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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 4:48pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
midnighter:I miss the part where he said she was being passed around actively amongst this group of friends. Maybe I did not see it. What makes her lose exactly? Because she dated these guys Did she date all of them at the same time? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Dizzyrascal(m): 4:48pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:if you are already worried now, chances are that there would be trust issues if you decide to go ahead and marry her.....I hear a lot about Okafor's Law nowadays, the truth is that, it is real.. As long as those friends remain in your circle, you can never rest easy... getting rid of your friends is also not an option.. My advice: GET SOMEONE ELSE..it is better to start over again than to live in regrets.... |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Samyj247: 4:51pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma:u de mind them!! them de support themselves with their coconut fish brain. Their major goal in life is just to get married so they want to infect u with their coconut fish brain advise so u can marry her and u in turn will infect other guys with the coconut fish brain advise, so that girls of their type would escape the evening news paper zone. na dem dem....u better run while there is time. U can find another girl that will give u want u want even though 80% of them now na olosho. just look well u will find another. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by izzou(m): 4:52pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
pocohantas: Why are you like this? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mrdino(m): 4:55pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: 1. Trust and love are 2 different things; the fact that you love someone does not necessarily mean you trust that person. Trust is one of the key things in a relationship, if you feel she can't be trusted, then, you should leave her. Else, the issue of trust will later come up to destroy your home when you eventually get married to her. 2. Not all people who cheat on their partner, do so because they intentionally want to, some are due to lack of self discipline. If you think she lacks self discipline, then this issue will come up when you guys get married, because we can't rule out the fact that she would come across other men (that would make advances at her) whether in her place of work, a neighbour while you are away on a biz trip, e.t.c. 3. Nobody is perfect, but you need to be objective in making your decisions, in order to avoid a lifetime of regrets. Perhaps, you should test her, to see if she has truly changed. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Dizzyrascal(m): 4:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:I salute your brutal honesty 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 4:57pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:Prince Charles and Camilla is one out of how many? Not even in Nigeria, abroad people. Why don't you bring your examples down to something OP can relate with, instead of spreading net to societies that do not have the level of misogynists we have in Nigeria, a society that practices actual gender equality. Dating anybody that toasts you, is still a sign of being a free giver, and you must not sleep with people because you are dating with them. If today's generation had any sense of respect for their bodies, people would not have to look over their shoulders for signs of an ex. Everything you have said here has not addressed the reality of things in Nigeria. You cannot be talking of a situation in Nigeria, and bringing in references from the UK, there is no correlation. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:Don't be unfortunate you this wicked soon-to-be-divorced feminazi. Boasting in public fora that you have always been passed from friend to friend even up until your husband. At least have some respect for the man. But that's his business, we here ain't having none o that. 1. Prince Charles is an ediot. 2. In any case, Camilla is royalty. A respectable lady. Always has been, nothing like you. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:There are countless in Nigeria that I know. Both on the male and female side. Not everyone tells you how they met. By the way, you can decide not to date someone because they know your ex who has long moved on. That will be your choice and your problem. Keeping track with who your exes are and giving them such a big place in your life to impact your future happiness. Goodluck. By the way, are you a Virgin? If not, then I wish you the best 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:01pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX:Lol. You are obviously a lunatic. If we check now, you are not the son of your father and your mother has been passed around worse than a used tissue. 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:01pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:Leave baby124, I didn't want to respond to that comment with exactly what was on my mind. It seemed too much like she was taking about herself and not someone else whom she has absolutely no knowledge of - trying to force her own reality down everyone's throat. First it was friendships don't last, then next was that wives-to-be are usually gbenshing five other men and one uncle because women are cats. What in da' hellish kind of thinking... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Unrated900(m): 5:03pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
And you are here still asking us what you should do You are about to put a Nigerian used car in your garage that will tear leg every minutes instead of buying a foreign used one use your head lover boy 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by midnighter(f): 5:03pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: He is trying to keep it vague and not go into too much detail but the impression I get is that she finds it difficult to drive men away or turn down their advances in a firm way that will let them get the message. You know some guys will keep hanging around you unless you just say it plainly or you're so so rude to them. I don't think she really has the heart to do that so she still has males flocking around her even though she's in a serious relationship. So he's worried she might not be able to resist if any of them make a move. The other thing is that she dated a lot of his acquaintances in the past and he doesn't want to be the subject of their idle gossip and suffer undue embarrassment over her past. Especially in naija where even chaste women get minimal respect and can be the subject of vicious rumours Not at the same time but she has a high body count and he is likely to keep running into her ex-partners. Not to mention who she may be keeping in touch with on facebook, whatsapp etc. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:04pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:You can speak what is on your mind my dear. Don’t be a coward. I will speak my own opinion without fear because it is my own. Not everyone restricts themselves to what the world will think o. You still have time to mature. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by owowa145(m): 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
