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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 5:57pm On Nov 14, 2019
CsRockefeller:


Are you okay? undecided

Safiagirl, please ignore her, personally, I can't even date a non virgin. Keep it up, you will have a fantastic marriage.

I cannot keep answering someone that is disgracing her husband on Buhari's internet.

Anyone that has made peace with themselves, can stick to their beliefs, but just because it worked for one person, does not mean it will work for all and it certainly doesn't make such behavior right.

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 5:58pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Go and save your mother o! She’s giving it to that mad man roaming third mainland with one corner style right below the bridge. We can’t afford to have two of you on NL. Hahahahaha. Son of a dirty bitch and LovePeddler. Your mother that bleeps for water and air. Cheap and dirty bitch.
Cry me a river. E pain am. Oloriburuku omo. Guys wey use am do ritual self Dey regret am presently because she no get glory again. Aja ti do aye werey ati olofo iya e baje.
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 5:58pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Go and save your mother o! She’s giving it to that mad man roaming third mainland with one corner style right below the bridge. We can’t afford to have two of you on NL. Hahahahaha. Son of a dirty bitch and LovePeddler. Your mother that bleeps for water and air. Cheap and dirty bitch.
Cry me a river. E pain am. Oloriburuku omo. Guys wey use am do ritual self Dey regret am presently because she no get glory again. Aja ti do aye werey ati olofo iya e baje. Oloshi
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:59pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

Useless bitch wey no get womb again.wasted mofo wey be say Na only dog Dey Bleep her steady now. Olofo useless midnight newspaper with stinking itchy borehole divergent pussy
Hahahahahaha. Your mother is still a dirty LovePeddler though, fucking to breathe and running mad on the streets of Lagos grin

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 5:59pm On Nov 14, 2019
safarigirl:
I cannot keep answering someone that is disgracing her husband on Buhari's internet.

Anyone that has made peace with themselves, can stick to their beliefs, but just because it worked for one person, does not mean it will work for all and it certainly doesn't make such behavior right.
Are you married? Get a man to marry you first grin

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by safarigirl(f): 6:01pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Are you married? Get a man to marry you first grin
Marriage is not reward for good behavior, as we have seen with you

Then again, you may not even be married. We are who we want to be on social media.

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:01pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Hahahahahaha. Your mother is still a dirty LovePeddler though, fucking to breathe and running mad on the streets of Lagos grin
Says a broke olosho wey no get destiny again. How you go get destiny when your useless mother self no get glory again. DeSpite all the doggy wey dog Dey give you steady for your useless wretched family house in ajegunle. Your life is still wretched. Useless midnight newspaper
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:03pm On Nov 14, 2019
safarigirl:
Marriage is not reward for good behavior, as we have seen with you

Then again, you may not even be married. We are who we want to be on social media.
You can’t even get anyone to engage you! After all this sanctimonious bullshit you spilled here!!!

Even madam who has been a LovePeddler like me in your words has OP contemplating to marry her! But you! Good girl, nothing!

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by izzou(m): 6:05pm On Nov 14, 2019
pocohantas:


How? What did I do now?

cheesy cheesy
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:06pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

Says a broke olosho wey no get destiny again. How you go get destiny when your useless mother self no get glory again. DeSpite all the doggy wey dog Dey give you steady for your useless wretched family house in ajegunle. Your life is still wretched. Useless midnight newspaper
Lol, you mother never had any newspaper sef. She was used to wipe yansh and thrown into a pity latrine! Glory? Do you people in your family even know what that means??!
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:06pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

You can’t even get anyone to engage you! After all this sanctimonious bullshit you spilled here!!!
At least she no Dey Bleep dog like you and your useless mofo olofo mother Dey receive steady doggy from a dog. Dog self no Dey Bleep your useless worthless family pass one round because of your stinking pussy with torn dirty pant you and your olosho mother have

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:07pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Lol, you mother never had any newspaper sef. She was used to wipe yansh and thrown into a pity latrine! Glory? Do you people in your family even know what that means??!
Olosho kobokobo cry me a river. Any man wey enter your worthless family by mistake don enter one chance. Omo arisunkun. Aja ti fe do werey pa. Oloribu omo
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:08pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

At least she no Dey Bleep dog like you and your useless mofo olofo mother Dey receive steady doggy from a dog. Dog self no Dey Bleep your useless worthless family pass one round because of your stinking pussy with torn dirty pant you and your olosho mother have
See your mother over there o. They are fucking her again inside abandoned Jakande building. Go and resume your day job of pimping your mother and let us see road abeg. Stark raving lunatic. Why not marry aunty virgin Maria Na. grin. at least you will rest. Your mother that they have used snake to suck her dirty pussy and made a video of it. Your mother that when she open leg all the flies in the area will die. That diseased and mad thing is what you call a mother?
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by MrCork: 6:09pm On Nov 14, 2019
Pafoma:
Guys! I need serious, real and honest contributions.. Thanks to all that will contribute.

