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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 5:02pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
healthserve:Which edifying words agan?? My post was filled with edifying words 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by thorpido(m): 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
SKYloafFISH:If that is the kind of man you see and desire,so be it for you. |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by genq(m): 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Tarabye: As in - fountainofyouth should actually be banned for that stupid comment 11 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:05pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: What did we men do to you so badly. You've been this way since 2016 as your old posts suggests. You're deliberately sowing bad energy in this marriage. If you must give counsel in marital issues, it ought to be balanced not hateful my dear. Forgive men 21 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:06pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Mynd44 launch this thread to FP nah. Abeg. Let's have more positive contributions 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Tarabye: 5:08pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:10pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
genq: Maybe you are blind and didn't see where I said not all of them, or why are you this pained? Is a woman feeding you? 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 5:12pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
healthserve: I won't show grace and consideration to the group of people the are always seeking to subjugate women and inconvenience them with selfishness and over bloated ego. Oga dont worry majority of nairaland women are nice as civil when writing about men, just skip my posts if you find them non edifying. Thanks Am not going to change though 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by genq(m): 5:12pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Kill yourself biko - I don't have your time. 17 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:13pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Tarabye: How am I from Edo, pls tell me. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:14pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: You're trying to turn the op against her marriage as you do on any thread females ask for help on marital issues. I think we need a bad energy containment for your destructive energy. Deal with yourself and stop spreading venom 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:14pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
genq: You better have my time before you legit kill your already dying self ya hear... 12 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:14pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Rocktation could you be kind to move this thread to frontpage for more mature, balanced and positive contributions. Plz o 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Tarabye: 5:19pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 5:35pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
healthserve: Sharrapp I asked op to discuss with her husband I didn't ask her to leave him or turn against her marriage. You deal with your inability to comprehend first 18 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:36pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: The energy, vile and destructive. You proved it right Op stay away from this one and her counsel. Save your marriage by preserving it from bad energy. 15 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:36pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Tarabye: If you read my very first comment, you'd clearly see where my proof is, but you had to wail and whine cos some Yoruba, not all o, was mentioned, you will be fine. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DanielJones: 5:37pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
genq: Biko, you need water to cool your body. I understand that everywhere is hot today. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 5:38pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
healthserve:yenyenyenyen Cry baby 13 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:40pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by CHoccolaTE: 5:41pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
healthserve: Lol And he quoted me first to type trash Bye don't let the door hit you on your way out 16 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 5:43pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Wareva bitter girl 11 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Tarabye: 5:53pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by armadeo(m): 6:02pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
LewsTherin: Youre smart. @op your husband is depressed due to his lack of funds to cater for his family and now you're doing the job. In reality many women are in your shoes and many marriages have crashed due to this issue. Do as the above poster adviced, give him a semblance of authority something gto make him feel in charge again and you'll be surprised at the change. Its gonna be hard cos the problem.youre dealing with is mental and has its logic despite how illogical it appears. It's all in your hands now. Be strong for him and he'll surely remember when he gets back on his feet. All the best. Modified.. Take note of 24kmagic post. 17 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by queenfav(f): 7:40pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Men get away with so much cr.ap. This is why a lot of women are looking twice their age. He resigned from his job and refused to take a lower paying job. The same wife that has been holding the home down financially and taking care of three children is still the one he is making life hell for. This should be a time where either he agrees to a domestic help to make her life easier or he does the chores himself! . . I don't believe in sugar coating things. Op married a very selfish and emotionally abusive man and she just has to manage him like that. Again all these boils down to what a woman agrees to stomach from day one in her marriage!A man only doles out as much cr.ap that he knows you will stomach without standing up for what you want. . . The moment he started making flimsy complains about the helps was when she should have asked him how he expects her to cope with chores, three kids and a job should she fire the help? As a woman, pls marry a man you can talk to, not one u see and cower in fear. Marriage is a partnership, not a master slave relationship! A man who wants his marriage to work will be thinking of how to make life easier for his wife, not watch her work like a horse till she looks like an 85 year old woman! 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by healthserve(m): 7:41pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
queenfav: Babe. |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by queenfav(f): 7:48pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
thorpido:The ego part is what's making me boil. This is a time where he should even look for ways to make his wife happy,not add to her problems. 19 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by DanielJones: 8:13pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
24kmagic: Hmmmm...this could be true. There are men like this. I was in my uncle's house several years ago while in Unilag and his 7 years old boy asked me why are fathers described as the bread winner of the family in his civic education textbook. I simply said because he is the one who takes care of the major needs of the family. My uncle was right there in the sitting room watching a program on the television. My little cousin later responded sharply "it is a lie my dad is not the bread winner. Everyday he sits at home and watch movies while my mum is the one who goes out to work and provide money for us". If you see the look on my uncle's face ehn. I just helped to save the situation by saying "come on Junior, your dad gave your mum money to start her business, so he is still the one financing the family. Your dad sells cars, so he does not necessarily need to go to work everyday, so he can work from home." No be small thing o . 37 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by armadeo(m): 8:32pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
queenfav: The shoe pinches who wears it. Jn one post I said that the problem as yoh put it is ego. Its logical in its illogicality. The wife has to understand the situation and manage it as such. This is a typical example of for better for worse. If she manages it well then they come out stronger ( hoping the man gets back on his feet). If she doesn't then Cyracus Nzekwe will report thier case. Now is the time to prove herself. Beyond reasonable doubt. Its akin to having a family member with a mental health issue. Is it his fault no!. But you have to manage it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by Beatswim: 9:26pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
MamaFryo:i can sense u aren't married.. Get married and learn dear sister... This man was loving and hard working before his change of attitude due to frustration and his not been able to fend for his family... Now back to the op.. Shes a strong and God fearing woman just like my wife... I passsed through the same issue for 5years and my wife did the same but everything turned around since 2018...dear op pls be patient wt this man.. See a good prophet... And respect your husband wt all you have... If u can continue... Your husband will regain all hr has lost.. And those your 3 lucky children will become great in life... This is just a passing phase for your family so that u can have a story to train those children.. 17 Likes 1 Share |
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