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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sweeetheart(m): 10:34am On Nov 17, 2019 |
deltateam: You're an ignorance of what you don't know. She was anything a man could wish for That you're meeting harlot or you're harlot yourself doesn't mean everyone fall in the same hook with you I don't know why someone else opinion and wishes is your headache. I don't like exchanging words with slow brain people So swerve |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by TanyLoe(f): 10:38am On Nov 17, 2019 |
RESHARPENED: Was about giving you an A Before I saw this ( You can thank me by working on yourself and NEVER giving any girl your absolute commitment.) Just because she doesn't know the value of loyalty and commitment no mean say another girl won't When will u men stop judging some ladies because A messed up..e no mean say B na the same 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by deltateam: 10:39am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Sweeetheart: Everything a man could wish for but you didn't marry her. What a hypocrite. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by henry457: 10:39am On Nov 17, 2019 |
As a friend and someone who has the experience, when a woman quit relationship, do not chase.let her be,otherwise d more u chase her d more she loses interest in you. Since you have tried your best by trying to talk some sence into her but she decline,let her go for good since she think ur relationship isn't worth it. Focus on developing yourself,if eventually she comes back,tell her you have forgiven her but you can't continue a relationship with her because your future and life is no longer safe with her. Send her back to that guy by telling her to go settle her conflict with him. Women are quick in making decision and quick in regretting their decision. Don't listen to her when she try to tell you she wasn't in her right state of mind when she let you go,her sence was very ok when she left you for that guy.It is your decision to forgive her or not but if she comes back n u accept her,what guarantee you she won't cheat on u again.A woman who dont have self control is not worthy to be a wife.some wil think am rude but the truth is,even though u will accept her,let her earn it,not u just accepting her without her earning it.discipline her,it is ur future so dont joke with it.if u just accept her,she will do worst than what she did earlier.Currently she n d guy are in love bombing stage,soon the will be in reality stage. Don't rush into entering another relationship, use this opportunity to think what could have cause the relationship going south,develop urself for a new relationship u will enter. Thank your God for saving you. Please remember my words "don't chase her and never accept her back" if you do d opposite,then have urself to blame 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Numerouno94(m): 10:40am On Nov 17, 2019 |
bejick:ur absolutely correct.Technically, no lady has gotn my hrt broken b4.Buh i dn get hypertension tire because of girls xpecially durin my undergraduate days cos i was naive nd was doin luv.Nd luv gave me HBP. Now am a working class guy wit charisma nd high self esteem. B a successful guy nd see how ladies will follow u.Nd d best tin u can do 4 urself as a gr8 nigga is neva kip one girlfrnd. NEVER!!. 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by lollybizzu(m): 10:41am On Nov 17, 2019 |
safarigirl: What if it's the wrong person promising marriage? Remember, the devil you know is reasonably better than the angel you don't know ![]() |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Tifesingz: 10:44am On Nov 17, 2019 |
It's obvious you lacked parental care, if not, you won't come up here and be mentioning someone's mother like an idiot and as long as you continue with this kind of attitude, guys will continue to dump your a-ss... Las las, Shilo go be your last home!... I ain't gon reply you no more bitter soul! Jewessgratitude: |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by TanyLoe(f): 10:46am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Korllami007: 10:51am On Nov 17, 2019 |
stanliwise: I don't understand you. Because op has bleeped her for 3 years so you want op to wait for her till the new guy dump her. So, the total amount of time the girl dates the new guy will serve as punishment for op for f"cking her for 3 years. This is interesting. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MiosheEmpire1(m): 10:52am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Hmmm my guy talking from my own experience,just forget about dat tin called relationship with her. Same tin apen to me, 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Korllami007: 10:57am On Nov 17, 2019 |
henry457: The bolded got me. ![]() ![]() Some people here are saying he should wait for her. Wait for her for what? Oil de your head jor. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by sadoroy(m): 11:04am On Nov 17, 2019 |
I beg of you, Bleep her before leaving her. Bleep her like you will kill her. Please. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by holaxi(m): 11:11am On Nov 17, 2019 |
henry457:She actually came to my side yesterday, I didn't give her much attention . I was just focused on Tv . Then she asked whats wrong i told her nothing, then she said she knows I'm angry and that she knows she has frustrated me. I said NO that's all she's doing is fine. Then she was full of apologies. I told her its okay but its only if I see changes I can know the next line of action. She wanted to sleep over but I didn't allow her to. 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by lollybizzu(m): 11:22am On Nov 17, 2019 |
franchasng: Wish I could like this more than once. This your advice enter my head so much. Others have been saying same thing up there... But this your own... ![]() Although my own never start to misbehave but I'm still observing her while I'm seriously working to improve my financial life like you said. Reason why I'm still holding her is that we've been together for a while now and she still dey do normal otherwise, I for don free her, come face my huzzle squarely...take a long sabbatical leave from relationship. More advice is welcomed bro ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by stanliwise(m): 11:31am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Korllami007:All I am saying is stop making the Op the victim here. The loss of interest could be the fault of the OP, this is relationship, it doesn't work in one way remember? |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Firstorderwizard(m): 11:33am On Nov 17, 2019 |
franchasng: This post made my day bro, I respect you for this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Ken24(m): 11:37am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Bro move on, stop wasting your time on her, she thinks she's found someone better and she has forgotten that on that side, the grass ain't greener. She gave you the space to be better for yourself, breath better,save more on calls and stuffs that don't add up. Guy just move on abeg, abeg na ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 11:37am On Nov 17, 2019 |