I have a lady whom i am dating. I truly love and care about her but she has been with people that are in my circle and this disturbs me. She didnt used to be a straightforward and totally faithful person but i see that she is making efforts towards being completely honest and straightforward but still i dont have rest in my spirit about taking the decision to marry her.

I have observed she is soft with guys and is not firm, although i am aware it takes time for someone used to a particular pattern or lifestyle to adjus. I need help because breaking up with this lady will mean that i have to look for someone else to start the entire circle with again and who knows what if the new one also comes with even worse baggages.

My questions are these

1. What do you advice i do?
2. Who has been in similar situation where you fell in love with a lady your friends and circle have been with then married her? What was the experience like including things to look out for..
3. How can be sure i wont regret the decision to go forward?

Please feel free to ask me any question and i’ll answer if they are not sarcastic or jokes..

Thank you.




Bro Did he date ladyGKilaBCrueD from nairaland......we don't he trusst her!!!
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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:10pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

Olosho kobokobo cry me a river. Any man wey enter your worthless family by mistake don enter one chance. Omo arisunkun. Aja ti fe do werey pa. Oloribu omo
Hahahahaha. No good man or man worthy of his self respect will see the girls in your family and marry them. Poverty don scrape una head. Even with all your mothers dirty efforts!

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:11pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

See your mother over there o. They are fucking her again inside abandoned Jakande building. Go and resume your day job of pimping your mother and let us see road abeg. Stark raving lunatic. Why not marry aunty virgin Maria Na. grin. at least you will rest. Your mother that they have used snake to suck her dirty pussy and made a video of it. Your mother that when she open leg all the flies in the area will die. That diseased and mad thing is what you call a mother?
Says a useless mofo. Won ti FE do iya e pa. Dey don Bleep her stupid and worthless mother tire. Na only animals Dey Bleep her useless mother presently because her olofo mother stinks down there. Her useless father self run away from her oloribu mother because he couldn’t withstand the passing around of his olosho wife
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by vickydevoka(m): 6:12pm On Nov 14, 2019
From my understanding the gal in question is very beautiful n sexy, dat u can leave her. Bros Bleep her well n pass it to the next guy. U knw y? U already knew her x-fuckers, she will definitely marry a pastor (reserved man) some day
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:13pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Hahahahaha. No good man or man worthy of his self respect will see the girls in your family and marry them. Poverty don scrape una head. Even with all your mothers dirty efforts!
E pain am. Worthless olosho wey Dey single at 48. Who go marry a worthless olofo like you? Destiny you no get. Money no Dey your family as per say una Dey wretched. What about you And your pussyless useless mother whose pussy looks like a borehole .
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:13pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

Says a useless mofo. Won ti FE do iya e pa. Dey don Bleep her stupid and worthless mother tire. Na only animals Dey Bleep her useless mother presently because her olofo mother stinks down there. Her useless father self run away from her oloribu mother because he couldn’t withstand the passing around of his olosho wife
This just got boring jare. Your story is becoming longer and longer with no focus. Go and do that thing you do to your mother when there is no customer. She’s calling you. Make sure you suck and Bleep it well grin

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:14pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

E pain am. Worthless olosho wey Dey single at 48. Who go marry a worthless olofo like you? Destiny you no get. Money no Dey your family as per say una Dey wretched. What about you And your pussyless useless mother whose pussy looks like a borehole .
Hahahahaha. Sure grin. I am very sure my family can enslave your whole family though

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Nobody: 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2019
crackhaus:

Sassy try to get the spelling of my moniker right so I can see your mentions. It's crackhaus. grin

Everyone can have insecurities, men and women. I don't think I ever stated otherwise. If you're using our conversation the other day about me not worrying about my wife cheating and juxtaposing it with this situation, then you've got to understand its different.

We are talking about friends here, people who will always be part of the man's life and by extension, his wife also.
Nope, I based my post on the second story u shared about a guy grin

Some friends are fair weather actually. U make new ones, u discard old ones or keep some as u journey through life.
U find out that as u age, clash of interest become the determinant on how your friendship with your buddy can last. U may be a smoking and drinking buddies and u decide to stop doing such, where is the interest again?
U sit together and dissect women,now both of u are married, except u are adulterous, what have u in common again?
Most guys sustain relationships because it phased into family relationship( believe u, I know what I'm talking about), as soon as u marry and start having family, your choice of friends change. U can still hang out once in a while but it will never be the same again. Unless u have business interest together.

I have seen lots of guys marry babes that was once intimate with their friends. I have even seen brothers.
So I was surprised when u guys were advising the guy not to do it. But then again u answered the question.
Insecurity. If u are so insecure, no need going into that at all.

