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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by missidy: 6:39am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Exactly, 3 years & he still want to tie her down without any commitment. You better go & do the needful or leave the girl alone. [I promise to celebrate you and your achievements and to support you in your times of need ❤️ https:///eqfSMvyx4equote author=deltateam post=84098525] Op was she like this the first 1 year you started with her? I saw a Facebook video where a lady was proposing to a man. They had been together for 7 years without any commitment from the man. You should understand that girls are like flowers. They have their season. Any woman that is nearing 40 years is seen as evening newspaper. Generally they are best married at 21-27 years of age. But at 40 years a man is still active and can get married. You have wasted 3 years of her life without indicating your interest to her family. You can't blame her for looking outside for better prospects. Carry wine to her parents accompanied by an elder man and your mum or woman that can stand in for her.Then back it up with a traditional marriage within a year if there's an improvement in her behavior but delay it no further. Even Davido don give Chioma, Assurance.[/quote] |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sweeetheart(m): 6:42am On Nov 17, 2019 |
deltateam: to be on a safe side do you know my friend once dated a lady for 3yrs provided for this lady education, he was offered to travel to USA but declined because of this girl, only for the said lady to do secret wedding with a Canada Returnee in her village, if not for we friends that was with this my guy he would have commit suicide If he had cloned, he would have know. to forewarned is to forearmed 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Ibfpleasant(m): 6:42am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:please take off your mind from this girl, she didn’t respect nor love you.. she is only dating you probably because of what she gaining from you financially.. Girls doesn’t care if they have had numerous sex with you, they leave anytime they want.. safe your life and move on |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by gbeseun(m): 6:44am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Poor boy,go and find work and get money, While someone is spending 20mins on calls burning credit, you are there chatting on monthly sub free. Go and get money The babe is going gradually 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by jclassiq(m): 6:48am On Nov 17, 2019 |
metformin: Nice advice. But nawa for your moniker oo Are you biochemist? 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by candygirl4real: 6:50am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Why are u in a relationship for three years and not ready to take it to the next level. She sees another guy whom she assumes is more serious than you. So wat are we talking about here...... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by tahir01(m): 6:57am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:Sorry o! Mr lover. I hope she feels d same way too. WEAKLING! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:59am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: Three years Oga,you don finish this babe life oooo , babe want fast lane jare, but 3 years is much for studying someone 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 6:59am On Nov 17, 2019 |
I can tell the OP is in severe pain With all the advice that's been popping from page one hitherto, I can only hope the OP isn't looking for rope now. LMAO. But seriously, at this age, women don't worth this sacrifice of trusting them to the fullest. Even if you guys have dated for 3 years, you must always leave that space for doubt. So far it's not like you're ready for marriage, just don't put all your eggs in one basket. Like an investor that I am, you spread your risk, and when eventually you are getting ready for marriage, then put your eggs in one basket on the most viable investment out of them all. I don't want to say the truth that you had already been told, but if I were you, you create a viable career prospect for yourself. Stay focused and stay married to it; let it be more like you're dating that ambition. And whatever girls that's coming your way will be like second girlfriend. Let it be such a way that no girl is put above your ambition/happiness. By this, believe me, you'll be shuffling girls like cards hahaha. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by bleskid: 7:00am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:woman wey u never marry .. cloth wet dei shop |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by jclassiq(m): 7:00am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: Good attributes like what nah? Forget talk my brother. Na sex dey cloud your judgement. What you should do: don't try to negotiate any further because you will be selling yourself short by continuously nagging and you are pushing her further away. Give her the two weeks and even more. Don't initiate contact with her even after the two weeks. Trust me, once your female friend starts to behave like this...one thing is very certain: she has become bored with you and needs some excitement from outside I.e other admirers. And bro trust me..all the logic in this world cannot help you get her back to her senses. Just let her have that fun that she is longing for. After she is burnt, na she go carry herself come back. Meanwhile, give your life to Jesus and stop yielding your bodies to sins and carnality. Get married and be focused in life. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:01am On Nov 17, 2019 |
peterangelo: Who told u this?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by deltateam: 7:01am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Sweeetheart: We are saying the same thing. Anything you are doing for a woman that isn't your wife is charity. If your friend married her before doing all these and even dash am belle. I doubt the end would be same. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:02am On Nov 17, 2019 |
tricksters: I guess using a plank to shift my mouth is ur own manly attribute, TG op is not a tout.. lol ! i am tew old to be a kid so i guess am jus a fool. move on bro |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:03am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Tifesingz: Just like men dumped your mother during her time too. Yes ive been dumped before long ago and theres nothing to hide there cos i dont pretend and no woman, girl or lady go tell me say she's never been dumped before make I hear. Na today? Even your sisters have been dumped before and your daughters too will be dumped as long as its men they are dating and not monkeys or apes. Na una way. You'll say I told and dont forget to ask your mother the men who dumped her before your father finally came to her rescue. Dundi. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by jclassiq(m): 7:03am On Nov 17, 2019 |
StrongandMighty: Lol. No mind the guy he is just consoling himself. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by taiwolomo1: 7:03am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:but this ONE attribute negates all other ones! She isn't loyal bro! She will always repeat it! Start taking ur mind off her. Look for an acute alternative so it can be eazy for u ! My submission. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by oodua1stson: 7:04am On Nov 17, 2019 |
dancok:lol the guy de vex my soul 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MedicH: 7:05am On Nov 17, 2019 |
metformin: Wow the day my comnent go reach 800 likes i go do free giveaway. Best advice op 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MedicH: 7:07am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:You're not very ok. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by RealityShot: 7:11am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:she has started lying! hiding the thing from you and asking for space because it.. she is tired of you... Na you she see as VOMIT... give her like 2 months SPACE and dont call her after the space...wait till she calls.. NOTE...if she returns from the space make sure you use condow for at least 3 months because she might get pregnant for her FLING and try to pin it on you! if you aint ready to marry why are you wasting your brain and resources on a particular girl? go for flings if you cant hold body or (ashi N500) bye |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 7:11am On Nov 17, 2019 |
razible5384: Lol. Truth is bitter, but it must be said. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Cyynywhite: 7:12am On Nov 17, 2019 |
My brother hustle make UR girl no give u 2weeks probation 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by alexola20(m): 7:12am On Nov 17, 2019 |
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:15am On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: A classic young naija male fantasy is getting rich after being dumped and having the exgf coming to beg you to take her back. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 7:16am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude: LWKMD |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 7:18am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Cyynywhite: Naso |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 7:21am On Nov 17, 2019 |
sacx: As I done old reach? 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: The girl must to suffer for dumping or rejecting the guy na. We are each and every one of us God's sanctioned gift to women. You must be punished for rejecting us. Of course the world does joy revolve round around any of us, so las Las we go dey alright. In a proper world, as you no gree give me green light, your booty suppose done flat. But it is glowing and prospering That is life. |
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