuously judged on her past.we all have our past.true love wld cover all faults.My concern is that you feel uncomfortable abt our past.if this persists,then,you may have to find someone else |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by skedy1(m): 3:54pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Oga... This sun today for Calabar too hot Abeg! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by kinxlyk: 3:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Leave her and look for someone that u don't know her past.... U will have problems 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by pocohantas(f): 3:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
izzou: Lol. I want to always love you, I need you to make it easier for me... Don't complicate it, don't take my peace |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:speak for yourself.Youre all over the place to keep trying to make him settle down with someone overused. He's not comfy. Let him dump her. Not everyone will betray their friends for a woman. When she was hopping from bed to bed, thinking it doesn't matter, she should've considered the rarity of a prostitute finding true love in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:08pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
great664:if it happened before, it's likely to happen again. I don't understand men going after commodities that have passed through many hands, getting seduced, then scared to drop commodity only because they are jealous someone else will pick it up. Not because they truly want it 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by seunfly: 4:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal:Lol my sister I'm not a play boy ooo and I v never done such thing before but the law is in existence, this is what we man see everyday. I can count nothing less than 20 scenerios with my friends and their married and unmarried ex. Certainly not all women but it is so common and rampant that once in a while you wonder if it could happened to u. I know some women came back to them, some went back to the women, some was accident and some tricked the women. The worse that I know was secondary school fling, met on the secondary school whatsapps reunion group and the guy came to Abuja, went to the woman's house and the husband was even in the house when he visited for the first time, now they are seeing each other without the knowledge of the husband. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:14pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Akhazeme:so what happened when you wanted to marry her? Did you still marry her? Have you uncovered anything about them after marriage? How did you cope with knowing your friend had been in her and that she enjoyed it? 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:The irony be say many of these celebs and entertainers are nowhere as promiscuous as we the viewers like to think. All na for show. There's this BBC TV show - Nakêd Attraction, where people all get nakêd and choose a partner based on attraction. Now, ordinarily, you would think that people that can go nakêd on television will definitely fûck that other nakêd person whom they finally choose. Surprise! When the show calls them in after a couple of weeks to find out how things are, the majority never fůcked. Just drinks on that first date and maybe texts. But our third world women will be fůcking up and down like dirty hogs without home training every chance they get, and then expect respect and marriage! Countless girls/women have lost their chances at marriage and will continue to lose because no man wants a whöre for a wife. Then they will come with that nonsense "we all have a past". Well, none of that floosie, some of us don't have that kind of a past. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:16pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:if there's no punishment, there will be no deterrent to crime. And it is a crime to fall for anything with a baritone and splay ones legs for it because she was "desperate for love". What if she has a problem and love is never enough for her? 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:23pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:it's not torture. It's the society we crave. We want sexual freedom for men and women, well, we must live with the consequences or pretend they aren't issues |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:24pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX:the rough ones always want to tell us we all have a past, and that the saints are worse than them. So that what? We will all go after these diamonds in the rough? Their justification is weak |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by poweredcom(m): 4:32pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
7 guys whom you know have passed her around and you de here de say they dated her oga it's a big lie she be runs girl and de banged her and let her go she was never in any relationship with any of them Who knows if they Group Intimacy her self Oga she be ... Pafoma: 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:33pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:if she has changed as much as you claim, then why are you here perspiring about her matter? Deep inside you, you know the truth. It's not your friends you're worried about. It's your mind that came up with these things, because it's what you think of her. You want to be with her because you think you can save her and that she will change for you. You are doing so because you're scared of goodness. Don't marry her simply because you're scared another guy will have her. Don't think you can change her. Don't get angry any day and recall her past if you insist on marrying her. Embrace any guy who has been with her. Don't get suspicious after the wedding bells. Don't complain about her reproductive health. Don't pin anything on her, whatsoever, if you will marry her. If you do, you will remember your reservations and wish you had listened to your mind. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Skyfornia(m): 4:36pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
tonguengineer: Upwork account? I'm lost brother!! |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 4:36pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:He said she dated them. Not had casual sex with them. They may even be friends who don’t know each other like that, but OP knows all of them. Some people are popular and have many friends that they know all the people you have dated sef. By the way, you can talk about trust to people like Prince Charles who was snatching Camila from her husbands bedroom and he will make her queen. That is why Queen Eliza does not want to die because Charles will literally give Camila the keys to the kingdom. Charles probably knows on a first name basis all the men Camila has dated and had casual sex with because they are in the same circle. He also frustrated his virgin wife for her! Also, ask Simon Cowell where his child came from . Not all guys care about all these things you are saying. Some are very methodical and know what they want. Funny that those kind of guys are actually faithful to these women. Like I said, this world being a global village now, you might end up with a guy that knows not less than 5 people you have dated and he will tag you a cheerful giver. Then, you can come back and tell us how you feel. He never said she was loose. Or a cheat. He said she’s a cheerful giver because she has dated people he knows. Not like she cheated in the relationship o. 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
8k2nuts:how do you know they are going strong? Have you lived with them, or do you only see what they want you to? They're struggling to prove a point to all of you who know their past. Doesn't mean it's real 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:41pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
8k2nuts:how do you know they are going strong? Have you lived with them, or do you only see what they want you to? They're struggling to prove a point to all of you who know their past. Doesn't mean it's real. Maybe the children are the last bit of glue remaining. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 4:41pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX:Lol And it's always the questionable types who go around talking about how 'we all have a past'. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nellyblaq: 4:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
But you already proposed to her na.You knew about her past,and that you would always have issues with it,you went ahead and proposed.My dear,follow your heart. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by jaxxy(m): 4:45pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: Her behavior before u met and the beginning of ur relationship? What character is this exactly? Honest? Decent? Or stupid? ... Also did she sleep with these other guys before u started dating or after? Also she confessed to u which is good bt did she tell u the reason she did those despicable things? Do the reasons make any sense to u? What is the proof that she’s willing to change cos it’s not by mouth bt actions. Do u want a situation where ur wife is visiting her bf’s sleeping around?? U better be careful what u tolerate. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by midnighter(f): 4:46pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: This is a good point. The question is, does OP see himself as a mumu collecting somebody's leftovers or a wife-snatcher who snagged his prize from a less worthy opponent....? Plus there is the question of her loose behaviour which is part of what is bothering him even though he says she is working on it. I had a girl in my department in school who multiple guys were hugging and rubbing up on even passing her in class, it's really uncomfortable to watch somebody act like that and be seen as an easy touch. I can only imagine if I were dating the person what it would feel like |
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