anslem04: I wasn't referring to the OP there, I was being general. .. stop makin these all about bin broke, mayb u nid to also knw gurls breakup n dump rich guys tew. But he's always a edge above. There's high propensity of him finding a new one within a blink, although if he's manly enough. As per a broke nigga... 1. you must realize shoe get size don't hunt 4 materialistic gurl, stick u ur class or below. Materialistic girl is a no no.. I agree with you here. 2. As a broke ass, u must av prospect @least that wil make a gurl consider you, then u must grow cos what can keep a gurl to a guy with audio prospect is growth. You're right on point. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 11:37am On Nov 17, 2019 |
anslem04: I wasn't referring to the OP there, I was being general. .. stop makin these all about bin broke, mayb u nid to also knw gurls breakup n dump rich guys tew. [/b] |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Edio1: 11:38am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Move on man.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by tpraiz(m): 11:39am On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: Guy I wish I can find you and buy a very cold beer ![]() ![]() |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Windflower(f): 11:51am On Nov 17, 2019 |
OLAJADON: This is the mistake most guys make. Have you bothered to ask him how the communication aspect of their relationship looks like before this guy came around? It is this kind of mentality that drives many women to the hands of sweet tongued men. Relationship isn't just about been sexually intimate or just calling to ask how was your day and have you eaten. It spans above this. There is this part of a woman that seeks to connect to the person she is in a relationship with. I don't know how to explain more than this but do you know in all their 3yrs of been together and going through thick and hell together like he said. They might not have this bond and connection and maybe someone else is giving it to her and you blame her? This is psychology please. Having a good communication doesn't even have to do with giving her frequent attention. It is about spending each moment you have together in the most judicious way. My gut tells me this guy is obviously a player and a sweet talker. My final message to the op, if you know you truly love her, kindly disregard all the negative comment and save her from making a big mistake. She is only carried away. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Tunyx01: 11:51am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Ladies and drama |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Tifesingz: If you check my first commnent that you mentioned, its has a tone of warning and not bitterness like you claimed. Rather its your mentions that have a tone of bitterness. Anyways I'm done with this mentioning. Learn not to intrude or interfere in matters that do not concern you. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by okewumi: 11:53am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Inside life. The year you met her if she writes Polytechnic jamb exam, by now she would have finished ND. Even if you have a state governor and after three years he kept the same story, you will advice him not to contest for another term. You have wasted a term already (3 years for that matter) ![]() May be l did not get you right. Are you referring to a year of friendship and two years of courtship ![]() My advice for you as you are entering 2020. 1. Use you energy to huzzle more for money, the lady tried l beg. Her mate that married and gave birth in 2016/are thinking of second child by now. 2. For her to come to your place again to sleep, apologise to her and communicate why your relationship has not move to next level. 3. Introducing her to your family or astertor is meaningless, ladies are wise now. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by safarigirl(f): 11:53am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: Is it not society that has told women that they must be married to be relevant? I don't know who "y'all" are, I am telling what obtains in reality. Whether marriage last or not is inconsequential, at least pesin wey don marry no dey the same groupchat with who never marry at all. It is the mentality foisted on today's women by a society that puts marriage above love, and makes it a prerequisite for female respect 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MedicH: 11:55am On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: Pocobaby... So on point. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by kunleweb: 11:58am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Windflower: Big head. You have wise - Your last paragraph. Too much sense dey worry you. Girls and falling your sweet tongue. And later deep regrets. Its always the rule, lose a very good someborry and almost always regret the loss deeply. Some never recovered the loss of a good person. Never only few I mean absolutely few jump from good to good. Its most times South 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Emkingz: 11:59am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:I would advice you move on with your life because she has done so. 3 years is ok. She probably have grown weary of you. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by vsfagbemi: 12:05pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Taking you by your words,don't be discouraged. I"m speaking from experiece. Forget her completely as if u never meet. Look for better job,hang out with good friends and forgive her. Make money,better ladies with serious mind will come your way soonest. Lastly,pray to God to direct your ways and you will never be stranded again. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by larryking540: 12:06pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
henry457:nice one man thumps up.... |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by cicikhemy(f): 12:06pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:i have been reading your replies down to this particular one and it is obvious that you are indeed God fearing which means you are a christian.And that is why you will be entirely worn out when you engage in anything outside your Father's will or instructions for your life due to His love and mercy,so even if you get another lady all by your self evaluations,there's a probability that you will still bring your marital issh on this platform.GOD loves you so much that he allowed the lady misbehave now and not when you are married to her,so grab the sense and run back to Him for His choice for you maritally |
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