In my home town, like 10% of us marry outside( men and women), as long as the girl is not from your kindred, u are free to marry her. Now these babes go out with guys from the same town and most of these guys belong to certain age groups( age brackets 1 to 4), all these boys from the same age groups are like brothers and friends, now u have other friends too. The babe u marry must have gone out with one of your age group mate. he might still be going out with her and u will come and propose deeper relationship cum marriage. Babe see a mpre serious guy and makes her move. Your guy will even encourage u to go ahead. Maybe he isn't yet ready.

Lots and lots of examples. Have seen cases in school, work environment etc. There is really no big deal here unless u as a man is very insecure and have low self esteem.
Free my sister's abeg, grin cheesy


Sorry about the spelling. Confusion here and there grin

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

This just got boring jare. Your story is becoming longer and longer with no focus. Go and do that thing you do to your mother when there is no customer. She’s calling you. Make sure you suck and Bleep it well grin
E pain am. Make e boring, i like am like that alayebaje. Go sort your useless life at 48 first. Olosho wey no even get boyfriend not to talk of husband at 48
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:17pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Hahahahaha. Sure grin. I am very sure my family can enslave your whole family though
Lol olofo. You mean your worthless broke wretched wasted family would enslave better family like mine
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2019
sassysure:

Nope, I based my post on the second story u shared about a guy grin

Some friends are fair weather actually. U make new ones, u discard old ones or keep some as u journey through life.
U find out that as u age, clash of interest become the determinant on how your friendship with your buddy can last. U may be a smoking and drinking buddies and u decide to stop doing such, where is the interest again?
U sit together and dissect women,now both of u are married, except u are adulterous, what have u in common again?
Most guys sustain relationships because it phased into family relationship( believe u, I know what I'm talking about), as soon as u marry and start having family, your choice of friends change. U can still hang out once in a while but it will never be the same again. Unless u have business interest together.

I have seen lots of guys marry babes that was once intimate with their friends. I have even seen brothers.
So I was surprised when u guys were advising the guy not to do it. But then again u answered the question.
Insecurity. If u are so insecure, no need going into that at all.

In my home town, like 10% of us marry outside( men and women), as long as the girl is not from your kindred, u are free to marry her. Now these babes go out with guys from the same town and most of these guys belong to certain age groups( age brackets 1 to 4), all these boys from the same age groups are like brothers and friends, now u have other friends too. The babe u marry must have gone out with one of your age group mate. he might still be going out with her and u will come and propose deeper relationship cum marriage. Babe see a mpre serious guy and makes her move. Your guy will even encourage u to go ahead. Maybe he isn't yet ready.

Lots and lots of examples. Have seen cases in school, work environment etc. There is really no big deal here unless u as a man is very insecure and have low self esteem.
Free my sister's abeg, grin cheesy


Sorry about the spelling. Confusion here and there grin
Am really surprised that OP is even equating the fact that he knows who his wife to be has DATED as her being easy. Did he not toast her the same way and she agreed to be with him? Was even honest that she had dated these people?

The world is so small now that if you are not a virgin male or female. The chances that you have dated friends of your spouse is very high. Even if you did not have sex with them.

So, because of that make person no marry? They are both non virgins oooo! Imagine? Rubbish. Anyway this section is known to attract kids. Thanks for laying it out jare. Signing out here, let me go and pepper that lunatic one more time grin

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

Lol olofo. You mean your worthless broke wretched wasted family would enslave better family like mine
We will enslave them and put them in chains. So you can come and beg grin
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

We will enslave them and put them in chains. So you can come and beg grin
We will rape your own family first
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

E pain am. Make e boring, i like am like that alayebaje. Go sort your useless life at 48 first. Olosho wey no even get boyfriend not to talk of husband at 48
Hahahahaha. 48!!! I pray I live to be 48 and more and even more successful than now o. You, will you live till 48? I doubt. With your worthless life?

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by baby124: 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2019
Yinibixema:

We will rape your own family first
Hahahahahaha. And you are somehow better than the OP’s girlfriend?

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Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Preetychina22(m): 6:27pm On Nov 14, 2019
mysticgal:

grin I never knew it was a thing till I heard of the movie and sincerely, this law or label or whatever, isn’t valid to say the least
You're either a very well reserved lady or just one living in plain denial.
Most guys can have sex with 6/10 of their exes, even married women. Especially when the ex is better off than their current partner: sexually or financially.
Ladies will deny this but then again ladies are known for saying one thing and doing another.
Infact as I type this some married Nigerian women are having sex with their exes in different hotels around the country.
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by mysticgal(f): 6:30pm On Nov 14, 2019
Davesaves:
my dear, okafor's law is very valid.. i'm a witness.. that law has helped me a lot. so don't say what u don't know

You cheating modafucker grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:30pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Hahahahaha. 48!!! I pray I live to be 48 and more and even more successful than now o. You, will you live till 48? I doubt. With your worthless life?
Shut up. Go sort your life
Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Yinibixema: 6:31pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:

Hahahahahaha. And you are somehow better than the OP’s girlfriend?
Yes because I’m a man

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