izzou:Gbam. And being genuine can be reversed with d law of okafor |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Yes, I am. Thanks for wishing me the best, no need to ask if you're one, because your comments say it all. OP is obviously keeping track of all the exes on behalf of his babe, and if he was cool with it, we would not be seeing it on social media. For anyone to bring this sort of thing to SM, it makes them uncomfortable with the fact. Babe is probably sleeping somewhere, thinking all is well, not knowing her man stays up at night, thinking of all the men she has, in your words, 'gbenshed' When people like me respect ourselves, it is so that our partners will not come on social media one day, and write something so disrespectful, that strangers will call us names. Respect is earned, and OP's babe does not have his respect. 4 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pafoma: there is always joy in forgiveness. Forgiveness from the heart also means forgetting. The way it is, if you guys have a small quarrel after marriage, there is the likelihood that you will refer to her past. If this is the case, let her go. Anyone can say "I love you". Only very few can actually prove it with actions. If you truly love her, you will never refer to her past again no matter the circumstance. She has been a bitch for other people. You can make her your queen if she is ready to be faithful and loyal to her king. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124:The way you have been vexing with me seems as if we were dragging something before this thread. Only me one thread - Immature, inexperienced, coward As if dem dey withdraw money with the opposite of these titles. Lmao What is paining you? Talk to me 4 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
crackhaus:Once a girl gives me that line, whether the scenario, she's out! crackhaus:She is a hellish cat. How can someone be forcing her wasted reality on people's consciousness? 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
midnighter: Pafoma:See this his post above. Just as I thought! He knows all these people and they are not necessarily all friends. He may be the common denominator here. She DATED them. Imagine having more than 7 exes and your boyfriend happens to know all of them . Even if they don’t all know each other. It can happen you know? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Dizzyrascal:Thank you my brother |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:Lol. So you have absolutely no experience in what you are talking about. Please abeg, don’t bother quoting me. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by poweredcom(m): 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Oga you know one thing just try and be richer than ur friends that have banged her Cos if you go broker hahaha that babe go leave you ..these hoes don't love you they only want wat they can get from you She go start to bang any fresher dyck and may e by then you fit don run mad out of fraustation 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by 8k2nuts: 5:13pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: Lol. As I said it depends on who the guy is. This guy doesn't give a Bleep what you think. Your business. I raised the point before the wedding and he said na so i like am. They are going on strong. The guy wasnt a mugu so he knew exactly what he was getting into. And hes happy 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:13pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX:Do you even know what reality is you this bot? |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:15pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX: safarigirl: 1 Like |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: I have enough experience, I just have the smarts to not use myself as a labrat, when there are many other girls that will happily present themselves for experiments. When they say "experience is the best teacher" they don't mean personal experience. If Nkechi has sex and gets pregnant, Lola ought to know that having sex will make her pregnant, she does not have to get pregnant to have knowledge. Only a fool uses herself for negative experiences. I hope this is understood by you. 2 Likes |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by crackhaus: 5:18pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
ModelX:As in eh, I'm flaggerbasted |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by midnighter(f): 5:19pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
baby124: Well his worry is the embarrassment and her "lifestyle" before, and whether she could really change. She didn't exactly date them but the interaction was not totally casual either. It just sounds like she was irresponsible with her actions with more than a few people who were not serious about her To be honest OP sounds like a senior office worker or banker who is worried about running into people at those corporate "gala nights" where everybody gossips and eyes each other a lot. Networking is important with those kinds of people and after a while it can start to wear on your nerves if people keep staring at you and you're wondering if it's for you or your wife |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:20pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
safarigirl:You have absolutely no Clue what you are talking about. You are a fool my dear. A big one. Your lack of experience in matters beyond you makes you an idiot to try to advise people on them. The girl is not a virgin, the guy is not looking for a virgin. Focus your desperation for husband somewhere else. Even with all your virginity nobody has married you. Hahahahahaha. Tell Diana all your story you idiot. That you are a virgin doesn’t mean your mind is clean and you are not a LovePeddler. Many virgins have had oral and anal sex. I am sure you are one of them. Sanctimonious idiot trying to play what she doesn’t know. Confused imp. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Dizzyrascal(m): 5:21pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
mysticgal:babe, no matter how you try to argue, Okafor's Law is real....it works better if the said relationship ended peacefully...I have a lot of testimonies from numerous friends to prove this...Okafor's Law is actually a Nigerian way of saying it. It is called by another name internationally...just check Google. |
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:23pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
midnighter:He said she dated them. He said no casual sex on another post. Look at his posts. He seems like the common friend here. Not everyone cares about who has dated who? Your husband may have had casual sex with over 109 girls who know what his penis looks like and how he moans in bed. Will that matter to you when accepting his proposal? Many men are even mocked on gossip sites about their sexual ability but their wives married and are still married to them. So, in reality not everyone cares about these things. 1 Like |
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