What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.

Death
That is your partner dying before you

The fear of been trapped with one wife...

Is inevitable? but you wan go heaven

Aidejay:
Death
That is your partner dying before you

Lacking communication skills and been clueless on what to say and how to act

Marrying an unemployed lady and at the same time has no degree and skill.

1). Marrying the wrong person,
2). Losing your personal identity (once you become daddy everything changes)
3). Falling out of love
4). Boredom

1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

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Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.

Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, adoption or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

Since I never MARRY .... Let me park my car here and read all your comments

Poverty, death, unemployment, entitlement mentality and most especially ....



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Cheat cheater cheatest

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Hmmmm
I'll come back and answer

The fact that (some)women can't be trusted!!!

I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated

The fear of unknown character

Aidejay:
Death
That is your partner dying before you

What's this one saying?


So na me wan die first


In fact before marriage my wife will agree to die first


Go Port Harcourt see the way men dey fvck women their husband die

Damnnnnn. Niggarrr!

As a real niggarrr
The fact that i willl no longer be seeing women as swimming pool scare the Shit out of me in marriage. I will now be committed to one woman? Noooooooo!!! No na. A niggarrr is crying in advance already. Noo. I don't think i will ever get married

Because for now i see women as swimming pool

i don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
i Don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before I
started swimming
I Don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after am done swimming my own
And i don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with me as am swimming
i Just swim my own sharpely and move on.

To be honest, Cheating is the only reason I'm still single.

I can't afford to share my own Wife with another Man.

Sadly, most married Women in Nigeria loves cheating.

I belong to a counseling unit in my church so sometimes, couples who have issues in their marriage do come to us for settlement and counseling.... The stories I hear eh. It's just as if immediately the wedding is over, cat and dog will just be released in the house.

Cheating spouse

Eating same soup till death. If u know u know. For an ideal marriage oh

1. What if we fall out of love with each other?
2. What if he dies before me?
3. What will happen if I feel i can’t take his bullshit anymore?
4. What if he doesn’t support me or I feel alone in the partnership.
5. What if an accident happens right in the relationship, would I stay or would I leave?
6. Is love enough or what if he is too much of a spender or an NFA aka no future ambition?
7. Can I bear his family members or mine during marriage?
8. How do we resolve conflicts, what if he tries to abuse me?
9. What if I have mediocre sexual experiences all through out.
10. How would he cope if I die, get disabled, leave, never want children or even like pets?

It bugs me a lot

Being called upon as the father of the house to kill every snake that enters the house and I hate snakes. I wan relocate go Canada first before I marry cos I won't find snakes crawling into my house there

Being a surrogate mom

Make pesin no go marry Ijebu chic wey no go sabi cook Ikokore…

Cooking during wife’s pregnancy

Divorce

Divorce or falling out of love

I will come back to say something